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re: Do Affair Relationships Last After Divorce?
Posted on 1/17/24 at 12:05 pm to Gatiger1955
Posted on 1/17/24 at 12:05 pm to Gatiger1955
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My now wife and I were both in bad marriages when we had our affair. Neither of us think what we did was right, and aren't necessarily proud of how we started but we've been married for thirty years and have 4 children together,all grown with families of their own. We are the exception I guess but we couldn't be happier.
So did you divorce before or after you starting screwing the new chick? It's pretty simple. If you actually cheated on your wife, you're a piece of shite, regardless of the ultimate outcome.
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Posted on 1/17/24 at 12:19 pm to shutterspeed
We're in a throwaway society. People throw their marriages and relationships away like used toilet paper.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 12:48 pm to Mike da Tigah
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Do Affair Relationships Last After Divorce?
If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 12:50 pm to Mike da Tigah
The little head is undefeated
Posted on 1/17/24 at 12:55 pm to Rex Feral
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Wife, maybe.
Whatever was there...is gone now.
Posted on 1/17/24 at 1:12 pm to Mike da Tigah
I've been the dude in an "affair" twice. Only one was marriage, other was someone in a long term relationship. I didn't know, I wasn't really using social media, and they never mentioned they were in another relationship. We hung out a lot too, multiple times a week so it's kind of a situation of how they hell are you supposed to know?
Posted on 1/17/24 at 2:06 pm to Mike da Tigah
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If people really thought critically about these statistics just prior to making a move to cheating on their spouse, do you think they would push the self destruction button on their marriage?
I agree with looking at things rationally. Let’s talk thousands of years of biology. Women want men who are at least a lateral move or above them status wise. This can be perceived differently by different women. It could be aggressiveness/masculinity, looks, money, job, etc. Women don’t want to marry down. They want competent men. Men will marry down in status and lift a woman up. The kind of men most women are attracted to usually have options. These men make up a fraction of the population. Maybe 25%. Most women want a man other woman want. This creates a trap for women.
This post was edited on 1/17/24 at 2:11 pm
Posted on 1/17/24 at 2:15 pm to mtnhighTiger
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We're in a throwaway society. People throw their marriages and relationships away like used toilet paper.
Two things to me were devastating to the sexes.
Women- social media, Men- easily available porn
I would tell most women to at least limit social media. Don’t use it for validation from men and even women.
Men- get off the computer and talk to women in real life. Make something of yourself in life and stay off the porn.
This post was edited on 1/17/24 at 2:16 pm
Posted on 1/17/24 at 2:28 pm to Mike da Tigah
I know of 2 couples. One couple was semi shunned. The other one remained relatively secretive until after the divorce and they are not shunned. The first wife in the second relationship was absolute shite apparently, so maybe that had something to do with the acceptance/treatment of replacement wife.
This post was edited on 1/17/24 at 2:30 pm
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:20 pm to Will Cover
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You know who Joe Beam is too?
Not sure who that is.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:36 pm to Mike da Tigah
When the wife cheats, the new guy will promise the moon.
I have seen it time and time again though….a few months after the divorce, the new guy is sick of the cheater divorcée and ready to move on.
The cheater wife will steal and kill to get back with the original husband.
Sometimes the woman realizes she made a colossal mistake during the affair and try to make things whole.
Women need to realize that if their man has a job, never hits them, does not do drugs and is a good father, you have a damn good man.
But women ALWAYS fall for the lover hookup lines and drop their panties for the new guy. Not until the new guy is a couple months in balls deep does the cheater woman realize she has been played for her poontang.
All sorta sad actually.
Also, some women are just crazy and will screw and blow every penis available no matter what.
I have seen it time and time again though….a few months after the divorce, the new guy is sick of the cheater divorcée and ready to move on.
The cheater wife will steal and kill to get back with the original husband.
Sometimes the woman realizes she made a colossal mistake during the affair and try to make things whole.
Women need to realize that if their man has a job, never hits them, does not do drugs and is a good father, you have a damn good man.
But women ALWAYS fall for the lover hookup lines and drop their panties for the new guy. Not until the new guy is a couple months in balls deep does the cheater woman realize she has been played for her poontang.
All sorta sad actually.
Also, some women are just crazy and will screw and blow every penis available no matter what.
This post was edited on 1/19/24 at 2:38 pm
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:40 pm to KillTheGophers
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Also, some women are just crazy and will screw and blow every penis available no matter what.
Zip codes?
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:43 pm to Oates Mustache
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So did you divorce before or after you starting screwing the new chick? It's pretty simple. If you actually cheated on your wife, you're a piece of shite, regardless of the ultimate outcome.
He's basking in the sunset of his self accomplishment never to think about the people he burned to the ground. He's not sorry, he couldn't care less.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:44 pm to Mike da Tigah
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If they will CHEAT with you...then they will cheat ON YOU.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:47 pm to KillTheGophers
Now for the guys - I think the guys are worse on some fronts.
Once a guy becomes a cheater, it is damn hard to break that cycle for most men. We don’t want the woman…we want the thrill of forbidden sex and love seeing the clothes come off…it is an addiction. And there is an ample supply to sluts to help with this. I have fallen prey to sluts many, many times and I regret it.
Today, the sluts are so aggressive that it is too damn easy.
A poster earlier nailed it - if women would stay off of social media and of men would stay away from porn, many marriages would be saved.
I blame the crazy sluts…and for the housewife that turn into whores, you never come out ahead. Guys don’t want to marry your whore arse. They screw you for months or years…..but even if you trick him into marriage, he will always know what a slut you were.
My lesson learned in life….if you are going to cheat, get separated and file for divorce before banging sluts. Once divorced, try to remarry a decent woman that has not shown her reproductive parts to 175 guys.
That’s all I know
Once a guy becomes a cheater, it is damn hard to break that cycle for most men. We don’t want the woman…we want the thrill of forbidden sex and love seeing the clothes come off…it is an addiction. And there is an ample supply to sluts to help with this. I have fallen prey to sluts many, many times and I regret it.
Today, the sluts are so aggressive that it is too damn easy.
A poster earlier nailed it - if women would stay off of social media and of men would stay away from porn, many marriages would be saved.
I blame the crazy sluts…and for the housewife that turn into whores, you never come out ahead. Guys don’t want to marry your whore arse. They screw you for months or years…..but even if you trick him into marriage, he will always know what a slut you were.
My lesson learned in life….if you are going to cheat, get separated and file for divorce before banging sluts. Once divorced, try to remarry a decent woman that has not shown her reproductive parts to 175 guys.
That’s all I know
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:53 pm to Sofaking2
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I wish we could get real statistics on married men unknowingly raising another man’s child. I have heard estimates around 3-4% up to 10%. That’s a lot of men having no idea that’s not their child.
When 50% of the population divorces (w/kids), there is a good chance the numbers you listed are extremely low.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:54 pm to idlewatcher
Western Michigan getting 500 million is hilarious.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 2:57 pm to KillTheGophers
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Once divorced, try to remarry a decent woman that has not shown her reproductive parts to 175 guys.
Do you think your personal actions make that more likely to happen or less?
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:03 pm to KillTheGophers
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When the wife cheats, the new guy will promise the moon.
The "normal" housewife or recent divorcee type woman who goes into an affair often gets hurt the worst. Of the ones I've known, most aren't the same and were left severely damaged or toxic.
Posted on 1/29/24 at 10:11 pm to GetBackToWork
You sound bitter and under 5’8”
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