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re: Are Young Men Truly Lost?

Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:47 pm to
Posted by HonorThyWarEagle
Smoking with Snoop Dogg & Big Foot
Member since Sep 2022
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:47 pm to
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Single mothers. Yes, there are sacrifices that come with it. But there are benefits as well. I was always firmly against dating someone with a kid. Until I tried it.


Interesting.

I always took you as a shitty person but you’re slowly changing my mind
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:49 pm to
You just have to see the real person between the character I play on here.

A few topics I tend to stay true to reality on. Having just gotten out of a relationship helps me with perspective on this one.

I imagine the vast majority of my haters here would get along with me in reality.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 4:51 pm
Posted by HonorThyWarEagle
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Member since Sep 2022
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:54 pm to
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You just have to see the real person between the character I play on here.


I was wondering if you mellowed out to be honest

I hope you and your relationship go well - and WDE
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:56 pm to
Well, other than it being over, it went very well.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2984 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 4:56 pm to
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Single mothers.


This is the problem with today's society. Men who did everything right shouldn't have to settle and raise another man's kid and neither should taxpayers. Women need to be held more accountable for the choices they make.
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:02 pm to
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This is the problem with today's society. Men who did everything right shouldn't have to settle and raise another man's kid and neither should taxpayers. Women need to be held more accountable for the choices they make.


I'm not saying you're wrong at all.

What are your options though? Would you rather have an attractive younger woman who made some bad decisions at a young age or would you rather be single and lonely?

Both are valid options. I know which one I'd choose.
Posted by Brightside Bengal
Old Metairie
Member since Sep 2007
3884 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:20 pm to
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The problem is online dating really only works for the top 20% of men


Why aren't more men working to crack into the top 20%?
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2984 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:28 pm to
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What are your options though? Would you rather have an attractive younger woman who made some bad decisions at a young age or would you rather be single and lonely?


I got lucky and found a young attractive woman with no kids. She was raised by immigrant parents and has traditional values. I just care about this country's demographics and future success and know that won't be the case until we quit the whole princess treatment and start holding women accountable.
Posted by RazorBroncs
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Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:47 pm to
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Have you tried going to church? Like a medium-sized church with adult Sunday school for singles? You try EHarmony? Those seem to be the places marriage-minded women go.


Ding ding ding, winner. Particularly joining a church and attending services every Sunday and getting yourself involved in the extra-curriculars like volunteering for their community events.

It helps if it's a younger pastor at a non-denominational or loosely baptist/Methodist, medium sized church that doesn't take itself too seriously to the point of being stuffy old congregations that think you can't even smile or laugh while in attendance. I've found that younger pastors draw younger congregations.

Go for the education, volunteering, self fulfillment, community with others, and getting closer to God first, and suddenly you'll start feeling much better about yourself and become much happier inside and out.

The rest will fall into place on its own, and before you know it you'll be happily married and starting a family. 100% of the time it works every time.

Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
279380 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:49 pm to
He can’t find common ground with women so why would get start going to church to find someone who believes in that crap when he doesn’t. Makes no sense
Posted by r0cky1
Member since Oct 2020
3408 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:51 pm to
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Porn will ruin the younger generations of men. Something needs to be done. Unlimited, easy access is the root of a lot of problems. Combine that with the work from home era and we are doomed as a society.


Ultimately, this new phenomenon needs to be addressed by fathers. They need to guide their sons to know the dangers. Talking about sex isn’t fun and nobody wants to talk about porn. However, seeing the unspoken addiction it causes it needs to be a conversation had. Thankfully never had an issue with it but if I ever have sons I feel like it’s horrible convo that will be needed to bad when of age
Posted by OceanTiger83
Member since Jul 2023
192 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:52 pm to
This is a little bit of a deviation from the original topic but it still relates.

Since we've talked about relationships between the sexes and how men have changed, here's a topic similar to that. We all have our preferences and our fantasies/fetishes. Do any of you all in particular have a female ryona fantasy?

To explain to those not familiar with it, a ryona fantasy is the following:

Ryona (???), is a Japanese term for a sexual complex where a female character is, usually sexually, attacked or tortured by either a man or another female character(s).

This has become big in the gamer community. One of the fighting games I've played off and on at times (the Soul Calibur series) in particularly is popular with this. You've even seen it go over into popular series where people make videos of the female protagonist (usually a super hero type series) is absolutely defeated and humiliated.

What are your thoughts on this type of fantasy? Do you think these are the type of fantasies that are hurting men (both young and old) with interacting with women in real life?
Posted by PrecedentedTimes
Member since Dec 2020
3128 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:55 pm to
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To explain to those not familiar with it, a ryona fantasy is the following: Ryona (???), is a Japanese term for a sexual complex where a female character is, usually sexually, attacked or tortured by either a man or another female character(s). This has become big in the gamer community.


Jesus Christ no wonder you can’t get laid.

Just go to Istanbul and quit bothering us
Posted by OceanTiger83
Member since Jul 2023
192 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 5:57 pm to
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Jesus Christ no wonder you can’t get laid.

Just go to Istanbul and quit bothering us


While I enjoy some games here and there (especially sports games) I wouldn't categorize myself as a gamer. I definitely don't spend hours and hours playing like most gamers do. I'll easily go a week sometimes without playing at all which is more than a lot of other posters here can say. Honestly I'm not even good enough to call myself a gamer.

I was just bringing up some of the big fantasies I've heard some men having and I know this is a big one in the gamer/nerd/anime community.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 5:58 pm
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 6:04 pm to
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start holding women accountable.


Glad you found your option.

What does that quote even mean though?
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2984 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 6:15 pm to
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What does that quote even mean though?




Women in America are treated like children for the most part until they hit their 30's. My sister was in and out of our house because she picked the wrong men or would quit jobs that were too "hard." My mom had to babysit my neice for free constantly until she got on her feet. As the son, I was never given that option. I know not all women are given the princess complex but it's extremely common.
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
8539 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 6:21 pm to
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Friend of mine in college swore statistically you could walk up to 10 different women at a bar and straight up ask if she wants to frick and 1 out of 10 will do it.



I could do at least 3 out 10 when I was in Galveston. And get at least 1 “ not here, not now.”
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
279380 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 6:23 pm to
ive never heard of that. I dont game though.


have you ever had a long term relationship? honestly asking

It sounds like you are caught up in the internet and gaming and such.



Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 6:25 pm to
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Women in America are treated like children for the most part until they hit their 30's. My sister was in and out of our house because she picked the wrong men or would quit jobs that were too "hard." My mom had to babysit my neice for free constantly until she got on her feet. As the son, I was never given that option. I know not all women are given the princess complex but it's extremely common.


More of a parenting issue though, isn't it?

I think that's probably less common than we think it is. This board skews towards white middle class at the least, so it'd definitely be represented more with this demographic.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
6569 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 6:32 pm to
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Just go to Istanbul


Please, tell me more. TK is my favorite airline, and the stews can be some of the hottest women on the planet (albeit no boobs). 1/2 of them seem to be Gal Godot, and the lounge is banging. I will be on TK34 in no time.
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