I've started to empathize with the ladies that say they're too attractive to date.

I feel like mine is a combo of lifestyle and attraction.

I recently tried the dating app Bumble. I right swiped on a mid, mainly because she had big titties and a PhD (no pics since she deleted me before I had a chance to save them). A day later I received a message from her that said "nice to match with you, but your profile seems fake. When you zoom in the photos don't look like they were uploaded from your phone. Sorry if you are real, but we live in a world where a lot of people try to create fake / scam profiles."

Then she said she's dated in our city before and she has never seen me. This was her next clue that I'm new at this or not real at all.

I responded with "congrats on being the first woman to be able to arouse and insult me at the same time."

Her next comment was "yep, you're fake" and she deleted me before I could respond.


All of my profile pictures are real though. I've traveled to a lot of cool places and have many pictures to validate it. I thought chicks were turned off by pictures of guys holding a fish or gym selfies. Now they're turned off by travel photos? I was just trying to post what my interests are and present the best version of me. All but one of her pics were selfies, so maybe she's lived a boring life and doesn't view my lifestyle as authentic.

In high school and college I would say I was slightly above average in looks, I would give myself a 6.5 overall. I'm approaching my mid 40s and I look 7 to 8 years younger. I'm fit with a full head of hair and very little graying. So I'm probably around an 8.5 for my age bracket at this point.

I right swipe on a wide range of women from different economic / education backgrounds. The majority of women that match with me have a career that requires a higher education such as, doctor, lawyer, or some random PhD. I just hold a bachelors degree and barely make over 6 figures and I can't lure a woman with a similar status to right swipe on the app.