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I knew I was an adult when I realized my dad was right about everything.

Posted on 5/5/23 at 12:57 pm
Posted by Rex Feral
Member since Jan 2014
14749 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 12:57 pm
His favorite saying was 'Walk fast, drive slow, pay cash, or don't go'. It took me a while to figure it out and I'm still kicking myself for ever questioning the wisdom he tried to drop on me.
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
5154 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

I knew I was an adult when I realized my dad was NOT right about everything.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
82572 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 12:59 pm to
I don't disagree with that
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56320 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:01 pm to
I can't think of a single thing that my dad has told me that wasn't right.
Posted by jaytothen
Member since Jan 2020
7650 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:03 pm to
quote:

I can't think of a single thing that my dad has told me that wasn't right.


Playing with it will make you go blind is one
Posted by footswitch
New Market
Member since Apr 2015
4446 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:04 pm to
Every time I said, “Dad I’ve learned my lesson”, he replied “No son, you’ve learned one more.”

Great guy and I miss him dearly.
Posted by TROLA
BATON ROUGE
Member since Apr 2004
13937 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:07 pm to
I realized I was when I made him admit he was wrong about something he presumed to know more about the me..

He said. You know what. You’re right and I was wrong. His admission that I was able to coherently explain a real problem and fix the problem was all it took. It was tough for him to realize I was my own man and something I’m working on as my oldest transitions to adulthood over the coming years.
This post was edited on 5/5/23 at 1:28 pm
Posted by BigBinBR
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2023
7537 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:09 pm to
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His favorite saying was 'Walk fast, drive slow, pay cash, or don't go'.


Mine always told me “If you can’t be good, be good at it.”
Posted by WB Davis
Member since May 2018
2327 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:12 pm to
Mine used to say, "pay cash for anything that depreciates."

Saved me a lot of grief.

Posted by johnqpublic
Right here
Member since Oct 2017
745 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:14 pm to
“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”

- Mark Twain
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83648 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:16 pm to
Agree with both of you, two signs of maturity:

- Realizing that your parents were right about a lot

- Realizing that they were normal, fallible people who had vulnerabilities and probably felt like they were making it up as they went along (while you, as a kid, thought they had everything confidently buttoned up)

Of course I know for some of us, neither of those are true because your parents weren't right and you never thought they had it all together - which is unfortunate.
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
86968 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:17 pm to
Subtle "I have a dad" brag
Posted by Mr Breeze
The Lunatic Fringe
Member since Dec 2010
6506 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:23 pm to
The older I got, the smarter my Dad became.



He's been gone over 20 years, still miss him.
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20502 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:23 pm to
Why was he afraid of credit or debit cards?
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49108 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 1:26 pm to
More old man wisdom..


Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
6790 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 2:12 pm to
My dad is still an idiot.
Posted by Summerchild
On top of the world.
Member since Dec 2022
382 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 2:31 pm to
I realized it very early on. Dad was almost always right.

Only thing I did not agree with was “nothing good happens after midnight”. I knew that was patently untrue. He may have had ulterior motives in telling his little girl that though.
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
9137 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 2:57 pm to
I miss my Dad. He was very wise.

When my son was 16 I was very smart. I overheard him say it. He was teachable and would even concede when he knew he was wrong.

I will concede quickly to logic and facts. He has a never been able to concede like a gentleman.

Some of his classmates have told me that once they grew up and got real jobs and families they realized why I pushed them hard and tried to teach them at every opportunity. They appreciate it now. My son dislikes being spoken to on a job.

Then when the testosterone hit him full blast I became stupid. Working or communicating in peace together became impossible. I can’t deal with deal with mind frickery.
This post was edited on 5/5/23 at 3:08 pm
Posted by TONYCLIFTON_1
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2022
129 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 3:01 pm to
happiest ppl walk slow
Posted by BatonRougeBuckeye
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Aug 2013
1840 posts
Posted on 5/5/23 at 3:18 pm to
quote:

Mine always told me “If you can’t be good, be good at it.”


My dad told me when I left for college. "Be Good. And if you cant be good...dont get caught"
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