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Tina Knowles-Lawson opens up about the 'painful conversation' she's had with her grandson

Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:04 pm
Posted by L.A.
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:04 pm
Okay, full disclosure. I have no idea who this woman is. I assume she's an actress, or something similar.

But does she not realize that white parents have the exact same conversations with our kids? Talk about a race-centric view of reality

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Tina Knowles-Lawson recently opened up about the stereotypes that impact her family— particularly her teenage grandson.

The famous mom of two spoke to Insider last week about the "painful conversation" she regularly has with her eldest grandchild, Solange's 17-year-old son Daniel Smith Jr.

"It hurts me to my heart that I have to constantly say to him — teach him how to act, so to speak, just in certain situations — 'If you encounter the police, then do not make certain moves if you are in a car. Don't talk back. Make it home,'" she told Insider. "That's a painful conversation to have with my grandson."

"I don't want him to even be thinking about that," she continued. "He should just be thinking about being a teenager, but as a Black grandmother, I have to have that conversation all the time."

Knowles-Lawson explained that Black boys and men are perceived as "dangerous" by many people, including police officers, which is the focus of her new show "Profiled: The Black Man."

insider via msn




Posted by TomBuchanan
East Egg, Long Island
Member since Jul 2019
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:06 pm to
I'm white and my dad sat me down and said the same thing the day I got my license
Posted by 93and99
Dayton , Oh / Allentown , Pa
Member since Dec 2018
14400 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:08 pm to
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"It hurts me to my heart that I have to constantly say to him — teach him how to act, so to speak, just in certain situations — 'If you encounter the police, then do not make certain moves if you are in a car. Don't talk back. Make it home,'" she told Insider. "That's a painful conversation to have with my grandson."



My dad had this conversation with his four sons.

It just seems like young black men and/or boys don't listen.
Posted by Strannix
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Member since Dec 2012
52846 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:12 pm to
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Black boys and men are perceived as "dangerous" by many people


It's not without reason, I also perceive white methhead looking mfers as potentially dangerous. And when I see a black man on the golf course or at a meeting in a suit or eating with his family in a restaurant I do not perceive him as potentially dangerous, this is getting absurd.
This post was edited on 2/16/22 at 8:14 pm
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:14 pm to
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Tina Knowles-Lawson
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famous mom of two
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42086 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:16 pm to
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I have no idea who this woman is.


in all seriousness, you have to be living under a rock to not know that is Beyonce's mother......
Posted by chity
Chicago, Il
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:17 pm to
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 'If you encounter the police, then do not make certain moves if you are in a car. Don't talk back. Make it home,'" 


Stats show that he has more to fear of being killed by other blacks then by police.
Posted by jamboybarry
Member since Feb 2011
33178 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:17 pm to
It amuses me that a conversation about respecting law enforcement is seen now as taboo

Honk frickity honk
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:18 pm to
quote:

Knowles-Lawson explained that Black boys and men are perceived as "dangerous" by many people, including police officers, which is the focus of her new show "Profiled: The Black Man."


Stereotypes exist for a reason.

Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
33933 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:22 pm to
I’ve had this exact discussion with my kids so many times they laugh about it.

This is not race specific.

Posted by Fat Bastard
2024 NFL pick'em champion
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:23 pm to
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It just seems like young black men and/or boys don't listen.


77% do not have fathers!!!!
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
154046 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:24 pm to
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in all seriousness, you have to be living under a rock to not know that is Beyonce's mother
All seriousness aside, as Steve Allen used to say, do you really believe everyone is supposed to know Beyonce's mother? Or for that matter, Beyonce?
Posted by Pendulum
Member since Jan 2009
7908 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:24 pm to
So don't make aggressive moves towards a cop, don't talk back to a cop....???

Mind blowing shite there. How tragic to have to teach your children to have some semblance of basic respect for cops.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
43910 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:28 pm to
I wouldn’t consider it responsible parenting to not tell your kids or grandkids this advice.
Posted by aggressor
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:29 pm to
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
13436 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:30 pm to
quote:

"It hurts me to my heart that I have to constantly say to him — teach him how to act, so to speak, just in certain situations — 'If you encounter the police, then do not make certain moves if you are in a car. Don't talk back


It hurts to teach common sense, common courtesy and respect for the law?
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22312 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:33 pm to
Both her teets and eyes are too far apart. Dismissed
Posted by riverparish
Member since Dec 2007
1530 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:33 pm to
1) you shouldn’t have to tell your teenage son not to talk back to an adult. You should’ve taught them that, taught them “yes sir/no sir”, and to have manners from the time they were toddlers
2) my parents didn’t need to have any kind of talk with me on what to do with the police cause I knew how to talk to an adult
3) my parents did have to talk to me on where I shouldn’t drive and what places to avoid for my safety. I’ve said it before….who’s in more danger, the black guy hanging around university club or the white guy hanging around north BR?
Posted by Boring
Member since Feb 2019
3792 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:33 pm to
quote:

My dad had this conversation with his four sons. It just seems like young black men and/or boys don't listen.


Can’t have a father son conversation if you don’t have a father around.

That said, my parents gave me the same, “don’t act like a jackass around cops” speech among a hundred other dinner time lessons on how not to be a piece of shite in a civilized society.
Posted by L.A.
The Mojave Desert
Member since Aug 2003
65312 posts
Posted on 2/16/22 at 8:34 pm to
If that’s who she is, Beyoncé’s mom, I’d be embarrassed to admit that I knew that
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