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Woke up in tears over a dream
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:27 am
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:27 am
Of course I came to the right place to post this and I’ll try to make it short. Last night I had a dream I was interviewing candidates for a job. I was walking the first interviewee out when I saw her. A previous work friend that had unfortunately died almost 4 years ago.
Even though I’m married, me and this woman became good friends at our job and we became close. When she died, it crushed me. She had a disease that finally took her life. I spoke at her funeral, choking on my words through trying to fight back tears.
In my dream she smiles at me and I give her the biggest hug and tell her that I’ve missed her. I felt this warmth throughout my body as if she was really present. She never says a word to me, but I get this feeling that she’s okay. Then she pulls away and I wake up crying.
I’m not sure what’s out there after death but dammit I feel better about it after this dream.
TL/DR. Dead coworker visits me in my dream. Felt real.
Also. No I did not have an affair with this woman, but we bonded over a shite job and she became my work wife. Yes my wife knew about her.
Even though I’m married, me and this woman became good friends at our job and we became close. When she died, it crushed me. She had a disease that finally took her life. I spoke at her funeral, choking on my words through trying to fight back tears.
In my dream she smiles at me and I give her the biggest hug and tell her that I’ve missed her. I felt this warmth throughout my body as if she was really present. She never says a word to me, but I get this feeling that she’s okay. Then she pulls away and I wake up crying.
I’m not sure what’s out there after death but dammit I feel better about it after this dream.
TL/DR. Dead coworker visits me in my dream. Felt real.
Also. No I did not have an affair with this woman, but we bonded over a shite job and she became my work wife. Yes my wife knew about her.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:28 am to HuskyPanda
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Woke up in tears over a dream
I am sure the OT will provide much understanding.

Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:29 am to HuskyPanda
Should’ve slept with her while you had the chance. Now you regret you didn’t.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:29 am to HuskyPanda
I hope it was a healing experience. 

Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:30 am to HuskyPanda
Did you tell your wife you had a wet dream about a deceased co-worker?
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:33 am to HuskyPanda
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she became my work wife. Yes my wife knew about her.
Jesus man
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:35 am to BeerMoney
Necrophilia, even in a dream, is pretty bad. Might want to get that T-level checked, and hope it’s that…
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:38 am to HuskyPanda
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I’ll try to make it short
You failed, but I read it anyway. Touching story.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:38 am to Tiger in Gatorland
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I hope it was a healing experience
It was baw. I was on vacation when she was admitted to the hospital. I never visited because she would text me that she was feeling great and would be back soon. Then I got the message from her boyfriend that she had passed. I regret never visiting.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:39 am to HuskyPanda
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Even though I’m married, me and this woman became good friends at our job and we became close.
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she became my work wife. Yes my wife knew about her.

Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:39 am to HuskyPanda
Grief can come in many forms and closure any kind can certainly help. 

Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:42 am to HuskyPanda
My mom has experienced this with her dad. Brought her a lot of comfort. Some people will say it’s just a dream but why not wonder if they really came to visit you to say goodbye? So much we don’t understand about the afterlife.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:43 am to HuskyPanda
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Woke up in tears over a dream
Congrats on the Low T
Here is a life hint: Nobody gives a shite about other people's dreams. They mean nothing. Nobody cares about my dream where I went went back in time and was in the Regulate video with Warren G. Why do they not care? Because it wasn't fricking real.
This post was edited on 1/20/23 at 6:51 am
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:48 am to Rouge
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Woke up in tears over a dream
Congrats on the Low T
The low T happened long before OP had this dream.
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became my work wife.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:49 am to HuskyPanda
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Woke up in tears over a dream
I had that happen many years ago. I had a nightmare where my wife had been killed.
Worst experience ever.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:49 am to HuskyPanda
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Woke up...
...quick, at about noon,
just thought that I had to be in Compton soon.
Posted on 1/20/23 at 6:52 am to HuskyPanda
I had a similar dream about a year after my dad died. We had a complicated relationship because he was an alcoholic, but I never doubted his love. In the dream, I ran into him at the park near my childhood home. He was smiling and telling me he’s never felt better. He looked so happy. It makes me tear up remembering, and this was over 10 years ago. Whether it was a God thing or my brain helping me heal, it brought me so much peace.
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