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re: What Did Men Do to Deserve This? (Another take on the so-called man/boy crisis)

Posted on 11/12/25 at 8:13 pm to
Posted by roadGator
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Posted on 11/12/25 at 8:13 pm to
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moomoo in a twist.


A moomoo would be stretched to the limit in her case.
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 11/12/25 at 8:18 pm to
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Then what else could cause (1) the extreme reversal and (2) current gap?
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In what? College attendance?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
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Posted on 11/12/25 at 8:19 pm to
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In what?


Posted by roadGator
DeBoar’s dome
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Posted on 11/12/25 at 8:22 pm to
I can smell the wafting of emotional bullshite from the chart.

The feminization of America is going to part of our eventual demise.
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
Bat'n Rudge
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Posted on 11/12/25 at 8:28 pm to
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Women are, by and large, a bunch of self absorbed narcissists lol


Look no further than Jimmy Kimmel's wife when she was crying about her Trump-supporting relatives: "A vote for Trump is a vote against ME and MY family."
Posted by Narax
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Posted on 11/12/25 at 9:13 pm to
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This is absolutely not true. At least not in Louisiana. Teachers are not allowed to talk about medicating children for any reason with parents as far as I know.

I fully agree red and blue states are different.

But if you read the article its very true in many areas of the nation.

You were fine blaming doctors because you could blame "capitalism", but when magazines like psychology today are concerned about the impact of teachers, you state its not true.

If you want to talk about only men in Louisiana, then I dont have many anecdotal experiences.

But then again it is possible that Louisiana men are just well adjusted beyond what Blue state men are.

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both my older kids had IEPs for speech. IEPs are not always intended to be permanent.

Yes, thats why the parents are pushed into the overmedication.

Do you think they will get off it without medication?

The problem is they are targeting normal male behaviors and saying fix it or else.

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there’s been a major shift towards the “least restrictive environment” in the last 10-15 or so years. For better or worse, there are fewer self-contained classes for kids with IEPs. Kids with IEPs get what’s called “push in” support for a paraprofessional or sped teacher in the general education classroom now.

Agreed and its more positive.
My brother is a SP ED teacher, I do think behavior management is far far superior to medical management.

But remember, the kids who started school 10 years ago are only entering high-school.
Posted by dafif
Member since Jan 2019
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 8:14 am to
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If you don't mind me asking, which major?


He started in the 5 year engineering program and when he fell behind he switched to history and became a lawyer
Posted by 4cubbies
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 8:49 am to
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But if you read the article its very true in many areas of the nation.



I hadn't read it when I initially responded.

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For instance, a child in Kentucky is three times as likely to be diagnosed with ADHD as a child in Nevada. And a child in Louisiana is five times as likely to take medication for ADHD as a child in Nevada.


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Specifically, Drs. Hinshaw and Scheffler’s team found a correlation between the states with the highest rates of ADHD diagnosis and laws that penalize school districts when students fail. Some of these laws are what they call “consequential accountability statutes”—that is, laws like No Child Left Behind, which make school funding contingent on the number of students who pass standardized tests.



As someone who taught public elementary school in Louisiana, I have some thoughts.



50% more kids in Louisiana are covered by Medicaid than in Nevada. Fourteen percent more kids in Kentucky are covered by Medicaid than in Nevada. There's a correlation there.

This 2024 report shows that Mississippi, Louisiana, Arkansas, Alabama and Kentucky respectively have the largest percentage of kids who receive SSI. Kids with diagnoses such as ADHD are eligible for SSI. Nevada has the 47th highest percentage of its kids receiving SSI.

Again, there's a correlation there.

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You were fine blaming doctors because you could blame "capitalism", but when magazines like psychology today are concerned about the impact of teachers, you state its not true.


The Psychology Today article you linked did not make any statements or implications about teachers recommending ADHD medication for students. Neither article you linked blamed teachers. They both blame government policies like No Child Left Behind.

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But then again it is possible that Louisiana men are just well adjusted beyond what Blue state men are.

This made me audibly laugh. I do not believe this is the case.

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Do you think they will get off it without medication?


My 8 year old no longer has an IEP. My 6 year old still has one but I'm sure she will "graduate" at the time of her annual IEP meeting. Neither of them are medicated - they just needed speech therapy.

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My brother is a SP ED teacher, I do think behavior management is far far superior to medical management.


Agree, in some cases. It just all depends on the child and the exceptionality. I was a sped teacher at one point, myself. In a Title I urban school in New Orleans so you can imagine the kinds of behaviors I dealt with on a daily basis.
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 9:25 am to
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Then what else could cause (1) the extreme reversal and (2) current gap?


And you don't want to entertain the points brought up in the OP?
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
61385 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 9:35 am to
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Part of your ire should be toward trans men, women, wtf ever. Since they are, again, doing exactly what you started the three about. But your propaganda can’t go against the tranny agenda. They pull rank over women.



This isn't true. I view trans people as mentally ill. I don't advocate for trans-acceptance nor do I feel compelled to devote much energy to such a minute portion of the population.
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 9:38 am to
4cubbies still trying to figure out why trannies arent on that chart.
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 9:43 am to
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This isn't true. I view trans people as mentally ill. I don't advocate for trans-acceptance nor do I feel compelled to devote much energy to such a minute portion of the population.


I love witnessing the Emma Watson effect. It's spreading like wildfire.

America is starting to heal. Before you know it 4chubby will have never been for mass immigration or the social welfare nanny state.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 9:45 am to
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And you don't want to entertain the points brought up in the OP?



Hilarious. You have been asked a hundred questions you avoid like the plague, yet want others to "entertain" your thoughts.

Why are men incarcerated more than women at a rate of 9-1?
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
61385 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 9:59 am to
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America is starting to heal. Before you know it 4chubby will have never been for mass immigration or the social welfare nanny state.



Feel free to post any evidence of me ever advocating for trans anything. I know you won't because you're emotionally-driven and it's much easier to throw out wild accusations than to actually turn your brain on.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 11/13/25 at 10:06 am to
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You have been asked a hundred questions you avoid like the plague, yet want others to "entertain" your thoughts.


That's every thread that poster gets involved in
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
28137 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 10:06 am to
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Feel free to post any evidence of me ever advocating for trans anything. I know you won't because you're emotionally-driven and it's much easier to throw out wild accusations than to actually turn your brain on.


You already know what I'm going to bring up, so there's no need digging back a year or two through your posts to find it.

You denied tranny porn was in public school libraries, then when shown it was true, blew it off and said something to the effect of "it's not like it's going to turn your kid gay or trans or anything".

You're empathy first on virtually all policy.

But I am glad you're doing a 180 on the tranny shite now, even if it's only due to a large public opinion shift.
This post was edited on 11/13/25 at 10:08 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299586 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 10:07 am to
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That's every thread that poster gets involved in



Absolutely. She's a total fraud.
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
61385 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 10:35 am to
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You denied tranny porn was in public school libraries, then when shown it was true, blew it off and said something to the effect of "it's not like it's going to turn your kid gay or trans or anything".





Me saying, "I don't care if this book is available in a library somewhere" is not the same as me saying "trans people are mentally sound." Calling the book tranny porn is another emotionally-driven claim by you. But whatever, fixate on this book all you want. The only reason I know it exists is because you've been posting about it for years.

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But I am glad you're doing a 180 on the tranny shite now

I still don't care that that book has been published and is available in libraries. Haven't done a 180 at all.


Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
3624 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 10:36 am to
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since women/girls are generally ignored, we only hear about men and boys "in crisis."


Someone needs to tell the women that butttt they wouldn’t listen. They’d just complain more if that’s even possible
Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
3624 posts
Posted on 11/13/25 at 10:36 am to
They have to be ignored somewhat otherwise we’d get nothing done and lose our sanity
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