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How do we change the culture of bad decision-making?
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:07 am
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:07 am
serious thread not related to Trump or PC/SJW culture
i was skimming this article about how lots of activities "cost more" if you're poor. it's a relatively benign piece, but the comments get pretty hot and heavy.
i agree with that essentially 100%. the general response to that comment is somewhat repetitive, but can be boiled down to this
and this
and i get it. the question is how do we go about addressing these issues of education and culture? as a follow up, how do we do this without being called assholes? there is this belief by those who defend the poor that either there is some inherent cultural value in this life system or that it's not proper to insult/criticize the people who taught these values to their children and proliferated the culture. that makes it seem almost impossible to me to break this cycle. if we can't point out the failures and these failures are protected, then there is no way to stop these failures from promoting the very same culture/mindset that turned them into failures onto others (namely their children)
i was skimming this article about how lots of activities "cost more" if you're poor. it's a relatively benign piece, but the comments get pretty hot and heavy.
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Eh, there are some correlations but this doesn’t prove causation. A lot of poor people are poor due to bad decisions and/or lack of forward thinking, such as not purchasing toilet paper in bulk or on sale.
When the credit card scanner breaks and you have to go inside to pay for gas, who do you see inside buying lottery tickets and basic items you could get for half the price at a grocery store? Poor people.
Those people aren’t poor because the system is set up to make them buy expensive TP or because their car insurance is more than other people’s. There will be exceptions, of course, but in general people are poor because they make bad decisions (which is probably exactly the reason their car insurance is more).
i agree with that essentially 100%. the general response to that comment is somewhat repetitive, but can be boiled down to this
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I’d hate to call you an a-hole, but I will anyways.
Most of the time it’s not “bad” decisions. You wouldn’t know you’re making a bad decision unless you were properly educated on what is or isn’t.
and this
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Sure there are people who are poor because of bad decision making, but there are also a lot of people who are poor due to a number of outside structural factors that make transcending poverty very difficult (including some pointed out in this article). And even that characterization of what constitutes “poor” decision making is often more a lack of options.
and i get it. the question is how do we go about addressing these issues of education and culture? as a follow up, how do we do this without being called assholes? there is this belief by those who defend the poor that either there is some inherent cultural value in this life system or that it's not proper to insult/criticize the people who taught these values to their children and proliferated the culture. that makes it seem almost impossible to me to break this cycle. if we can't point out the failures and these failures are protected, then there is no way to stop these failures from promoting the very same culture/mindset that turned them into failures onto others (namely their children)
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:08 am to SlowFlowPro
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How do we change the culture of bad decision-making?
Stop rewarding it
ETA example: If you have 1 baby, we (the government/American people) will help you out. When you have your 2nd-10th, you are on your own.
ETA2: The above example is for single mothers on welfare.
This post was edited on 2/13/17 at 12:04 pm
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:09 am to SlowFlowPro
Well actually teaching basic financial competence in middle school/early high school would help.
Also structuring the welfare that we currently have to provide (I don't agree with it, but it also isn't changing) in a way that rewards response decisions would help.
Also structuring the welfare that we currently have to provide (I don't agree with it, but it also isn't changing) in a way that rewards response decisions would help.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:11 am to SlowFlowPro
I was present for a conversation between some influential Baton Rouge people Saturday...
You'd be surprised how similar their wants are to yours. They want trade programs in schools like Zachary and denham springs have. Reward your kids at the top of the class with small business loans, stop tying funding to how many "special" kids you have diagnosed.
You'd be surprised how similar their wants are to yours. They want trade programs in schools like Zachary and denham springs have. Reward your kids at the top of the class with small business loans, stop tying funding to how many "special" kids you have diagnosed.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:13 am to SlowFlowPro
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the question is how do we go about addressing these issues of education and culture?
My gut tells me to start with school curriculum. I feel like I didn't learn shiite in grade school when it came to surviving in the real world.
But then again, these are probably demographics that don't really take school seriously anyways
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:15 am to SlowFlowPro
Ubi for all
Let em rot if bad decisions are made
Let em rot if bad decisions are made
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:15 am to SlowFlowPro
Before we can even have that discussion, many on the left need to accept that bad decision-making is the primary reason why most poor people are poor. Or at the least, just entertain the idea before acting appalled and throwing out the usual "you heartless racist" responses.
Did you see the Shapiro speech to the HS where he told the students that if your parents are poor their entire lives its probably because they're bad with money?
Did you see the Shapiro speech to the HS where he told the students that if your parents are poor their entire lives its probably because they're bad with money?
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:16 am to CoachChappy
Great idea coach chappy. Church will not stand for it.
We should give a 49k deduction for kid one. Net zero if 2nd child. Pay 10k extra tax for 3rd kid. 25k for #4.
We should give a 49k deduction for kid one. Net zero if 2nd child. Pay 10k extra tax for 3rd kid. 25k for #4.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:16 am to phillypie
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But then again, these are probably demographics that don't really take school seriously anyways
yes
schools aren't an option because the lack of valuing of education is a big reason why the poverty keeps perpetuating
and the powers that be will never let you run a lower SES school in a way that allows force social stratification of the students for the same reasons of the "a-hole" logic. there is this emotional reaction to being negative towards a lower SES person. creating a school structure that will magnify this person just isn't in the cards for emotional-led thinkers.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:17 am to SlowFlowPro
End welfare and handouts
Safety nets run by private organizations
Safety nets run by private organizations
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:17 am to rocket31
quote:
Ubi for all
you want UBI and utopian health care?
how much money do you think we have, bro?
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:17 am to SlowFlowPro
How are people successful?
-Good Decision Making
How do people learn to make good decisions?
-Experience
How do people gain experience?
-Bad Decision Making
-Good Decision Making
How do people learn to make good decisions?
-Experience
How do people gain experience?
-Bad Decision Making
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:19 am to SlowFlowPro
The concept behind no child left behind is a lot of feel good nonsense.
The simple truth is that due to learning disabilities, attitudes, homelife failures, or just bad luck, some kids are always left behind.
The simple truth is that due to learning disabilities, attitudes, homelife failures, or just bad luck, some kids are always left behind.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:19 am to geauxtigahs87
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Before we can even have that discussion, many on the left need to accept that bad decision-making is the primary reason why most poor people are poor. Or at the least, just entertain the idea before acting appalled and throwing out the usual "you heartless racist" responses.
it doesn't have to involve racism. you get those same emotional responses when dealing with the same issues in poor whites
but i agree this has to be the first step before we can have a discussion about poverty.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:20 am to SlowFlowPro
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there is this belief by those who defend the poor that either there is some inherent cultural value in this life system or that it's not proper to insult/criticize the people who taught these values to their children and proliferated the culture.
Some people are content to live in a trailer and live off frozen dinners and soda. If they are happy and not hurting anyone, so what? Not even wants to live in a mansion.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:21 am to SlowFlowPro
There is an easy way that typically always works: let it hurt.
Why do big banks and investors make risky decisions that ultimately resort in the collapse of the economy? Because they know they are too big to fail. They know the government will bail them out. If they knew that no one would catch them if they failed, they would be much more cautious.
Why do developers keep throwing up apartment complexes everywhere when there is already a massive glut of empty housing? They know the government will bail them out with section 8. Section 8 acts as an artificial price floor and a lifeboat for residential developers. If they cannot get enough tenets at the market rate, they can turn to section 8 for a garanteed check to fill their vacancies.
Why do irresponsible people have so many kids while responsible people do not? They're not paying the same price per kid. Having children, feeding them, schooling them, and paying for their healthcare can be very very expensive, unless you're poor and dependant, then it's free.
We pay these mothers more per kid, creating an incentive to have ever more kids!
We not only pull benefits from people who work too many hours or save too much money, but we then confiscate what they saved and make them pay it back to the government.
WE ARE PAYING PEOPLE TO MAKE BAD CHOICES BY INSULATING THEM FROM NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES!
There are some children who are born without the ability to feel pain. This is terrifying to parents because they can injure themselves, but the lack of a pain response means they are unlikely to react to their injury in a way that limits it. For example, if you touch a hot stove, it burns you, so you pull your hand away before it gets injured particularly badly. A child who cannot feel pain touches the hot stove and leaves it there. He cannot feel that he is being damaged, so he does not stop the damage. His hand burns until it is injured potentially beyond repair because there is no pain to motivate him to change his dangerous behavior.
Until people feel the pain of their poor decisions, they will continue to make them.
Why do big banks and investors make risky decisions that ultimately resort in the collapse of the economy? Because they know they are too big to fail. They know the government will bail them out. If they knew that no one would catch them if they failed, they would be much more cautious.
Why do developers keep throwing up apartment complexes everywhere when there is already a massive glut of empty housing? They know the government will bail them out with section 8. Section 8 acts as an artificial price floor and a lifeboat for residential developers. If they cannot get enough tenets at the market rate, they can turn to section 8 for a garanteed check to fill their vacancies.
Why do irresponsible people have so many kids while responsible people do not? They're not paying the same price per kid. Having children, feeding them, schooling them, and paying for their healthcare can be very very expensive, unless you're poor and dependant, then it's free.
We pay these mothers more per kid, creating an incentive to have ever more kids!
We not only pull benefits from people who work too many hours or save too much money, but we then confiscate what they saved and make them pay it back to the government.
WE ARE PAYING PEOPLE TO MAKE BAD CHOICES BY INSULATING THEM FROM NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES!
There are some children who are born without the ability to feel pain. This is terrifying to parents because they can injure themselves, but the lack of a pain response means they are unlikely to react to their injury in a way that limits it. For example, if you touch a hot stove, it burns you, so you pull your hand away before it gets injured particularly badly. A child who cannot feel pain touches the hot stove and leaves it there. He cannot feel that he is being damaged, so he does not stop the damage. His hand burns until it is injured potentially beyond repair because there is no pain to motivate him to change his dangerous behavior.
Until people feel the pain of their poor decisions, they will continue to make them.
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:22 am to SlowFlowPro
Oh. My bad. We need more walls and military spending. ISIS is raping our wives, etc
There is plenty of money to support both health care and a UBI
Ubi would likely save us millions if all other entitlements were eliminated
There is plenty of money to support both health care and a UBI
Ubi would likely save us millions if all other entitlements were eliminated
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:23 am to Brosef Stalin
quote:
If they are happy and not hurting anyone, so what?
i don't care what people choose to do with their life as long as it doesn't affect others
but we have a robust welfare system that these people take advantage of. it hurts you and me every day via unnecessary taxation
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:24 am to rocket31
quote:
Oh. My bad. We need more walls and military spending.
the wall is a drop in the bucket compared to everything else
our military should be decreased but it's like 1/4 of our budget
quote:
Ubi would likely save us millions if all other entitlements were eliminated
how much income do you plan on giving and to whom, exactly?
Posted on 2/13/17 at 11:24 am to SlowFlowPro
Incentivize good decision-making, rather than the other way around.
It's been shown time and time again, that the most effective way to diminish poor behaviors is to reinforce the alternative, positive behaviors.
It's been shown time and time again, that the most effective way to diminish poor behaviors is to reinforce the alternative, positive behaviors.
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