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re: Do gay people lie more frequently than straight people?

Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:09 pm to
Posted by Roger Klarvin
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:09 pm to
Like everything else, the extremes of homosexuality are represented in the news and media.

In the real world, most gay dudes are pretty normal with similar distributions of good people and assholes as the general population.
Posted by Roger Klarvin
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:10 pm to
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I work with several gay people in an office setting. All of them that I know are very honest and professional. Just like everyone else in my office.

Another thing to note is none of them are especially open about their sexuality. They don't try to hide it, but they dont flaunt it. Some you can tell, some you cant. But just like I dont talk about having sex with Women at work, they dont talk about having sex with same sex partners.



Yep
Posted by ibldprplgld
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:12 pm to
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Without a doubt .I have a few family members who are gay. The lead very tormented lives full of drama and deception. I really don't think they can help it, its just who they are.



No, it's probably not who they are. It's likely the result of something else family related though.

Most of us (all of my friends and me) lead very happy, healthy, well-adjusted lives with no torment. We have families who love and support us.

The few I have known who were tormented, it normally resulted directly from ignorant, small-minded, hateful family members who chose not to accept them and chose hate and intolerance instead. One of my friends, after he came out, was beaten so badly by his dad and uncle that his mom divorced his dad, and took him and moved across the country to get away from it. The other I knew took his own life because his parents disowned him and his partner. This was last year.
This post was edited on 2/21/19 at 2:16 pm
Posted by ManBearTiger
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:17 pm to
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This link of yours sounds a lot like "70% of murderers eat ice cream, therefore people who eat ice cream are also murderers."



That would be true if the 70% figure is remarkably different than the general population's love of ice cream. 20% of self-identifying homosexuals being willing to share with researchers that they were abused is much higher than what we see among the general population.

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Our results suggest that from half to all of the increased prevalence of childhood sexual abuse experienced by sexual orientation minorities compared with heterosexuals may be due to the effects of sexual abuse on sexual orientation, possibly through previously proposed pathways: (1) abuse of boys perpetrated by men causes boys to believe they are gay; (2) abuse of girls by men leads them to be averse to sexual relationships with men; (3) abuse survivors may feel stigmatized and different from others and may, therefore, be more willing to behave in ways that are socially stigmatized, including acknowledging same-sex attraction or having same-sex partners (Saewyc et al., 2006).


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Childhood sexual abuse and non-sexual maltreatment were approximately linearly predictive with report of same-sex attraction, partners, and identity (Tables 1 and ?and2).2). All of the family characteristics used as instruments strongly predicted experience of sexual abuse and maltreatment.
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:19 pm to
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That would be true


No it wouldn't. It's a completely ridiculous premise, and that's intentional.

You don't even know how to interpret the data. Just stop.
Posted by Roger Klarvin
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:22 pm to
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The prog gays certainly do, which is probably 98% of all gays


It’s more of a 70/30 split in my experience. I know quite a few conservative gay men in medicine, albeit I work in a fairly conservative area so that data is going to be skewed.

Even in Dallas and Houston though there were certainly gays who were republican
Posted by ManBearTiger
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:28 pm to
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So 80% of homosexual people lie about being sexually abused in their past?

And animals that exhibit homosexual behavior were sexually abused and cover it up as well under your theory of homosexuality?



So sexual abuse not only causes homosexuality but it also causes dishonesty?




Such utter nonsense.



You don't believe that victims of sexual abuse are highly reticent to share information regarding that abuse?

It's never been my position that 100% of homosexuals were abused. I believe the great majority of humans have the capacity to become gay, but since "straight" is the organic default, most of those who turn out gay were affected at some point in their development by experiences that profoundly affected hormonal of psychological changes (really, both.).

A prepubscent girl who is sexually abused will often develop larger breasts, and at an earlier stage, than their peers. Should we celebrate their large breasts that their bodies developed in response to an awful experience in their youth?
Posted by ManBearTiger
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:31 pm to
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No it wouldn't. It's a completely ridiculous premise, and that's intentional.

You don't even know how to interpret the data. Just stop.


I forgot how absurd your wording is and was thinking it would be true that there is something worth looking at if the percentages were way off from each other.
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:32 pm to
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but since "straight" is the organic default




It is?
Posted by ManBearTiger
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:33 pm to
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quote:
but since "straight" is the organic default




It is?



of course it is, among all mammals
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:42 pm to
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I forgot how absurd your wording is and was thinking it would be true that there is something worth looking at if the percentages were way off from each other.


Again, that was intentional. I can point things out for you, but I can't learn them for you.
Posted by Antonio Moss
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:42 pm to
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You don't believe that victims of sexual abuse are highly reticent to share information regarding that abuse?


Not to the tune of 80%

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It's never been my position that 100% of homosexuals were abused. I believe the great majority of humans have the capacity to become gay, but since "straight" is the organic default, most of those who turn out gay were affected at some point in their development by experiences that profoundly affected hormonal of psychological changes (really, both.).


And we already know that one of these processes occurs in utero. The androgen level in fetuses has been isolated as a marker for homosexuality in adulthood.

You aren't wrong but you're ignoring genetic predisposition which is absolutely a significant factor in homosexuality in adult species.

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A prepubscent girl who is sexually abused will often develop larger breasts, and at an earlier stage, than their peers. Should we celebrate their large breasts that their bodies developed in response to an awful experience in their youth?


Whose celebrating sexual abuse?
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 2:42 pm to
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of course it is, among all mammals


No, it isn't.
Posted by BBONDS25
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 3:28 pm to
Found you!!

Posted by KeyserSoze999
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 3:32 pm to
Always check the gay thread, I’m truly surprised that green chilli didn’t show up to throw a stone
Posted by tigerpawl
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 3:34 pm to
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They SEEM to bring a lot of drama.

They SEEM to bring a lot of diversions.
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 4:08 pm to
As always, it's an appropriate response to what was provided.
Posted by Antonio Moss
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 4:10 pm to
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No, it isn't.




You're on your own here. Clearly heterosexuality is the default predisposition.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 4:10 pm to
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Like everything else, the extremes of homosexuality are represented in the news and media.

In the real world, most gay dudes are pretty normal with similar distributions of good people and assholes as the general population.


Precisely.
Posted by DelU249
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Posted on 2/21/19 at 4:26 pm to
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