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Concealed carry for my better half

Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:24 pm
Posted by E Pluribus Unum
North of I-10
Member since May 2017
62 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:24 pm
Searched and read several threads but I wanted to ask you guys and the women of the OB.

My fiancée (no pics) is looking for an everyday carry. Likely will carry in her waistband. She has looked at the S&W shield series 9mm.

Just polling y’all for your thoughts and what the women in your life carry.

Thanks and
This post was edited on 4/5/18 at 12:35 pm
Posted by LSUfreak1459
Member since Feb 2008
845 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:30 pm to
I have a shield in a 9mm. I've been very happy with it. Accurate and reliable so far.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:40 pm to
Let her decide. let her shoot a couple diff ones.
Posted by ElectricWizard0
Member since Jul 2017
2702 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:41 pm to
The best way to go about this is to bring her and let her see what feels the most comfortable in her hands. I never recommend picking a gun for someone because if they don’t like it they won’t want to use it.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:45 pm to
Does she wear tight clothes? Loose clothes? Carry a purse all of the time?
Posted by bapple
Capital City
Member since Oct 2010
11896 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 12:47 pm to
I agree with the two previous posters who suggested she pick her own gun but you should definitely steer her to something proven.

The shield is one of the most popular and proven single stack 9s on the market. Just make sure she practices a lot and if she’s a novice I’d advise she practice on a full size 9 first. After she gets meaningful reps with the full size it’ll be much easier for her to handle the smaller shield.
Posted by Easternrio
Member since May 2014
3755 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:09 pm to
Hi Pernt
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:11 pm to
quote:

you should definitely steer her to something small and pink
FIFY
Posted by E Pluribus Unum
North of I-10
Member since May 2017
62 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:18 pm to
quote:

Concealed carry for my better half quote: you should definitely steer her to something small and pink


quote:

FIFY


Looking for serious replies only please. Thanks.
Posted by SouthernInsanity
Shadows of Death Valley
Member since Nov 2012
18741 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:27 pm to
Only issue my wife had with the Shield was the slide. Hard for her to rack it and slide release was a b!tech.

Switched her to a P238 for now and all good.
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26457 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:36 pm to
Airweight or LCR
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:37 pm to
I asked you questions in a serious reply, of which you answered none. She could CC anything from a full-sized 1911 to a Derringer based on your response to those questions. I have carried everything from a CM9 to a G20 based on what I'm wearing that day.

That was a joke based on the fact that guys tend to pick out small, pink guns for their ladies. Chill out hoss


FTR, I CC a Shield some days. It probably has 2k rounds through it now. I can't remember having any problems with it
This post was edited on 4/5/18 at 1:53 pm
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:40 pm to
Mine carries a ruger LC9s really skinny grip but good for her.
This post was edited on 4/5/18 at 1:41 pm
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30616 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:46 pm to
Sig 365
Posted by bapple
Capital City
Member since Oct 2010
11896 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 1:53 pm to
She should practice proper overhand racking on larger handguns first and then mastering the motion with smaller guns too.

But the P238 isn’t a terrible idea. The combination of the hammer spring and recoil spring makes it easier to rack. But be aware she must become instinctual in using the manual safety and she needs to carry cocked and locked.
Posted by AUTimbo
Member since Sep 2011
2870 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 2:07 pm to
Sig P238 Sport with rubberized grip

Next question....
Posted by TU Rob
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2008
12743 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 2:33 pm to
Shield would be a good choice. Also the XD-S series. I have a 9mm that almost disappears IWB in my Blade Tech holster. I tried out a bunch of different compact and subcompact 9s and settled on the XD-S. Mainly because of familiarity, having owned a XD-SC in 40 for several years.
Posted by TigerOnThe Hill
Springhill, LA
Member since Sep 2008
6813 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 2:42 pm to
EPU,
You raise some good questions. Personally, I'm pretty comfortable w/ what/how I carry and my recs to men. For women, I don't think what to carry is significantly different, but how to carry is.

As far as what to carry, I hope you can point her towards a really good self defense round in the 9mm instead a the smaller 380. Although not much bigger than a 380, the 9mm has a better record as a self defense gun. If small size is an absolute she may have to go the 380 route.

I'd suggest a striker or DOA single stack 9 mm gun in the size range of the Glock M43, S&W Shield, Kahr CM9, Ruger LC9, Springfield XDS, etc. Pick one w/ a strong history of reliability. Choose the specific model that she handles best, including accurate and rapid follow up shots. 1911 platform is acceptable as well for the shooter willing to adequately learn it's more complicated manual of arms.

If she's uncomfortable w/ the semi-auto, the next best choice would be a small frame, light weight, short barreled revolver in 38 Spec +P or 9mm.

Encourage her to handle and shoot different guns. I've dealt w/ some women who preferred a revolver and some who preferred the semi-auto; I've also seen some women who thought they preferred a revolver, but after handling and shooting both types they found they actually preferred the semi-auto. And yes, proper technique is essential for learning how to successfully rack a slide.

As far as how to carry, I'd suggest y'all also look at some women specific forums/blogs ("Cornered Cat" is one I recall). There are a series of informative videos on YouTube by a woman (faliaphotography), dealing w/ clothing issues women encounter w/ conceal carry.

Keep us updated, especially w/ pics.......of the gun, of course!
Posted by NASA_ISS_Tiger
Huntsville, Al via Sulphur, LA
Member since Sep 2005
7983 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 3:16 pm to
Wife selected a Shield for hers.

She tried a few and that's the one that felt the most comfortable to her. In the end that's what matters: how it feels in her hand. If she's not comfortable with it...she may not use it. She can't be scared of the weapon because she's not comfortable with it.
Posted by SouthernInsanity
Shadows of Death Valley
Member since Nov 2012
18741 posts
Posted on 4/5/18 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

Sig 365


And you have one?
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