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re: young children not getting enough sleep

Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:05 am to
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
32615 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:05 am to
believe it or not, they might need to go to bed earlier. It's counterintuitive, but they often will sleep later the earlier they go to bed.

This is a do as I say and not as I do thing, though. We're all fricked up.

eta these little bitches (my children ) will say they are tired when they are really not. They understand it as an excuse for bad behavior. So that could be happening.

Man, I really do focus on the negative of child-rearing sometimes. It's hard not to focus on the challenges.
This post was edited on 9/10/15 at 8:06 am
Posted by 19
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Member since Nov 2007
35523 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:16 am to
11 hrs is a long time for a kid that age to go without eating,(assuming supper around 6-630) and even if they aren't waking up hungry low blood sugar could be the reason one or both get up so early.
Is one typically waking the other?
I would make sure they have a snack about an hour before bedtime, even if that moves the bedtime back an hour.
Also we found that leaving tv on low all night keeps noises from waking them in the early am.

Feel for you, mine took years to sleep like normal people - trial and error is all you can do. It'll happen sooner than later.
Posted by Spirit of Dunson
Member since Mar 2007
23112 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:23 am to
In addition to the dark curtains, I second the comment about figuring out what they are doing when they wake up.

It may take practice, but try telling them it isn't time to wake up yet, and to go back to bed. Don't let them get up and watch tv, or play on a tablet or something.

My kid was doing the same, and we took a week or so of helping them go back to sleep when they woke up super early. Once they got used to it, they didn't just jump out of bed as soon as their eyes opened, and they sleep much later now. (ages 6 and 5).

Now we have a new problem... a 3 week old that keeps everyone awake!
Posted by dwilk4
Member since Sep 2005
345 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:30 am to
Easy solution. Let them stay up later!!
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:33 am to
I've always been an early riser. So was my dad. We used to cherish the early mornings cause it gave us a chance to relax and hang out. Bond.

Sorry you hate your kids.
Posted by Dirtman16
Madison, AL
Member since Nov 2012
410 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:34 am to
quote:

Do both kids have Iphones and Ipads?


Yeah, this is no joke. My 5 year old daughter was having trouble getting to sleep and staying in bed all night. We made a deliberate effort to make sure she didn't use a phone or tablet screen for at least an hour prior to bed, and it's made a world of difference. Those things can really goof you up.

Also, as everyone else has said, a dark room and white noise are excellent suggestions.
This post was edited on 9/10/15 at 8:34 am
Posted by Rza32
Member since Nov 2008
4338 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:46 am to
I don't know how kids get to bed at 8 with parents that work, homework, travel ball, and competition dance/cheer.
Posted by torrey225
Member since Mar 2015
1437 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:47 am to
Blackout curtains! I love mine. I can sleep until noon because my room is pitch black.
Posted by nolatiger711
Metairie, LA
Member since Oct 2009
773 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:50 am to
My 3 year old has a clock named "Teach Me Time" that teaches how to read a clock and speaks the time when he pushes the foot.

The best part of the clock is that it turns green at whatever time I set. He knows that he can play quietly until it turns green, then he can wake us up. He usually just builds with his Legos or plays trains until it is green. I love it!

He functions fine with his hours, so I don't need to affect his sleep for my convenience. You just need to set guidelines that let you sleep.

All this is moot if you can't trust your kids awake on their own.
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:53 am to
That's a good idea. Is it this one? LINK
Posted by nolatiger711
Metairie, LA
Member since Oct 2009
773 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 9:06 am to
That's the exact one. It's does it job. Just needed to be clear what is quiet play (the tambourine and maracas are not).

Only issue is he checks the time when he climbs into bed, which means no sneaky early bedtime.
Posted by RandySavage
9 Time Natty Winner
Member since May 2012
34903 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 9:06 am to
quote:

I don't know how kids get to bed at 8 with parents that work, homework, travel ball, and competition dance/cheer.


Most of the kids in this thread are too young for that stuff.
Posted by 19
Flux Capacitor, Fluxing
Member since Nov 2007
35523 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 9:09 am to
Sleep masks are a good option until blackout curtains hung.
Hanged.
Whatev
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
32786 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 9:32 am to
We have two boys, ages 6 and 9. They both sleep like a rock but not always for long periods of time. During the weekday evenings I play sports with them in the backyard that helps get them exhausted and I have found they sleep a lot longer. If we have too much downtime (reading, drawing) before their actual bedtime @ 8pm that's when they wake up well before 6 AM....otherwise they wake up at 7am.

Not sure what activities your daughters would expend energy on but it could be worth trying.
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 10:10 am to
Yeah, summer was rough for our kids. Too young and too hot outside for any outdoor activities other than the swing and slide. Add to that the 8:00-8:15pm sunset.
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
33287 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:05 pm to
quote:

Not sure what activities your daughters would expend energy on but it could be worth trying.



yeah we try man. its the craziest thing, my oldest just started 1st grade and plays in daycare until we pick her up at 5:30. she comes home and plays some more, eats, takes a bath and even her own words are shes sooo tired.

by friday night she can barely keep her eyes open but ill be damned if shes not up at 5 effin 30am on saturday ready to go. i dont get it

FML
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44977 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:08 pm to
At that age, pediatricians recommend about 10 hours of sleep a night. Blackout curtains, lower air temp in rooms & some sort of sound machine keeps mine in bed until 6:30 now. That's the best i can get.
Posted by GM
Baker
Member since May 2011
1062 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:14 pm to
Teach them how to use the TV remote, and how to make a bowl of cereal.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
19112 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:20 pm to
Dont care
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16857 posts
Posted on 9/10/15 at 8:25 pm to
quote:

Teach them how to use the TV remote, and how to make a bowl of cereal.


Yeeeep. I remember when we figured this out. FREEDOM
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