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re: You find out some dude is texting your SO? Update in OP
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:10 pm to BRIllini07
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:10 pm to BRIllini07
Nah.
You act like all is well. Then Turn into a PI. It’s the only way you’ll get the truth. And the fastest way to it.
Otherwise she will lie herself out of it and drag you thru the mud.
You act like all is well. Then Turn into a PI. It’s the only way you’ll get the truth. And the fastest way to it.
Otherwise she will lie herself out of it and drag you thru the mud.
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:10 pm to Kujo
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I'm not trying to be hurtful, but if you are into girls then you should allow yourself to be happy. I like you as a person, but can't be with you anymore as I only feel like I'm enabling you to live a lie. You are not like other straight girls. Most of the time I've been faking finishing, and it wasn't until I met another girl, and I apologise for cheating, but it really highlighted how different in bed you are. I need to be happy, and you need to ask yourself some internal questions
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:10 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Ok I’ll stop...promise.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:11 pm to GeeOH
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Why would you EVER get so wrapped in a situation where it would bither you that much?
Forgive me for wanting to be a Daddy to my two boys. Pieces of shite like you are why our society is imploding.
Nothing is more important than the next hook up right?
fricking loser.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 10:12 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:21 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Send her roses at work for Valentines Day. No card attached. See if she mentions receiving them. If not, hit the road.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:26 pm to Big Jim Slade
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Send her roses at work for Valentines Day. No card attached. See if she mentions receiving them. If not, hit the road
Very clever
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:36 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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Do you confront her about it? (Which makes it look like you’re looking at her phone
Assuming you aren't trollin' along, just be honest with her, but not in a fitful, jealous way... Do it as though you are Michael Corleone and know you have the upper hand -- calm, cool, collected.
Sit down at a table and say "you got a text from Joe while you were in the bathroom" and just have the phone sitting about a foot from you on the table, then glance down at it. If she rushes to snatch it or acts skiddish, your answer has shown itself.
Godspeed.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:48 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Joe's head on a pike would make an outstanding V-Day gift to your SO. 
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:53 pm to Honest Tune
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just be honest with her
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Honest Tune
Name checks out.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 10:56 pm to Big Jim Slade
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Send her roses at work for Valentines Day. No card attached. See if she mentions receiving them. If not, hit the road.
A. You shouldn't play games. It isn't worth it. If you're playing games then you might as well just break it off.
B. This dude may know she has a long term boyfriend. All she has to do is confirm it with him first.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:02 pm to sealawyer
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Dump her. Save yourself years of headache. Don’t even bother confronting her. She’s already taking his dick.
I don’t think she is humping, unless she is doing things that are out of the ordinary.
Pretty simple. If she is just flirting, start texting other ladies. Play by her rules. If she is getting humped, move out (or kick her out, if the place is yours), and end it.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 11:35 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:06 pm to Peazey
Lots of insecurity in this thread. I would never be in a relationship with a woman who would freak out over another woman texting me. Likewise, I would never feel threatened over a guy texting her because I am secure in who I am as a man. If you are not secure with your partner, then that has more to do with you than her/him. If this thread is real, then it sounds to me like OP needs to be alone and work on himself.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 11:44 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:11 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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Asking for a friend of course....
Tell your friend to BLOCK Joe's # on her phone, and don't tell her. She will think Joe lost interest. Joe will no longer be able text or call her.
Of course, you will have to check her phone to see how many times she tried to contact Joe.
If she tries to make contact with Joe, then you know the deal.
If she is not the one for you, then you need to move on and find "the one."
If she is "the one", then she should not allow Joe to flirt with her. She is leading Joe on and this will not end well. She needs to grow up and not lead people on.
Either Joe has a real chance with her in his mind because she has not told him to stop or she is simply leading Joe into thinking he has a shot with her. Do you want to be with a girl like this?
What she is doing is not fair to you or Joe or she has interest in you, but not to a high degree, so she wants to keep her options open.
Would she approve of you texting a girl in the same way Joe is texting her? If she does not think it would be appropriate for you to text girls in a similar manner, then it is not appropriate for her to receive these types of texts from Joe.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:12 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Run
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:13 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
You ask her straight up, “Who the frick is Joe?”
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:16 pm to hashtag
What if her best friend is a guy?
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Not married? I'd probably just peace out and move on. Maybe bang her best friend first.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 11:17 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:22 pm to BayouCatFan
I don't think it's insecure not to want your girlfriend to flirt and lead on other guys via text, which is the presumption of this thread's scenario. Really her just regularly texting some guy that you don't know about is fairly suggestive, unless it's pretty explicitly about work or something like that. Unless of course you aren't into the whole monogamous relationship thing, which is cool too.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 11:25 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:23 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
I’ve always been the other guy lately.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:28 pm to Peazey
Joe and Hudsonplaya ended up watching the game earlier and are now Eiffel towering his gf.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 11:30 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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will update tomorrow. That is only fair. I don’t want to act or say anything irrationally so plan on sleeping on it to get my grasp of the situation and thoughts together.
Since you are still playing along I have some advice.
Have a dozen roses delivered (or just buy them yourself and put them on the counter while she is out.
Make sure to attach a card that says "from Joe".
When she gets home tell her someone sent her flowers, wait to see what her reaction is.
You will know real quick if they are fricking.
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