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re: WWTOTD: acknowledging (or not acknowledging) your SO's Birthday.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:04 pm to ClientNumber9
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:04 pm to ClientNumber9
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You know what I wanted for my birthday? The same thing I want every year- to be left alone for a few hours and have some goddamn peace and quiet.
And you don't have a vagina so you don't get it.
Women LOVE birthdays. Hate it and complain about it all you want...but it's just how we are wired.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to Rox
your relationships are just like your job description
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I'm a legal assistant. So pretty much I get paid to bend over and take it.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to Evil Little Thing
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Agree with the others. He may not be a birthday person, but if he cares about making you happy, he would've made the effort to at least fricking wish you happy birthday.
IT IS 4PM. GIVE THE DUDE A FREAKING BENEFIT OF THE frickING DOUBT!!!!!!!
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to lsunurse
You have to know what makes your woman tick. If she needs attention, you better remember her birthday.
He might be sending a message. If I forgot a birthday it would be on purpose.
He might be sending a message. If I forgot a birthday it would be on purpose.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to Winkface
Thanks, Wink. I know female brain is making me overreact, but it was a big deal to me. Literally, the best thing about today is hearing from my family that I don't see often, I'm not materialistic at all so just the acknowledgement goes a long way.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:07 pm to Rox
i signed in to tell you
Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday!

Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:07 pm to Rox
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I told you I'm a crazy fricking bitch.
Sounds like it.
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To reiterate, I'm a crazy fricking bitch
Confirmed.
Honestly though I think you are just overreacting. Now if he goes the entire day without doing anything special/nice or saying HBD, then yeah frick that guy.
This post was edited on 5/10/16 at 4:09 pm
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:07 pm to Rox
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I’m a crazy bitch and I'm looking for some second opinions on how to handle.
if he cares about it he will make it up to you but from a guys point of view he didn't do a damn thing wrong yet. If he has gone the entire day without mentioning or celebrating your birthday THEN you would have a right to be a crazy bitch. Now you could've possibly ruined whatever he had in store for your bday.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:08 pm to Rouge
He couldn't just SAY Happy Birthday this morning, while he was with her? Come on. That is inexcusable. And now it's this big thing, so there's no way for him to redeem himself without it looking like she forced him to do it. It all could've been avoided if he'd just acknowledged it's a special day.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:08 pm to Rox
It's pretty easy to set a phone reminder to say "tell slampeice happy bd" on a date, if he cares enough to prevent him from forgetting
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:09 pm to Evil Little Thing
Thank you. This is how female brain works!! It would have made my day if he told me just HBD this morning.
Not "Hope you have a good day" and "I just left your place and made sure the door was locked" "have a good day"
Not "Hope you have a good day" and "I just left your place and made sure the door was locked" "have a good day"
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:10 pm to Evil Little Thing
quote:none of us know his motives, so to assume anything rude or improper is pure projection on the part of that person.
He couldn't just SAY Happy Birthday this morning, while he was with her? Come on. That is inexcusable. And now it's this big thing, so there's no way for him to redeem himself without it looking like she forced him to do it. It all could've been avoided if he'd just acknowledged it's a special day.
not everyone lives to your same code of properness and decency
This post was edited on 5/10/16 at 4:12 pm
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:10 pm to Evil Little Thing
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He couldn't just SAY Happy Birthday this morning
have any of yall dated/been with men? we don't always remember that shite early in the morning. Women need to lighten the frick up
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:11 pm to Rox
What did you do for him on his birthday?
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:11 pm to Rouge
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if i got this text, i would be planning an exit strategy true story
This, how annoying.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:15 pm to Rouge
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you don't know shite
that is why they are called SURPRISES
i hope he does something very nice and makes you feel like an idiot
Regardless of what he does or doesn't have planned for later he did nothing to let her know that her company is important to him. I adore my wife and part of my job as her husband and family is to make sure that she NEVER has to question her value or importance to me. I have made sure that my wife knows she is a big deal to me since we first started dating and she has always done the same for me. It's difficult to know how wrong something is until they have truly experienced something that is just right.
Good luck and happy birthday to the OP
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:16 pm to lsunurse
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Women LOVE birthdays. Hate it and complain about it all you want...but it's just how we are wired.
we don't really care so why do we have to change...we have already given in on the toilet seat down and that is 365 days a year
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:17 pm to learnthehardway
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Regardless of what he does or doesn't have planned for later he did nothing to let her know that her company is important to him. I adore my wife and part of my job as her husband and family is to make sure that she NEVER has to question her value or importance to me. I have made sure that my wife knows she is a big deal to me since we first started dating and she has always done the same for me. It's difficult to know how wrong something is until they have truly experienced something that is just right.
you sound like high maintenance.
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:18 pm to Rox
hbd pox
yellowfin wanted me to ask you if you'd make him a cheesecake for your b-day.
yellowfin wanted me to ask you if you'd make him a cheesecake for your b-day.
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