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re: WWTOTD: acknowledging (or not acknowledging) your SO's Birthday.

Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:04 pm to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:04 pm to
quote:

You know what I wanted for my birthday? The same thing I want every year- to be left alone for a few hours and have some goddamn peace and quiet.



And you don't have a vagina so you don't get it.


Women LOVE birthdays. Hate it and complain about it all you want...but it's just how we are wired.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:04 pm to
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! <3
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
178850 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to
your relationships are just like your job description
quote:


I'm a legal assistant. So pretty much I get paid to bend over and take it.

Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138525 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

Agree with the others. He may not be a birthday person, but if he cares about making you happy, he would've made the effort to at least fricking wish you happy birthday.


IT IS 4PM. GIVE THE DUDE A FREAKING BENEFIT OF THE frickING DOUBT!!!!!!!
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
12283 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to
You have to know what makes your woman tick. If she needs attention, you better remember her birthday.

He might be sending a message. If I forgot a birthday it would be on purpose.
Posted by Rox
Member since Oct 2010
33333 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:05 pm to
Thanks, Wink. I know female brain is making me overreact, but it was a big deal to me. Literally, the best thing about today is hearing from my family that I don't see often, I'm not materialistic at all so just the acknowledgement goes a long way.
Posted by MapGuy
I was born,I grew older,I'm here
Member since May 2010
37458 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:07 pm to
i signed in to tell you

Happy Birthday!

Posted by Paddyshack
Land of the Free
Member since Sep 2015
11062 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:07 pm to
quote:

I told you I'm a crazy fricking bitch.

Sounds like it.
quote:

To reiterate, I'm a crazy fricking bitch

Confirmed.

Honestly though I think you are just overreacting. Now if he goes the entire day without doing anything special/nice or saying HBD, then yeah frick that guy.

This post was edited on 5/10/16 at 4:09 pm
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
70014 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:07 pm to
quote:

I’m a crazy bitch and I'm looking for some second opinions on how to handle.


if he cares about it he will make it up to you but from a guys point of view he didn't do a damn thing wrong yet. If he has gone the entire day without mentioning or celebrating your birthday THEN you would have a right to be a crazy bitch. Now you could've possibly ruined whatever he had in store for your bday.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11622 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:08 pm to
He couldn't just SAY Happy Birthday this morning, while he was with her? Come on. That is inexcusable. And now it's this big thing, so there's no way for him to redeem himself without it looking like she forced him to do it. It all could've been avoided if he'd just acknowledged it's a special day.
Posted by jefforize
Member since Feb 2008
45897 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:08 pm to
It's pretty easy to set a phone reminder to say "tell slampeice happy bd" on a date, if he cares enough to prevent him from forgetting
Posted by Rox
Member since Oct 2010
33333 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:09 pm to
Thank you. This is how female brain works!! It would have made my day if he told me just HBD this morning.

Not "Hope you have a good day" and "I just left your place and made sure the door was locked" "have a good day"
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138525 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

He couldn't just SAY Happy Birthday this morning, while he was with her? Come on. That is inexcusable. And now it's this big thing, so there's no way for him to redeem himself without it looking like she forced him to do it. It all could've been avoided if he'd just acknowledged it's a special day.
none of us know his motives, so to assume anything rude or improper is pure projection on the part of that person.

not everyone lives to your same code of properness and decency
This post was edited on 5/10/16 at 4:12 pm
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
70014 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

He couldn't just SAY Happy Birthday this morning


have any of yall dated/been with men? we don't always remember that shite early in the morning. Women need to lighten the frick up
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:11 pm to
What did you do for him on his birthday?
Posted by Lucky_Dog
Member since May 2016
785 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:11 pm to
quote:

if i got this text, i would be planning an exit strategy true story

This, how annoying.
Posted by learnthehardway
B.R./Northshore
Member since Oct 2007
10023 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:15 pm to
quote:

you don't know shite 

that is why they are called SURPRISES 

i hope he does something very nice and makes you feel like an idiot


Regardless of what he does or doesn't have planned for later he did nothing to let her know that her company is important to him. I adore my wife and part of my job as her husband and family is to make sure that she NEVER has to question her value or importance to me. I have made sure that my wife knows she is a big deal to me since we first started dating and she has always done the same for me. It's difficult to know how wrong something is until they have truly experienced something that is just right.

Good luck and happy birthday to the OP
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
70014 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:16 pm to
quote:

Women LOVE birthdays. Hate it and complain about it all you want...but it's just how we are wired.


we don't really care so why do we have to change...we have already given in on the toilet seat down and that is 365 days a year
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
178850 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:17 pm to
quote:

Regardless of what he does or doesn't have planned for later he did nothing to let her know that her company is important to him. I adore my wife and part of my job as her husband and family is to make sure that she NEVER has to question her value or importance to me. I have made sure that my wife knows she is a big deal to me since we first started dating and she has always done the same for me. It's difficult to know how wrong something is until they have truly experienced something that is just right.



you sound like high maintenance.
Posted by Skillet
Member since Aug 2006
113815 posts
Posted on 5/10/16 at 4:18 pm to
hbd pox


yellowfin wanted me to ask you if you'd make him a cheesecake for your b-day.
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