re: WSJ "Article" Blames men for dating problems.

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Hardworking, honest, high integrity men are not valued

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Maybe not by the insta-sluts of the world. The world is full non-insta-sluts, ripe for the picking.

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I’m thinking these women didn’t make efforts to be hot so that random 5’9” middle class joes could get them. The whole reason independent women are a thing is because they didn’t like the selection of men they had Men need to be better

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I agree we have a serious problem with boys not being raised to be high value men. I think a major part of that problem is the feminist-influenced society we’ve built in the West. Not to mention the other societal issues such as our weak emphasis on health and fitness along with a sedentary, car-focused society that believes office work is one of the highest examples of success.

But women can’t scream for both equality and empowerment without running into problems. For example, they want equal pay but also demand access to men who make more than them. Eventually the pool of qualified dating applicants dwindles to nothing.

Then you have the issue of threes and fours, hell even sixes and sevens, believing they are the beautiful princesses waiting to blossom with the land’s most valiant knights. “Know your worth” when a girl is average can mean a lot of things, but it’s detrimental to society if she internalizes it as an excuse to be single unless it’s with her dream scenario.

So the average 5’9 joe is just right for the average 5’4 jane. In a less opportunistic-focused society, I’d say her life would be fulfilled and satisfying if she gave it a chance.

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The average woman is 5ft. 4 in. And weighs 170 lbs..

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this cannot be said enough

There are millions of 18-30 something women who are fat as frick and expect a 6’2 guy with a six figure income

It’s portrayed in the popular culture that older men love younger women. I think it’s becoming less true because of how over-the-top thirsty younger women are. I think a lot of older single dudes who DO have resources and who can date successfully keep getting hit up by younger women in the most basic bitch transactional way. He thought he had a promising relationship with a good human being and the next thing he knows he’s getting hit up for car repairs or rent money. And this is essentially demoralizing for many men because they realize their value is primarily just as a human ATM. I think this depresses a lot of good men and pushes them out of the dating pool because they begin to despise the transactional nature of modern women. They begin to think women aren’t capable of love in the way they understand it. So many ridiculously thirsty women. Men are almost always better off staying in their age range and finding a woman organically in the real world and letting mutual attraction bloom naturally.

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Men need to be better

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Women need to do better and step it up.

The average guy doesn't work 65 hours a week and work out 4 days a week to date a 5'3 175lb single mom retail clerk on food stamps.

Men will chose to remain single or date foreign if they don’t work on themeselves.

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Gotta go to the library. They got good women there. Or go to church. Yea, good clean women in church.

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Church is one of the most obvious "dating game" arenas there are.


Anywhere where people aren't constantly trying to frick each other is the best place to go or anywhere women would spend copious amounts of time readying themselves to be frickable.


We all know there's a huge difference between the woman that has just woke up and the one entering the club at 10pm.

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for a mid 40s guy to date a woman who’s 20 years younger- in most parts of the world it is perfectly acceptable, and it most definitely works for me .

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It's only western feminists who are desperate to control every aspect of a man's sexuality.

I'm not sure the writer is completely wrong. My daughter is 18 and says that so many of the boys/ young men are either extreme hammerheads or like toddlers who throw temper tantrums when they don't get their way.

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I'm not sure the writer is completely wrong. My daughter is 18 and says that so many of the boys/ young men are either extreme hammerheads or like toddlers who throw temper tantrums when they don't get their way.

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Your daughter does not understand anything about how the system has radically favored women for decades.


Tell her to look up brain development/body development in males vs females and how that effects males over time.


Suicides, combat deaths, employment deaths, etc.


People who shite on where men are seem uninterested in solving the problem and more interested in cheap insults to boost their self-esteem a bit (usually entitled princess-syndrome females).

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My daughter is 18 and says that so many of the boys/ young men are either extreme hammerheads or like toddlers who throw temper tantrums when they don't get their way.

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Its because women at that age range typically go for "bad boy" types. Low IQ men like that have trouble regulating their emotions and naive young women falsely interpret this as " masculine" behavior mostly due media influence.

If you were smart and a good father, you would teach her this. You're daughter will grow up with a princess complex or become a single mom if you don't.