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re: Would you ask your SO to do this?

Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:41 pm to
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35622 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:41 pm to
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As a guy that's been successfully married for over 26 years, this made me laugh.

She asks you to go to NOLA to spend the night with her in a hotel you're not paying for, and have lunch with her tomorrow...on her birthday...and you're mad at her?

Congrats on being a lifetime bachelor.


This. I’d totally go with my husband just to have an adventure.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51760 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:42 pm to
quote:

My s/o volunteered herself to be in Nola today to work for a client of hers. This certain task is completely outside the scope of her normal job and the first time she's ever done anything like this. The client paid for a hotel for us tonight

quote:

I just started a new job and she knows this, but has asked me to drive 3.5 hrs tonight to meet her. I don't want to bail early so, this puts me there at around 9:30-10pm. She doesn't want to go out bc she has to do the job again tomorrow until noon, so I will get there and go to sleep. Tomorrow, she will be working until noon then wants to get lunch and drive straight back home.


Your S/O knows you will not come in. She is going to get railed by her boss all night long.

After, they will lie in bed laughing at how you fell for it.

The Miller's Tale, by Geoffrey Chaucer, is a similar story. Had you read it you never would have fallen for this.

BTW, it is the funniest thing I've ever read, and I recommend it to everyone - not just the cuckold.
This post was edited on 7/2/21 at 1:44 pm
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2084 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:44 pm to
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So she wants to go to someone else's pool party on her own birthday?


Is dragging me there so she doesnt have to be alone, knowing we are leaving immediately after lunch to make it back to something else she wants to do.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13175 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:44 pm to
Yea....that's the most irrational fricking idea I've heard in awhile.... clearly thought up by a woman...while dating, probably would have done it...now that I'm married prob would have told her how stupid that is
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2084 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:46 pm to
I offered to get tickets for a show tonight, hotel room tomorrow, and told her to pick something she wanted to do for her bday tomorrow night in a feeble attempt to make the trip worth it.

Shut down on all accounts.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41195 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:47 pm to
Because you made a huge deal out of it initially so now she’s now punishing you by being stubborn. It’s not logical, but I guarantee she would have been game had you not acted an arse the first time.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85364 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:48 pm to
just download a good podcast/audio book and make the drive

I don't mind driving, so this scenario, while unreasonable, wouldn't really bother me that much
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41195 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:48 pm to
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don't mind driving, so this scenario, while unreasonable, wouldn't really bother me that much


Same.
Posted by DarthTiger
Member since Sep 2005
3189 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:49 pm to
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This post was edited on 7/7/21 at 11:13 am
Posted by Double Oh
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
23273 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:50 pm to
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She sounds needy




I was just about to say that
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17442 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:52 pm to
You’re complaining about hotel birthday sex?
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2084 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:53 pm to
quote:

don't mind driving, so this scenario, while unreasonable, wouldn't really bother me that much


Same.


It's really not the drive. Its the fact that she wants me there to literally eat lunch then drive back home. I wasn't annoyed until she flat out refused to do anything when I get there tonight and refused to stay tomorrow so she could be back for a pool party
This post was edited on 7/2/21 at 1:55 pm
Posted by Double Oh
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
23273 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:55 pm to
quote:

I offered to get tickets for a show tonight, hotel room tomorrow, and told her to pick something she wanted to do for her bday tomorrow night in a feeble attempt to make the trip worth it.

Shut down on all accounts.






Dude run as far away as u can. It will only get worse every year you are with her.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85364 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:55 pm to
My wife hates doing anything by herself, so I feel you 100% right now.

My only advice, since you know that you are going anyways, is to just go with it, or this will be a miserable weekend for you.

Don't be a passive aggressive bitch about it.
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2084 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:56 pm to
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Yes, it’s ridiculous for her to ask you to do that.


You are a lady and agreeing?
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:56 pm to
Boy, you’re stupid. She’s asking you to join her for some dirty, nasty hotel sex. Geez.
Posted by CP3LSU25
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2009
52570 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:58 pm to
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Because if you don't, someone else is gonna put it in her arse.


This unfortunately. Be miserable with her or miserable without her while some dude is plowing her
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41195 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:58 pm to
quote:

It's really not the drive. Its the fact that she wants me there to literally eat lunch then drive back home. I wasn't annoyed until she flat out refused to do anything when I got there tonight and refused to stay tomorrow so she could be back for a pool party


Did she refuse the tickets and stuff before or after you told her you didn’t want to go? If you offered to make it a weekend first and she said no to that, and the got upset you didn’t want to drive 7 hours for lunch, yeah that’s ridiculous. But if you just initially said how dumb it was, then she got upset, the. You tried to make it right but she refused, well…

Chronological details will be important.
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2084 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 2:00 pm to
quote:

My wife hates doing anything by herself, so I feel you 100% right now.

My only advice, since you know that you are going anyways, is to just go with it, or this will be a miserable weekend for you.

Don't be a passive aggressive bitch about it.



Sound advice and is what I've accepted. I have a decent morning planned, but since she wants to drive back right after lunch I won't be able to sit around and drink while shes working like many have suggested. Maybe I'll accidentally over do it and be forced to get the hotel for tomorrow anyway
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
Member since Mar 2013
5128 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 2:02 pm to
Can you fly in and Uber? That way at least you can drive home together.
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