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re: Would marriage rates plummet even further if young guys knew the reality of married life ?
Posted on 3/10/25 at 6:20 am to Asharad
Posted on 3/10/25 at 6:20 am to Asharad
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Married for 30 years. Had sex today. Had sex yesterday. I realize I'm lucky and that it's rare, but you just need to find someone that can put up with your bullshite, and doesn't have alot of bullshite.
Seriously, this is the simple truth. My wife and I have been married 34 years and have been together 39. We still have sex a couple of times a week....at 59 and 57 years old. I ain't perfect and neither is she....but we are very happy and I can't imagine life without her by my side. Being in a committed relationship built on mutual respect, physical attraction and love is the penultimate situation for humans to find themselves in. Its a shame sooooo many people never get to experience it....
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Posted on 3/10/25 at 6:23 am to CaptainsWafer
quote:Been married 41 years, I tell my wife regularly I’m glad she had low standards for husband material.
The only thing terrible about my wife is her taste in husbands.
I was smart enough to know how badly I out kicked my coverage and quit looking
Posted on 3/10/25 at 6:46 am to Philly Fanatic
Maybe men should learn to pick a better mate vs just marrying the first person that plays with their weiner?
I’ve been married 21 years, and it’s great. Is it perfect? No, nothing is. The sex life has only gotten better.
Both sets of our parents are approaching 60 years of marriage, and my siblings are both over 30 years.
Honestly, every one of my childhood friends’ parents are still married, excluding the widowed ones.
People need better role models.
I’ve been married 21 years, and it’s great. Is it perfect? No, nothing is. The sex life has only gotten better.
Both sets of our parents are approaching 60 years of marriage, and my siblings are both over 30 years.
Honestly, every one of my childhood friends’ parents are still married, excluding the widowed ones.
People need better role models.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 7:31 am to Philly Fanatic
Posted on 3/10/25 at 7:36 am to Philly Fanatic
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Little does he know that marriage is the end of sex, at least passionate sex.
Sounds like your wife came to the same conclusion as all of us... that you are a loser.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 8:07 am to Philly Fanatic
My wife of 30 years is my best friend. Passion still exists but it’s different than when you’re young. What you’re feeling is probably common in your early 30s. This is the time to truly get to know her and develop something real and longer lasting
Posted on 3/10/25 at 8:10 am to LSUGrrrl
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Posted on 3/10/25 at 8:34 am to Philly Fanatic
Sounds like you have a horrible marriage.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 8:49 am to Philly Fanatic
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Philly Fanatic
Must be a terrible leader and/or chose poorly.
A lot of issues before marriage can be uncovered if you just simply vet your wife and not be a "nice guy" around serious topics that have long term effects.
LEAD.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 10:01 am to nola tiger lsu
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These threads always reveal how awful people are at choosing a spouse/partner. I love being around my wife more than anyone else in my life.
Its because most dudes get a good piece of arse one time and they settle thinking they will never have a chick do reverse cowgirl anal again.
That said, the same guy isnt thinking about how many dudes shes fricked to be this chick in the bedroom.
Just dont marry a whore, the signs are always there and if you cant read them ask your friends wives.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 1:44 pm to Philly Fanatic
All I am going to say is that you have to marry a girl you can be friends with. The relationship can't be based on sex. You have to be able to like being together without that on the table. When the bad times come you have to both be able to reset to a time when you had good honest fun and support for each other. You also have to respect the fact that marriage is a religious sacrament. Divorce should never be considered a real possibility going into marriage. Don't marry a woman if it takes her more than one hand to count her sexual partners. She isn't marrying material and likely never will be.
I married the only girl I ever met that I just liked hanging out with. Our 18 year marriage gets better with age. That said, the bitch is on psycho meds, loses her temper, and threw a heavy arse candle base at my head to hard in went through a wall. I wanted to strangle her countless times. It took everything I had not to file for divorce. My faith kept me in there, and we got through it in a way I could have never imagined. We are just happy we have each other, and she spreads her legs willingly so long as I remember to treat her as a person and not just a pussy. The whole problem was her suffering spiritually and coming to grips with the reality being an adult with children. As soon as she got involved with a Christian organization called ACT's she snapped out of it. I think she was freaking possessed, but I am not about to tell her that.
Lastly, the world these women grow up in today makes the reality of marriage harder to settle in to. Every one of my friends marriages hit the wall as well. The more of a self absorbed diva, the harder the rough patch. Suffer the flaming because the other side is worth it.
I married the only girl I ever met that I just liked hanging out with. Our 18 year marriage gets better with age. That said, the bitch is on psycho meds, loses her temper, and threw a heavy arse candle base at my head to hard in went through a wall. I wanted to strangle her countless times. It took everything I had not to file for divorce. My faith kept me in there, and we got through it in a way I could have never imagined. We are just happy we have each other, and she spreads her legs willingly so long as I remember to treat her as a person and not just a pussy. The whole problem was her suffering spiritually and coming to grips with the reality being an adult with children. As soon as she got involved with a Christian organization called ACT's she snapped out of it. I think she was freaking possessed, but I am not about to tell her that.
Lastly, the world these women grow up in today makes the reality of marriage harder to settle in to. Every one of my friends marriages hit the wall as well. The more of a self absorbed diva, the harder the rough patch. Suffer the flaming because the other side is worth it.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 1:56 pm to mrcoon
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All I am going to say is that you have to marry a girl you can be friends with. The relationship can't be based on sex. You have to be able to like being together without that on the table. When the bad times come you have to both be able to reset to a time when you had good honest fun and support for each other. You also have to respect the fact that marriage is a religious sacrament. Divorce should never be considered a real possibility going into marriage. Don't marry a woman if it takes her more than one hand to count her sexual partners. She isn't marrying material and likely never will be.
I married the only girl I ever met that I just liked hanging out with. Our 18 year marriage gets better with age. That said, the bitch is on psycho meds, loses her temper, and threw a heavy arse candle base at my head to hard in went through a wall. I wanted to strangle her countless times. It took everything I had not to file for divorce. My faith kept me in there, and we got through it in a way I could have never imagined. We are just happy we have each other, and she spreads her legs willingly so long as I remember to treat her as a person and not just a pussy. The whole problem was her suffering spiritually and coming to grips with the reality being an adult with children. As soon as she got involved with a Christian organization called ACT's she snapped out of it. I think she was freaking possessed, but I am not about to tell her that.
Lastly, the world these women grow up in today makes the reality of marriage harder to settle in to. Every one of my friends marriages hit the wall as well. The more of a self absorbed diva, the harder the rough patch. Suffer the flaming because the other side is worth it.
Honestly most men need a women who is more responsible than them, at least for the first 5 years.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 2:19 pm to Philly Fanatic
Do a better job picking your partner and marriage is a good thing. Stop marrying lazy, angry count and you may enjoy it.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 2:26 pm to Philly Fanatic
I think it boils down to making the right choices. Meaning if you marry a good woman and don’t let yourself go, most of the things you said don’t happen.
You can see the red flags when dating her… if you look and if she does change , life’s too short to stay. Then you can learn from your mistakes. And choose to be happy.
You can see the red flags when dating her… if you look and if she does change , life’s too short to stay. Then you can learn from your mistakes. And choose to be happy.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 3:36 pm to Philly Fanatic
If you are with the right person then you arent saying any of these things. Just have to pick the right one baw
Posted on 3/10/25 at 3:49 pm to tigerbait17
Choice of partner is the #1 most important decision in almost everyone's lives...and yet the vast majority of people effectively go willy nilly into marriage as if that's not true at all.'
It's not that hard to do sufficient due diligence:
Pay attention to her family and friends. REALLY pay attention to the mother. This includes looks, behavior - everything.
Really ask yourself if you detect derision or condescension in either of you and how you treat each other. If there is any, DO NOT PROCEED.
Make sure you have already developed the skill of grace and partnership in full good faith. Don't spoil for fights. Don't pick nits. If there's a disagreement, assume the best, not the worst...and look for these traits in her treatment of you as well.
Don't start too young. Your brains aren't fully formed until - at best - 25.
Try to understand the existence and nature of any underlying/buried trauma that either of you have suffered. If not looked in the face and dealt with, it will be the slow scourge, eating the relationship alive in ways you can't even imagine.
It's not that hard to do sufficient due diligence:
Pay attention to her family and friends. REALLY pay attention to the mother. This includes looks, behavior - everything.
Really ask yourself if you detect derision or condescension in either of you and how you treat each other. If there is any, DO NOT PROCEED.
Make sure you have already developed the skill of grace and partnership in full good faith. Don't spoil for fights. Don't pick nits. If there's a disagreement, assume the best, not the worst...and look for these traits in her treatment of you as well.
Don't start too young. Your brains aren't fully formed until - at best - 25.
Try to understand the existence and nature of any underlying/buried trauma that either of you have suffered. If not looked in the face and dealt with, it will be the slow scourge, eating the relationship alive in ways you can't even imagine.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 3:55 pm to Philly Fanatic
The reality of married life is what you make of it. Y'all overthink these things too much.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 4:08 pm to Strannix
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This is why you marry a good true believing Christian woman, not some cuck shite either like the fake leftist churches. I'm talking about a fundamental Baptist
Sounds like my definition of hell.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 4:10 pm to Big Scrub TX
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Choice of partner is the #1 most important decision in almost everyone's live
This should be pounded into everyones head.
Its the single most important decision youll make.
Posted on 3/10/25 at 7:03 pm to jizzle6609
Everyone’s wife has swallowed some other dudes sperm. They all have some whore in them.
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