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Worst thing a family member you previously respected has done
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:29 pm
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:29 pm
Who’s the shittiest, most low down, dirty rotten scoundrel in your family that you once trusted?
My mom’s little brother was one of my idols as a kid. He used to babysit me in his dorm room, take me to college football games, taught me to play chess, and helped me out of a few sticky situations when I was in college.
But a couple years after my maw maw died, he revealed his true colors to me. We all thought he was the most successful of my mom and her six sibs, which he may be, but his actions have made me question everything I previously thought about him.
My grandparents left several hundred thousand dollars in a savings account and mutual funds. For some dumb reason, they didn’t leave a will. My Mawmaw trusted him, as the most successful, to execute her estate fairly and equally. Yet, he decided that his family needed all that money to themselves. And proceeded to pay off his home, buy some land, and new vehicles for his wife and kids on my grandparents life savings.
I grew up close to my grandparents and saw them at least once a month as a kid, and they lived till I was in my 30’s, so I knew them quite well. And I know nothing would have saddened them them more than to see what their son has done.
My mom is the type that never wants to rock the boat and always keep the peace, and wishes I would forgive him. He has told his sibs that he believes it was rightly his because he helped out my grandparents. I know he’s full of shite, and I have nothing but contempt for him.
My mom’s little brother was one of my idols as a kid. He used to babysit me in his dorm room, take me to college football games, taught me to play chess, and helped me out of a few sticky situations when I was in college.
But a couple years after my maw maw died, he revealed his true colors to me. We all thought he was the most successful of my mom and her six sibs, which he may be, but his actions have made me question everything I previously thought about him.
My grandparents left several hundred thousand dollars in a savings account and mutual funds. For some dumb reason, they didn’t leave a will. My Mawmaw trusted him, as the most successful, to execute her estate fairly and equally. Yet, he decided that his family needed all that money to themselves. And proceeded to pay off his home, buy some land, and new vehicles for his wife and kids on my grandparents life savings.
I grew up close to my grandparents and saw them at least once a month as a kid, and they lived till I was in my 30’s, so I knew them quite well. And I know nothing would have saddened them them more than to see what their son has done.
My mom is the type that never wants to rock the boat and always keep the peace, and wishes I would forgive him. He has told his sibs that he believes it was rightly his because he helped out my grandparents. I know he’s full of shite, and I have nothing but contempt for him.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:33 pm to Masterag
That sucks. Have you talked to him about it? Did he financially support your grandparents financially the whole time?
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:33 pm to Masterag
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For some dumb reason, they didn’t leave a will. My Mawmaw trusted him, as the most successful, to execute her estate fairly and equally.
It very well could be a violation of the estate. Did she challenge it and take him to court?
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:34 pm to Masterag
Nothing much. An uncle went down a political rabbit hole on Facebook but I was just disappointed, not upset.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:35 pm to Masterag
There's probably a lot to this story yet to be revealed
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:37 pm to Masterag
Had a similar thing happen to my mom. Her uncle had a will and left her his house and my aunt some CDs worth about 250k.
Her uncle misspelled my mom’s name, and my aunt claimed it should all be hers. She railroaded my mom and my mom didn’t want to fight it. Created a huge rift in the family. I was super close to my cousin, we haven’t talked in years now since that occurred
Her uncle misspelled my mom’s name, and my aunt claimed it should all be hers. She railroaded my mom and my mom didn’t want to fight it. Created a huge rift in the family. I was super close to my cousin, we haven’t talked in years now since that occurred
This post was edited on 1/5/25 at 9:38 pm
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:45 pm to Masterag
Oldmanbeasley’s cousin Larry got sexually assaulted by a penguin while on a family trip. While it’s never right to victim blame, Larry had it coming. Completely ruined the trip.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:46 pm to Masterag
That's really your Mom's issue to worry about. Not really something you should be overly concerned with. I mean I don't blame you for turning sour on him, but don't dwell on it.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:48 pm to Masterag
Money does terrible things to families.
I've seen it firsthand.
I've seen it firsthand.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:48 pm to Funky Tide 8
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Have you talked to him about it? Did he financially support your grandparents financially the whole time?
No, but I’ve seen the bank statements. My grandparents both had pensions, SS, everything paid off, no debt, whatsoever. There’s really nothing he could say to justify this.
He told his sibs that he used some of his bonus checks to help them out before, but provided no proof of any transactions, and considering they were clearly well off, I’m not sure why they would have asked him for help.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:50 pm to idlewatcher
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It very well could be a violation of the estate. Did she challenge it and take him to court?
They can’t. My Mawmaw put his name as her beneficiary on all her accounts.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:51 pm to Masterag
My nephew snagged the neck before I could get to it @ Thanksgiving.
We got into pretty good in the backyard. Took about 45 minutes, but I showed him who's boss.
NGL, he's pretty tough for a 10 year old...
We got into pretty good in the backyard. Took about 45 minutes, but I showed him who's boss.
NGL, he's pretty tough for a 10 year old...
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:53 pm to N2cars
My family embezzled from me after I had my stroke
is THAT bad?
is THAT bad?
Posted on 1/5/25 at 9:53 pm to Masterag
Does she live in LA? You can’t write out any offspring. So technically I don’t think he could take it even if she listed him
Posted on 1/5/25 at 10:01 pm to greenbean
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That's really your Mom's issue to worry about. Not really something you should be overly concerned with
There are also several hundred acres of land involved, which I will inherit so long as he doesn’t find some way to swindle that, too. So I am concerned.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 10:01 pm to Masterag
My cousin convinced some British folks that he met online that my uncle (his dad) was some type of huge POS father and human being. He then convinced them to allow him to move to England to live with them for awhile .
My uncle is an amazing person, the things said about him couldn't have been further from the truth. Well after, living with the british folks for a few months they started to suspect that my cousins story just wasnt quite adding up. They ended up contacting my uncle and telling him the things my cousin had said about him. To make matters worse, this was about the same time my uncle was diagnosed with cancer.
Ultimately, he apologized and admitted he had made everything up. Everyone has forgiven him but no one can forget something like that. I never really understood why he did it but it was certainly a very unexpected and strange thing to happen.
My uncle is an amazing person, the things said about him couldn't have been further from the truth. Well after, living with the british folks for a few months they started to suspect that my cousins story just wasnt quite adding up. They ended up contacting my uncle and telling him the things my cousin had said about him. To make matters worse, this was about the same time my uncle was diagnosed with cancer.
Ultimately, he apologized and admitted he had made everything up. Everyone has forgiven him but no one can forget something like that. I never really understood why he did it but it was certainly a very unexpected and strange thing to happen.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 10:03 pm to DCtiger1
they always convince themselves they have the right so that makes them right
Posted on 1/5/25 at 10:04 pm to Jaydeaux
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Does she live in LA?
No, Texas. I’ve looked at the law, and there’s nothing to be done.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 10:04 pm to Masterag
"My Mawmaw put his name as her beneficiary on all her accounts."
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Maybe she wanted to leave it all to him.
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Maybe she wanted to leave it all to him.
Posted on 1/5/25 at 10:06 pm to PrideofTheSEC
Yeah, that’s some weird shite.

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