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re: Women come up with the dumbest stuff i swear
Posted on 10/3/17 at 7:42 pm to vengeanceofrain
Posted on 10/3/17 at 7:42 pm to vengeanceofrain
while i see what you're saying and don't completely disagree with it, i think sometimes it's circumstantial. some of us don't just act on impulse.
typically, you become or already are friends with your SO. isn't it logical to think that the guys a girl keeps around are also potential guys she might want to date.
not because they're orbiters. just the simple fact that the friendship reveals the kind of SO the guy would be and if the timing is right... who knows.
if i look at my little black book of guy friends, there would be guys in there that i would potentially date, because i already know i have friendship with them and know that part would already click.
typically, you become or already are friends with your SO. isn't it logical to think that the guys a girl keeps around are also potential guys she might want to date.
not because they're orbiters. just the simple fact that the friendship reveals the kind of SO the guy would be and if the timing is right... who knows.
if i look at my little black book of guy friends, there would be guys in there that i would potentially date, because i already know i have friendship with them and know that part would already click.
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Posted on 10/3/17 at 7:43 pm to celltech1981
Ive only read the first two pages so I may end up editing later on, but Im almost wondering if she has an STD.
Reason I say that is bc I knew a girl who did this same scenario to one of her past boyfriends. She always said she liked him alot and wanted to wait bc she wanted them to have a really special bond before they sealed the deal. Well come to find out later on, she had herpes and wanted to hold on to him as long as possible. I felt bad for the guy bc he was really into her and was willing to go along with waiting bc he felt she was worth it. Needless to say he left her when he found out.
I know its a hard thing to ask, but Id really make sure you are good to go before sealing the deal.
Reason I say that is bc I knew a girl who did this same scenario to one of her past boyfriends. She always said she liked him alot and wanted to wait bc she wanted them to have a really special bond before they sealed the deal. Well come to find out later on, she had herpes and wanted to hold on to him as long as possible. I felt bad for the guy bc he was really into her and was willing to go along with waiting bc he felt she was worth it. Needless to say he left her when he found out.
I know its a hard thing to ask, but Id really make sure you are good to go before sealing the deal.
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:17 pm to JOHNN
OP, I'm in a situation exactly like this. Except I've known this woman for 3 years and been very good friends with her off and on. When we had our first date, she literally asks if we were going to have sex on the way home. At the time she explained she was scared to because she liked me so much. She was fresh out of a divorce and had several other dates. We made out for a while that night. She's 40, blonde, lives at the gym, and a serial dater. Real low self esteem, suffers from mood swings and depression. One of those that won't takes pics of herself unless shes 20 feet from camera and won't take pics with men. All that and she's knock out gorgeous. Otherwise, very fun and pleasing person.
She was in a year long relationship shortly after we started dating b/c I decided to pursue other interests. She kept talking to me during the course of that relationship. This guy dumped her and she's still obsessed with him. He's a classic narcasist and defrauded her out of her vehicle and money while in the relationship. We spent a lot of time together this summer. We had a lot of fun together. We have a lot in common personality wise and business wise. She has the idea it's ok to be promiscuous and talks about how she is, but has the idea she don't want to be that way with me. The funny thing is shes very attracted to me(i'm just a sexy successful guy). My guess is, I could ask her to marry me and she would say yes, but until then she won't do it unless I force myself on her. Which I wouldn't doubt that she wants me to do. It's just who she is.
Now she's ignoring me again and serial dating again. She falls in love with a new guy each week. There's never even rhyme or reason for who she picks. They aren't long term mates. Her 2 obsessions has been a married man with a family, and the narcasist that stole from her and dumped her. She stated she was never in love with either of her 2 husbands she bore 1 and 2 kids with, 6 years and 10 year marriages respectively.
The amazing thing is, she would probably make an ideal wife. And she would probably marry me, if I just ask.
She was in a year long relationship shortly after we started dating b/c I decided to pursue other interests. She kept talking to me during the course of that relationship. This guy dumped her and she's still obsessed with him. He's a classic narcasist and defrauded her out of her vehicle and money while in the relationship. We spent a lot of time together this summer. We had a lot of fun together. We have a lot in common personality wise and business wise. She has the idea it's ok to be promiscuous and talks about how she is, but has the idea she don't want to be that way with me. The funny thing is shes very attracted to me(i'm just a sexy successful guy). My guess is, I could ask her to marry me and she would say yes, but until then she won't do it unless I force myself on her. Which I wouldn't doubt that she wants me to do. It's just who she is.
Now she's ignoring me again and serial dating again. She falls in love with a new guy each week. There's never even rhyme or reason for who she picks. They aren't long term mates. Her 2 obsessions has been a married man with a family, and the narcasist that stole from her and dumped her. She stated she was never in love with either of her 2 husbands she bore 1 and 2 kids with, 6 years and 10 year marriages respectively.
The amazing thing is, she would probably make an ideal wife. And she would probably marry me, if I just ask.
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:21 pm to carguymatt
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The amazing thing is, she would probably make an ideal wife. And she would probably marry me, if I just ask.
Oh
My
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:26 pm to carguymatt
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Now she's ignoring me again and serial dating again. She falls in love with a new guy each week. There's never even rhyme or reason for who she picks. They aren't long term mates. Her 2 obsessions has been a married man with a family, and the narcasist that stole from her and dumped her. She stated she was never in love with either of her 2 husbands she bore 1 and 2 kids with, 6 years and 10 year marriages respectively.
The amazing thing is, she would probably make an ideal wife. And she would probably marry me, if I just ask.
Yeah id steer clear from this broad. Like way clear. But then again it sounds like you're one of those dudes that thrive on female drama.
This post was edited on 10/3/17 at 8:27 pm
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:43 pm to tke857
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Yeah id steer clear from this broad. Like way clear. But then again it sounds like you're one of those dudes that thrive on female drama.
I appreciate your advice. Yes it would be rocky sometimes. It would definitely be risky but I can't get her out of my system. She fits my needs and I fit her needs in too many ways. She's not a fighter. She's the clingy type.
I've tried to submit the idea indirectly as a friend, she will only be happy in an open marriage where she can bang other dudes. b/c shes in to dudes she can't have or dudes with little social substance like body builders. That's one area we are in a stalemate on.
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:48 pm to carguymatt
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she will only be happy in an open marriage where she can bang other dudes. b/c shes in to dudes she can't have or dudes with little social substance like body builders. That's one area we are in a stalemate on.
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but I can't get her out of my system.
You need to just go ahead and compromise. Put a ring on her finger but continue to let her frick Brad, Chad, and Thad and be happy Baw
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:52 pm to vengeanceofrain
Dumb...
Posted on 10/3/17 at 8:59 pm to SuperSaint
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You need to just go ahead and compromise. Put a ring on her finger but continue to let her frick Brad, Chad, and Thad and be happy Baw
It wouldn't be quite like that.
She's in denial that's what will ultimately make her happy. Her first husband told her the same thing when they were married.
Let me bang chicks, let her bang certain dudes with ground rules but we could still grow together in other ways.
Her main medicine for controlling her mental and emotional problems is exercise. She bonds with empty soulless men who also obsess over exercise. But she's easily controlled by me.
Posted on 10/3/17 at 9:33 pm to carguymatt
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But she's easily controlled by me.
Yet, she gets her way on everything and you sit there, dick in hand, thinking about her banging 'roid boys.
Yeah, you have her under firm control.
Posted on 10/3/17 at 10:53 pm to carguymatt
OP, I'm in a situation exactly like this. Except I've known this woman for 3 years and been very good friends with her off and on. When we had our first date, she literally asks if we were going to have sex on the way home. At the time she explained she was scared to because she liked me so much. She was fresh out of a divorce and had several other dates. We made out for a while that night. She's 40, blonde, lives at the gym, and a serial dater. Real low self esteem, suffers from mood swings and depression. One of those that won't takes pics of herself unless shes 20 feet from camera and won't take pics with men. All that and she's knock out gorgeous. Otherwise, very fun and pleasing person.
She was in a year long relationship shortly after we started dating b/c I decided to pursue other interests. She kept talking to me during the course of that relationship. This guy dumped her and she's still obsessed with him. He's a classic narcasist and defrauded her out of her vehicle and money while in the relationship. We spent a lot of time together this summer. We had a lot of fun together. We have a lot in common personality wise and business wise. She has the idea it's ok to be promiscuous and talks about how she is, but has the idea she don't want to be that way with me. The funny thing is shes very attracted to me(i'm just a sexy successful guy). My guess is, I could ask her to marry me and she would say yes, but until then she won't do it unless I force myself on her. Which I wouldn't doubt that she wants me to do. It's just who she is.
Now she's ignoring me again and serial dating again. She falls in love with a new guy each week. There's never even rhyme or reason for who she picks. They aren't long term mates. Her 2 obsessions has been a married man with a family, and the narcasist that stole from her and dumped her. She stated she was never in love with either of her 2 husbands she bore 1 and 2 kids with, 6 years and 10 year marriages respectively.
The amazing thing is, she would probably make an ideal wife. And she would probably marry me, if I just ask.
Uhhhhhhh....
She was in a year long relationship shortly after we started dating b/c I decided to pursue other interests. She kept talking to me during the course of that relationship. This guy dumped her and she's still obsessed with him. He's a classic narcasist and defrauded her out of her vehicle and money while in the relationship. We spent a lot of time together this summer. We had a lot of fun together. We have a lot in common personality wise and business wise. She has the idea it's ok to be promiscuous and talks about how she is, but has the idea she don't want to be that way with me. The funny thing is shes very attracted to me(i'm just a sexy successful guy). My guess is, I could ask her to marry me and she would say yes, but until then she won't do it unless I force myself on her. Which I wouldn't doubt that she wants me to do. It's just who she is.
Now she's ignoring me again and serial dating again. She falls in love with a new guy each week. There's never even rhyme or reason for who she picks. They aren't long term mates. Her 2 obsessions has been a married man with a family, and the narcasist that stole from her and dumped her. She stated she was never in love with either of her 2 husbands she bore 1 and 2 kids with, 6 years and 10 year marriages respectively.
The amazing thing is, she would probably make an ideal wife. And she would probably marry me, if I just ask.
Uhhhhhhh....
Posted on 10/4/17 at 6:47 am to celltech1981
I ended things with her last night. Told her that she seemed to want more than I was gonna give her and that i don't want to lead her on. She thanked me for being honest. I hope she doesn't key my car today.
Posted on 10/4/17 at 8:13 am to celltech1981
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Told her that she seemed to want more than I was gonna give her and that i don't want to lead her on. She thanked me for being honest.
good man, and after two weeks, doubtful that she's looking for revenge. Posted on 10/4/17 at 8:16 am to celltech1981
quote:real talk
ended things with her last night. Told her that she seemed to want more than I was gonna give her and that i don't want to lead her on. She thanked me for being honest. I hope she doesn't key my car today.
You did the right thing. Treat others how you would like to be treated. Honesty is always the answer with yourself and the ones you're involved with.
Posted on 10/4/17 at 8:24 am to celltech1981
She has HPV. She has an STD. She likes you so she doesn't wanna just mess you over but wants to wait till you're monogamous before giving it to you
Posted on 10/4/17 at 9:41 am to celltech1981
It has only been a couple of weeks. Do you want to be with someone that has sex with anyone and everything without a thought?
Posted on 10/4/17 at 9:53 am to carguymatt
da frick
Posted on 10/4/17 at 10:20 am to celltech1981
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I ended things with her last night. Told her that she seemed to want more than I was gonna give her and that i don't want to lead her on. She thanked me for being honest. I hope she doesn't key my car today.
Did you throw in the caveat that you are definitely open to her continuing to blow you?
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