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re: Women are ruining children/our future
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:11 am to jessecraig
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:11 am to jessecraig
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My kids are allowed in my room & allowed to sleep in my bed. That’s weird to me, why that was even a thing, I don't know
Hard rule against this in our home.
Kid NEVER has slept in our bed (he’s 3).
Don’t have a prob with the entire list, but social media has given a megaphone to the ignorant amongst us.
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Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:12 am to slappy dappy doo
Sounds like the guidelines to raising another generation of entitled assholes!
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:14 am to slappy dappy doo
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1. My kids will never get perfect attendance at school. There will be trips to take & mental health days to be had. And if they need a day, I probably do too. ? 2. My kids are allowed in my room & allowed to sleep in my bed. That’s weird to me, why that was even a thing, I don't know. ? 3. We can always get something from the store. Want a $1 hot wheel? Or to pick out your own special snack, have at it. ? 4. If you don’t like dinner, don’t eat it. If I know you won’t like it, I’ll always make separate dinner. Nobody goes to bed hungry ? 5. Sleep in. I’ll never wake you up early on a weekend unless we’re doing something fun. Sleep til 10? I don’t care. ? 6. You won’t have to have straight A’s or be afraid to show me your grades. Chance are I’ll already know you tried your best & we’ll already have a plan to get you the help you need. ? 7. We are the fun house. You can always invite your friends over without fear of harassment, embarrassment or hostility. ? 8. You never have to hug anybody you don’t want too. Nothing else needs to be said here. ? 9. 9/10 times we can stop at the chick fil a when you ask, because mama wants a fry too. 10. I never want you to be afraid to tell me that you messed up. I want to be your first call, I will be your safe space. And I’m here for all of it.
Or
1. If you aren’t puking/shitting you’re going to school.
2.you better knock on my door before coming in my room. If I’m not in my room then you definitely have no reason to be in there. If you are older than 3 then you aren’t sleeping with mom and dad on occasion anymore.
4.if you don’t like dinner don’t eat it but understand that is all there is and you will go hungry.
5.Eh,not too much issue with this one.
6.You will put forth the effort to have the best grades you can achieve.
7.I’m down with this one.
8. Also good with this one unless it’s us parents ir grandparents. Other than that, if you don’t feel comfortable hugging someone then don’t.
9.chic fil a is overrated.
10.Definitely ok with this one.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:15 am to tigafan4life
quote:A result of some parents lucking out with extremely even-tempered children who go with the flow no matter what getting onto social media proclaiming they’ve found the one-size-fit-all solution
gentle parenting
it cracks me up. 
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:15 am to slappy dappy doo
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Women are ruining children/our future
I may get a lot of hate for this.
White women pushed for the lgtbq stuff. White women are the majority of the folks transitioning.
White women are the ones who are pushing to have kids transitioned not men.
A white women headed the NAACP for a couple of years
A white women tried to run for president and ruin us for good but thank God that didnt happen.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:16 am to slappy dappy doo
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My kids will never get perfect attendance at school. There will be trips to take
That’s the only one I’m in agreement on.
Not the mental health stuff.
When my youngest was in 2nd grade we had a long Labor Day weekend where we wanted to go to my in laws and go hunting. I wanted to pull him out Thursday afternoon and all day Friday and the school told me we couldn’t do that.
As soon as the words “you’re not allowed” came out of the principal’s mouth I started laughing.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:16 am to When in Rome
Exactly. Gentle parenting is for gentle kids. Come meet my strong willed child and try to do that shite.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:16 am to slappy dappy doo
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and he from within shall answer and say, ‘Trouble me not; the door is now shut and my children are with me in bed, and I cannot rise and give to thee’?
Luke 11:7
Maybe this Tiktok trend is about teenagers or some weird shite but all of the people who think little kids sharing beds is some liberal trend are ignorant.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:16 am to jessecraig
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This one is traditional. From biblical times until very recently in human history children shared beds with their parents and then their siblings.
What about having sex? Also, half of kids today live with mom and stepdad. Is that ok too?
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:16 am to jizzle6609
There are plenty of white women raising kids with traditional values too. They just don’t care about getting likes on social media and going viral at town hall meetings
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:17 am to slappy dappy doo
As with so many in the current generation they take things way too far and make massive over generalizations instead of just using common sense.
As an 80s child with young kids currently, there are a few things in there I try to do parts of at times.
We literally couldn't afford dinner out, vacations or grabbing a toy from time to time very often when I was little, so I love to be able to do those things for my kids more often. However, I dang sure make sure to sometimes say NO and hold firm because learning you can't get everything you want is one of the most important lessons in life.
I also make sure to assure my kids that though discipline never means they aren't very very much loved and remind them quickly of that after they are disciplined. So, yes I want them to be willing to admit to their mistakes as they get older, but that doesn't mean there won't be discipline.
All in all, there are some small parts of this that most would agree with, but as usual, this generation takes it waaaay to far and craps all over common sense.
As an 80s child with young kids currently, there are a few things in there I try to do parts of at times.
We literally couldn't afford dinner out, vacations or grabbing a toy from time to time very often when I was little, so I love to be able to do those things for my kids more often. However, I dang sure make sure to sometimes say NO and hold firm because learning you can't get everything you want is one of the most important lessons in life.
I also make sure to assure my kids that though discipline never means they aren't very very much loved and remind them quickly of that after they are disciplined. So, yes I want them to be willing to admit to their mistakes as they get older, but that doesn't mean there won't be discipline.
All in all, there are some small parts of this that most would agree with, but as usual, this generation takes it waaaay to far and craps all over common sense.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:17 am to slappy dappy doo
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And I’m here for all of it.
Wish this had been first instead of last. I could’ve stopped right there.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:18 am to tigafan4life
quote:Amen
Exactly. Gentle parenting is for gentle kids. Come meet my strong willed child and try to do that shite.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:19 am to When in Rome
She sees me as weak if u act like that parent in the original post.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:20 am to adamau
I agree with these.
1. My kids will never get perfect attendance at school.
8. You never have to hug anybody you don’t want too. Nothing else needs to be said here.
10. I never want you to be afraid to tell me that you messed up. I want to be your first call, I will be your safe space.
I totally plan to pull my kids out of school for trips.
Making kids hug people is weird and creepy. If they don't want to, that's ok.
I teach my kids to tell me when they frick up. They may still get in trouble but I don't lose my shite on them.
If they're afraid to tell you that they spilled a cup of milk, you think they'll tell you something that could really get them on a bad path?
The rest is just soft arse bullshite.
1. My kids will never get perfect attendance at school.
8. You never have to hug anybody you don’t want too. Nothing else needs to be said here.
10. I never want you to be afraid to tell me that you messed up. I want to be your first call, I will be your safe space.
I totally plan to pull my kids out of school for trips.
Making kids hug people is weird and creepy. If they don't want to, that's ok.
I teach my kids to tell me when they frick up. They may still get in trouble but I don't lose my shite on them.
If they're afraid to tell you that they spilled a cup of milk, you think they'll tell you something that could really get them on a bad path?
The rest is just soft arse bullshite.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:21 am to ghost2most
quote:. That is easy to do when you have younger kids but pulling them out during the school year when they are in high school is not a good idea.
tally plan to pull my kids out of school for trips.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:24 am to tigafan4life
Oh yeah. Strong-willed children look for any weakness to exploit practically constantly and try to negotiate every single thing to get what they want.
This post was edited on 7/16/23 at 3:02 pm
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:24 am to Rick9Plus
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What about having sex? Also, half of kids today live with mom and stepdad. Is that ok too?
I wasn't necessarily making a value judgement, just pointing out that that one in particular isn't some new liberal trendy thing. The average woman in ancient times had eight pregnancies so
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:31 am to ghost2most
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Making kids hug people is weird and creepy.
how is this "weird and creepy"? yeah, maybe hugging the old drunk uncle or something but hugging your great aunt or something isn't. This is just a modern construct of "creepy". it's creepy because you make it creepy.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 8:36 am to When in Rome
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The majority of that list is ridiculous. Don’t lump all women/moms together with the ridiculous women
Sorry, wrong. It happened regularly around my kids for over a decade, and is still occurring. I watched the aftermath of helicopter parenting at LSU with the younger students in the early 00s. It is easily 2/3 of women (that are super busy and stressed, doncha know!) that go along with this kind of garbage.
Men let women get away with this crap, and then we became enablers.
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