re: Woman's blog on why her husband doesn't need to see other women's boobs

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I’m just writing from the perspective of a woman who is in a happy and committed long distance relationship. And for that reason, I want to tell you that I never tell my boyfriend who to look at, nor do I monitor his newsfeed. Because guess what? If a picture of some girl with bigger boobs than mine makes him lose interest in me, we have bigger problems than social media. Take some responsibility – happy people don’t cheat. I’m not blaming the victim, but a relationship is a two person deal, and a picture of a friend in a bikini isn’t going to make or break anything.

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Either you’re married to a 15 year old boy, or you are incredibly insecure — even if you don’t realize it. Do you know what is really unattractive? Telling your SO not to look at other women. Telling them it’s a stumbling block. If my boyfriend took my magazines and ripped out the pages of shirtless men before I was allowed to read them, we wouldn’t be together much longer.

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Well, I used to have cellulite until Crossfit made me do a bunch of squats. But don’t worry…every squat I do, all I think about is the bikini pictures I will get to post that will hopefully ruin someone’s marriage. Virtual marriage ruining is what gets me through my work out. It’s completely about YOU.

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……..You are a terrible, miserable controlling woman and I expect you will be cheated on in no time. I cannot even imagine how my SO would respond, but I know if I was told this, I’d be changing those locks before you got back.

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More like protecting his brain and potential migraine from hearing his Debbie Downer wife bitch at him for going on the internet. Do you know you can watch orgies with like 50 women fully nude on the internet? And you’re worried about FACEBOOK? Facebook who won’t let nips show in pics???

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No way this chick has a great marriage. I’d understand more if she wrote this directed to HBO or photoshopped women in Vogue or almost anything else. As it stands, all she has done is come across as a controlling and demanding wife, and as a self-centered bitch. Not all Facebook picture are about you, lady. I can basically give you my personal guarantee that none of the people posting anything are thinking about you — well, except now they probably are.

For your husband:

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To say that “happy people don’t cheat” is very atavistic, over simplifying, and does not contribute to your idea. Yes, if you’re afraid someone is going to cheat on you something is wrong. But saying that happy people don’t cheat puts the responsibility on the person being cheated on, where they are in no way responsible. The cheater chooses their actions. If they are unhappy; fix it, or end it. It sounds like you’re saying cheating is an unavoidable, uncontrollable consequence for apparently insecure women. Please slow your roll, calm down, and worry more about yourself. Though you made some fair points, the unfair ones stuck with me much more. Try some feminism. You’ll feel better.

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quote: Why is this 15 pages? Worth reading ? not at all. typicals keep bumping it

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this girl gets it:

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lsunurse

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