re: Why is it that even when I win an argument with my wife I feel like I’ve lost?

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She’s back to talking to me btw she said she understood and gave me a BJ and sex last night

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And then everybody clapped and your wife's boyfriend gave you a $100 bill.

That boyfriend's name? Alberham Lincolnstein.

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OP is a douche.

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yep, I think he started this to show what a baw's baw he is, but if he's serious, he's just a douche and I feel bad for his sister

The more I read his responses - I hope like hell he doesn’t go and she wises up to the narcissistic POS that she’s married too and leaves his arse.

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I said it earlier in this thread that all a man need to do is make his wife feel loved, cherished and like a priority and she would be putty in his hands.

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Sounds wonderful. Warm yummy feminine putty. Presuming said wife does not have a personality disorder. Then he is basically irrelevant. A prop. A meat suit for her to work her shite out on, a mat to be pissed on just prior to devaluation and discard. But I digress, lol.

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i don’t see any reason not to accommodate my woman at her HS reunion, i get why she is mad with you.

gold with your friends any other time, reunions are special to most folks, even it if is not yours.

be happy she wants you to go, otherwise, don’t go and she may end up in the parking lot getting getting it on with her kindergarten crush.

just saying, go with her, grin ans bare it, embrace it, she will likely be all horny afterwards, get her drunk and maybe go for the back door at the end of the night, ????

Well you’re right, but most times it’s not clear. I guess I was just saying even if she says it’s fine or doesn’t act hurt it’s the opposite.

I would just ask her , “ Hey if I don’t go with you is it going to upset you or hurt your feelings. “

She’s more than like going to say it’s fine and so OP needs to make plans to go lol

I feel you bro

my neighbors next door and across the street are vietnamese, wonderful people, generous to a fault

but dont come to SW Houston, you wouid have a meltdown just driving around like you are back in HCMC

some Bo Ne with some vermcelli and fresh french bread is my jam, my very white american wife loves Vietnamese food, we eat it at least once a week

It boils down to you being selfish. You want your cake & eat it too. How about put some energy into your wife & marriage. And what it reallyyyy boils down to is you want to golf. Has nothing to do with you not knowing anyone. If you were asked to golf with a bunch of strangers. I bet you’d show up.