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Why do women grab you when they are scared?

Posted on 10/19/19 at 5:21 pm
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 5:21 pm
Always puzzled me why whenever a girl gets scared she grabs your arm or clings to you. I thought it was cute, but honestly dumb. If you grab my arm or bear hug me, it makes it less likely I could do something to fight off what scared you.

Until you think about it scientifically. Being that it's a common trait across cultures, the act is something that arose from natural selection. Meaning females that had the grab trait lived while those that didn't, died out.

It's like the old joke with the punchline, "I don't have to outrun the bear, I only have to outrun you".

Women being weaker and slower would be more likely to die if something attacked and the guy ran away. So women who grabbed the guy, would keep him in the fight, and may be able to get away themselves once the guy started fighting what was attacking.

So I don't find it cute anymore, bitch is just trying to make sure that you don't get away and die before she does.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 5:22 pm to
You aren't fighting anyone off Kujo
Posted by Bucktail1
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 5:22 pm to
Whores
Posted by kingbob
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 5:24 pm to
They want you to protect them and ensure the two of you don’t get seperated.
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 5:25 pm to
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They want you to protect them


Joke? ie. that you don't run away
Posted by t00f
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 6:04 pm to
They want the sex, duh.
Posted by Big Papa Satan
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 6:53 pm to
Why would anyone have a problem with it?

Hey, if I protect her, I’m definitely piihb later on.
Posted by keakar
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 6:55 pm to
to put you between them and danger

they are literally throwing you under the bus for them to get away. by grabbing onto you they expect any attack to cause you injury as they hide behind you as a human shield
Posted by OKellsBells
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 6:59 pm to
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Always puzzled me why whenever a girl gets scared she grabs your arm or clings to you

Instinct. My husband is a shield if we are in danger. He’s physically stronger and makes correct decisions more quickly than I when threatened. He wants to protect us; if I’m scared I will stay close to him. Seems pretty easy to understand.
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bitch is just trying to make sure that you don't get away and die before she does.

You got in a fight? What happened? Who won?





Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:01 pm to
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You got in a fight? What happened? Who won?

obviously the extra chromosome
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:02 pm to
This thread is the frame of mind that’s going to allow me to smash your bitch
Posted by OKellsBells
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:17 pm to
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:18 pm to
you know you love me
Posted by OKellsBells
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:33 pm to
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:35 pm to
I know what you mean


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there are no words


<3 U 2
Posted by Obtuse1
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:39 pm to
I'm pretty fricking sure my wife could kick your arse and not even scuff her Manolo Blahniks in the process.
Posted by tuptiger
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 7:40 pm to
Run that by me one more time? Maybe she wanted you to back door it in if you know what I mean.
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 8:47 pm to
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Instinct. My husband is a shield if we are in danger. He’s physically stronger and makes correct decisions more quickly than I when threatened. He wants to protect us; if I’m scared I will stay close to him. Seems pretty easy to understand.


But why grab his arm if it's going to hinder his ability to defend you? That's the issue. Why grab? My hypothesis is that it's to keep him from running.
Posted by OKellsBells
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 8:53 pm to
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Why grab? My hypothesis is that it's to keep him from running.


Well, yeah.
Posted by jmarto1
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Posted on 10/19/19 at 11:04 pm to
#himtoo
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