re: Why do wives get butt hurt when you nicely tell them you're not in mood to talk

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same reason you get butthurt when she rebuffs your sexual advances.

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There's an easy solution to that problem. I tell her I'm getting some pussy, whether it's hers or someone else's is her decision.

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I tell her I'm getting some pussy, whether it's hers or someone else's is her decision.

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Lol...

NoHoTiger with the mf win

Because they're selfish. And short sited.

They don't want to talk - you're an a-hole who isn't understanding. doesn't matter what you want, they won't talk to you, and they will get furious if you push the subject. They just want to be left alone and you should respect that.

You don't want to talk -you're an a-hole who isn't understanding. doesn't matter what you want they will talk to you and will get furious if you push the subject. They just want to be listened to and you should respect that.

Point is relationships are like who's line is it anyway - it's all made up and the points don't matter. You're always going to be in the wrong and you're always going to be an a-hole.

The key is finding someone who will put up with you and who you can put up with. Marriage is fricking work. It's harder than a job. But if you find the right person it's worth it.

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same reason you get butthurt when she rebuffs your sexual advances. Each of you expresses your feelings in a particular way and you expect your significant other to respect that even when they aren't in the mood.

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Exactly.....if I'm expected to instantly be in the mood sex wise.....at least my husband can listen to me whine about work and talk with me. Only fair.

If you caveat it by saying you're not in the mood to talk "right now", you leave the door open to talking about it in the future.

Without that caveat, you give the impression you don't want to talk "at all".

Amen Breesus!

Tell them "no" when they ask if you're paying attention and see what happens

All of the problems in my life come from the women in my life.

Women are emotional creatures. Men, just don't get it. It'll always be that way. The sooner you accept it, the better off you'll be.

If you'll just master the art of nodding your head and repeating every third word that she says while actually tuning her out your life will get much better because she'll think that you're interested.