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re: Why are you husbands so insecure about your wives?
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:22 am to LSU in the hizzle
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:22 am to LSU in the hizzle
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Geesh, you fellas don't have much confidence that you're able to please your woman if you're that terrified of her having lunch or coffee with an old childhood friend.
So a woman talked to you, now you make a thread about it.
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Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:25 am to SantaFe
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Lots of numbers and locations all over SE La.
Damn bruh she was running with all kinds of dudes?? Good you got out.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:26 am to RogerTheShrubber
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So a woman talked to you, now you make a thread about it.
Talked briefly and then ran away when he became creepy
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:35 am to LSU in the hizzle
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I just can't imagine going through life so terrified and insecure that if my wife had lunch with a male coworker that she is going to bang him.
You didn’t even talk to YOUR girlfriend about the situation to find out her perspective. A woman’s perspective. The only perspective that matters here since you only spoke to the woman and don’t know what the husband actually thinks.
Why would you even have a girlfriend if you don’t talk to her about what is going on in your life?
Because you know she’d possibly give you shite for your mindset on this subject, and you didn’t want the hassle. Same thing the old friend was doing.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 12:05 pm
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:44 am to lake chuck fan
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If you and her husband knew one another, it would be different. Or if he was someone she worked with. I wouldn't want my wife alone, on a lunch date with a man I didn't know (especially one she hadn't seen in 10 years).
Yep. No problem with friends of opposite sex, but it's all about the relationship they have with your SO also.
My best friend is a male, and he's officiating our wedding in a few months. One of our other closest friends is a dude. But both of these guys have spent just as much time with us together or Jones solo as they have with me. So when we grab a beer together, nobody thinks anything of it.
A strange person your partner has never heard of and doesn't have their own friendship with is an entirely different thing.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 9:46 am
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:57 am to Epic Cajun
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I agree, but people in this thread seem to be putting forth the idea that eating lunch alone with anyone of the opposite sex is a "no-no"
it's not that blanket of an answer.
as mentioned above, coworkers is one thing. Unfortunately in today's society, it's probably a good idea to have someone else there. Mainly just to CYA. Not that you would or ever have done or said anything inappropriate, but all it takes is a misinterpretation/accusation to ruin a life/career.
an old female friend that squeals and and hugs tightly?
yeah, that's a recipe for disaster.
I had a friend that met that description in High School. Haven't seen her in 20-25 years.
No way in hell would I ask (or accept) to meet up without our spouses if we ran into each other. It's common decency and respect for my wife and her husband.
My wife would let me and trust me. But she would hate if it happened.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 9:59 am to LSU in the hizzle
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I said "Hey, we should grab a coffee or bite to eat some time".
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There was a mutual attraction growing up, but we never even dated.
Sounds like maybe you need to check yo self before asking others about insecurities...
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:00 am to SJS101
So many insecure husbands out there.
I have a girlfriend.
I have zero interest romantically with this old neighbor chick.
She was all giddy and trying to chat me up and I had to be in a meeting in 5 minutes, I had zero time for chit chat.
Instead of saying "f off, I don't have time to talk" I merely offered to grab lunch sometime to basically finish the conversation and not be rude.
I didn't even want to.
I was just being polite.
If you can't trust your wife to have lunch with a childhood friend without blowing him then you either know that your wife is a whore, or you have an inferiority complex, probably because you know that you don't measure up and you are afraid that she is looking for someone that does.
I can't imagine going through life so weak and insecure.
I have a girlfriend.
I have zero interest romantically with this old neighbor chick.
She was all giddy and trying to chat me up and I had to be in a meeting in 5 minutes, I had zero time for chit chat.
Instead of saying "f off, I don't have time to talk" I merely offered to grab lunch sometime to basically finish the conversation and not be rude.
I didn't even want to.
I was just being polite.
If you can't trust your wife to have lunch with a childhood friend without blowing him then you either know that your wife is a whore, or you have an inferiority complex, probably because you know that you don't measure up and you are afraid that she is looking for someone that does.
I can't imagine going through life so weak and insecure.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:03 am to LSU in the hizzle
You’re fricking weird man. Why does this bother you so much?
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:06 am to LSU in the hizzle
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I have a girlfriend. I have zero interest romantically with this old neighbor chick. She was all giddy and trying to chat me up and I had to be in a meeting in 5 minutes, I had zero time for chit chat. Instead of saying "f off, I don't have time to talk" I merely offered to grab lunch sometime to basically finish the conversation and not be rude. I didn't even want to. I was just being polite.
None of this matters. She knows none of this.
You asked her on a date. That’s what it looks like. She said she has a husband. Perhaps she was just being polite and that was her way of turning you down.
You acting like it’s normal for a married woman to agree to a date with some guy she bumped into. Give it up.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:08 am to kciDAtaE
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None of this matters. She knows none of this.
You asked her on a date. That’s what it looks like. She said she has a husband. Perhaps she was just being polite and that was her way of turning you down.
You acting like it’s normal for a married woman to agree to a date with some guy she bumped into. Give it up.
lunch isn't a date.
she wasn't my ex wife.
she wasn't an old girlfriend.
she was just a neighbor when I was a kid.
I can't imagine being adult who is afraid to have lunch with an old friend, or has to call home to get approval.
married people are weird and insecure.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 10:11 am
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:09 am to LSU in the hizzle
Let's look at the facts here:
Fact 1: You actually said lets grab a coffee or a bite to eat sometime. That's not asking an old friend to lunch, you asked her out on a date - plain and simple.
Fact 2: She turned you down politely, using her husband as an excuse (my wife and I use each other as excuses all the time when we don't want to do shite). You probably don't have the relationship experience to realize this is what actually happened.
Fact 3: It obviously upset you enough that you made a thread on here and have repeatedly called out the husband (who had literally nothing to do with this scenario) as being insecure and pathetic.
Determination: It is you who are insecure and pathetic. You asked a woman out on a date, got politely shot down and are still bothered by it and thus are taking your frustrations out on married men everywhere.
Action Item: Go get laid.
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Instead of saying "f off, I don't have time to talk" I merely offered to grab lunch sometime to basically finish the conversation and not be rude.
Fact 1: You actually said lets grab a coffee or a bite to eat sometime. That's not asking an old friend to lunch, you asked her out on a date - plain and simple.
Fact 2: She turned you down politely, using her husband as an excuse (my wife and I use each other as excuses all the time when we don't want to do shite). You probably don't have the relationship experience to realize this is what actually happened.
Fact 3: It obviously upset you enough that you made a thread on here and have repeatedly called out the husband (who had literally nothing to do with this scenario) as being insecure and pathetic.
Determination: It is you who are insecure and pathetic. You asked a woman out on a date, got politely shot down and are still bothered by it and thus are taking your frustrations out on married men everywhere.
Action Item: Go get laid.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 10:19 am
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:09 am to LSU in the hizzle
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lunch isn't a date. you people are weird.
I’m starting to think you don’t know what a date is and have probably never been on one.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:10 am to LSU in the hizzle
I kinda suspect that she liked running into you because it’s fun running into somebody you haven’t seen in a while, but she’s not interested in spending a whole hour eating lunch with you (for no particular reason), and the “husband” line was her way of rejecting your invite without being a bitch because she didn’t want to make you feel bad.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:11 am to LSU in the hizzle
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lunch isn't a date.
you people are weird.
Two people with alleged mutual attraction go to lunch isn't a date?
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:13 am to LSU in the hizzle
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lunch isn't a date.
you people are weird.
Regardless of whether it’s you intended it to be a date, SHE definitely viewed it as one. What do you not get about that? She didn’t want to go on what she perceived would be a date with you
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:13 am to bubbaprohn
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It is you who are insecure and pathetic.
I think OP pictures himself as a Rico Suave' and panty dropper extraordinaire, and was coming here in a subtle brag sort of way to show what a walking Jody threat he is, not panning out very well for him
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:13 am to GeauxxxTigers23
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I’m starting to think you don’t know what a date is and have probably never been on one.
insecure married guys are the guys that married the first girl that kissed them, and have been terrified since that she will dump them at any moment.
most married guys are sad and pathetic.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:14 am to lsu13lsu
I haven’t read the whole thread but y’all are doing it wrong. I have had zero worries in my 22 years of marriage about her having lunch with another dude. She knows she only has one chance to mess around and when I find out she is gone. Simple as that.
Posted on 6/10/22 at 10:15 am to LSU in the hizzle
You're an odd dude.
We use the boyfriend/husband excuse all the time because it is an easy out. I doubt her husband is some psycho controlling dude. It's just easy to use the excuse. And really, it would be weird as shite for her to actually have lunch with you since you're a random her husband has never heard of.
Nothing insecure about that.
We use the boyfriend/husband excuse all the time because it is an easy out. I doubt her husband is some psycho controlling dude. It's just easy to use the excuse. And really, it would be weird as shite for her to actually have lunch with you since you're a random her husband has never heard of.
Nothing insecure about that.
This post was edited on 6/10/22 at 10:16 am
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