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re: Why are 30+ year old women so delusional ?
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:51 am to BluegrassBelle
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:51 am to BluegrassBelle
quote:
I have a couple of friends who divorced with kids and remarried in their 30s without issue. Both remarried to guys who were also 30/40 and divorced with kids.
That's my point.
Divorced women with kids have to settle for divorced men with kids, instead of the men they really desire.
Kind of like obese people getting married to each other.
Neither of them want to marry an obese person, but it's all they can get.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:51 am to Zip it blondie
It's not just 30+ year old women.
They are all delusional irrespective of age these days.
It's a function of feminism and what popular culture has convinced them of.
Amirite, fellas?
Amirite?
They are all delusional irrespective of age these days.
It's a function of feminism and what popular culture has convinced them of.
Amirite, fellas?
Amirite?
This post was edited on 1/18/25 at 8:53 am
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:54 am to dyslexiateechur
It's not difficult if you aren't a mental patient, and you're obviously not.
When I "dated" in my 50s, it was different.
I have to be honest, if they were multi-divorced I wasn't interested. And I saw that a lot...
The ones I married were divorced once, and a widow.
I would tell anyone to look at her past, and for her to look at yours.
When I "dated" in my 50s, it was different.
I have to be honest, if they were multi-divorced I wasn't interested. And I saw that a lot...
The ones I married were divorced once, and a widow.
I would tell anyone to look at her past, and for her to look at yours.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:55 am to tiggerthetooth
quote:
Lmao. That was definitely not my experience dating in my 30’s. Had to shut off my OLD profile I had so many messages.
Wanting to sleep with you =/= liking you and wanting to date you. Very difficult for many women to understand the difference.
Exactly.
Plenty of guys willing to bang the old divorcee with kids, but not many single/childless/successful men looking to wife up an old chick with kids.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:56 am to Zip it blondie
Women get a false sense of their value from dating apps. They get flooded with guys trying to frick. The woman then thinks lots of men want them, not realizing they just wanna frick.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:57 am to Zip it blondie
quote:
That's my point. Divorced women with kids have to settle for divorced men with kids, instead of the men they really desire. Kind of like obese people getting married to each other. Neither of them want to marry an obese person, but it's all they can get.
Why would it be settling if they’re simply meeting someone who is compatible with their life at that time?
That’s a silly “point”.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:58 am to jmarto1
quote:
American women aren't very based in reality at times.
American men have convinced themselves that “dad bod” (ie fat) is attractive to women
Posted on 1/18/25 at 8:59 am to BluegrassBelle
My last serious relationship before my husband was a childless never married dude in his 30’s who was gorgeous. There was a reason he was never married.
Over 10 years now with my divorced dad of one and I couldn’t be happier.
Over 10 years now with my divorced dad of one and I couldn’t be happier.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:01 am to Rouxdee
quote:
That offer one thing well though
Is that one thing undefeated all-time?
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:01 am to Zip it blondie
So here's what I've gathered from your rant:
A very attractive 30-40 year old woman, who might be divorced, turned you down at the bar last night.
I'm going to say a wise decision on her part.
A very attractive 30-40 year old woman, who might be divorced, turned you down at the bar last night.
I'm going to say a wise decision on her part.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:01 am to genuineLSUtiger
quote:
It’s a chance for you to be an instant father and make a difference in a young child’s life. Be a leader of men. Search for the deeper things in life.
The only time that would be acceptable is if a good woman's husband died.
Then it shouldn't be held against her that she has a child.
Otherwise you are just cleaning up someone else's mess and playing Captain Save-a-hoe to a woman that sees you as nothing more than a lifeline.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:01 am to Mingo Was His NameO
It doesn't mean they get laid. I think the traps men fall into are the games that people keep saying need to played. "Simping" and "nice guys finish last" cause men to accept defeat. While simping is real I think it describes severe cases of doing to much. Its has confused a lot of men and caused them to believe they do not need to be attentive and show they are interested or care
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:02 am to Zip it blondie
Turn
The
Television
Off
The
Television
Off
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:07 am to dyslexiateechur
quote:It was great while it lasted, Teech. Thank you for your kind words. You'll always have a special place in my heart. <3
My last serious relationship before my husband was a childless never married dude in his 30’s who was gorgeous. There was a reason he was never married.
ETA: I'm joking obviously.
This post was edited on 1/18/25 at 9:30 am
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:08 am to dyslexiateechur
quote:
My last serious relationship before my husband was a childless never married dude in his 30’s who was gorgeous. There was a reason he was never married. Over 10 years now with my divorced dad of one and I couldn’t be happier.
I was childless and never married when I started dating again in my 30s.
You’re not wrong though. And I’m engaged to a divorce guy in his 40s (we’re both in our 40s) with a kid (now teenager). He was just more mature than some of the guys I dated who were the same age and not divorced/didn’t have kids.
A good example is one guy who reached out for a date that had no license because of multiple DUIs, no job for the same reason, and called me a bitch because I had “too high standards”.
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:09 am to Zip it blondie
them ole girls were blow j savants. I was worried some of them were legit trying to swallow my wiener
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:11 am to Emteein
Yeah I know.
I was giving a whole lot of "benefit of the doubt" on the 18 year old virgin thing
I was giving a whole lot of "benefit of the doubt" on the 18 year old virgin thing
This post was edited on 1/18/25 at 9:18 am
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:15 am to Hussss
Stability and boredom is what most women today just can’t handle
“Bad boys” give them what they crave
Chaos
Drama
Power (to try and conquer the guy by “fixing” him and getting him to conform)
“Bad boys” give them what they crave
Chaos
Drama
Power (to try and conquer the guy by “fixing” him and getting him to conform)
Posted on 1/18/25 at 9:20 am to Hussss
quote:
Stability and boredom is what most women today just can’t handle
There is an old saying that you can do anything to a woman except bore her.
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