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re: When did it become ok to drop "f bombs" in mixed company?

Posted on 6/29/17 at 9:31 am to
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 9:31 am to
Get your fricking puritan bullshite out of here
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 9:33 am to
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My father,grandfather and my father in law would fight if someone said frick in front of their wives or kids.


I'm sure Jesus is proud of your retarded patriarchs
Posted by SSpaniel
Germantown
Member since Feb 2013
29658 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 9:36 am to
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I'm sure Jesus is proud of your retarded patriarchs


Geez. What's your problem?

It's called good manners.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 10:45 am to
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Nope. When he was not cursing he was railing about global warming.

Which my wife and I both found hilarious.


Ok...so it's just the cursing.

I'll ask again, and if you're not interested in explaining it, or don't really have an answer beyond "Because" then I wish you'd just say so and I'll move along. You keep avoiding this particular portion of my questions while answering other parts.

But...I'm asking civilly because I'm genuinely curious and I'd like to give you the opportunity to EXPLAIN your position more fully. I'm suggesting that there are many people like you who seem to get upset by word usage but seem to have far less of a problem with their stand-ins...meaning that it's not WHAT the words represent, but thew words THEMSELVES, which makes no sense at all to me.

I care about word meanings, not words. Turning a "bad" word into a pre-school version of the same word and meaning does not alleviate the person from saying a word with the same meaning. Telling someone to "eat shite" is no worse, in my mind, then telling them to "eat poo poo." You're suggesting someone ingest feces, regardless of whether or not you use a swear to do so, right? Clearly some people thin the swear is worse...why???

So...one final time...what is it about words themselves illicit this reaction when it seems that words with the same meaning that are NOT considered swears do not illicit?
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 10:52 am to
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Geez. What's your problem?

It's called good manners.


Assaulting someone because they used a bad word in front of you is considered good manners?

What ever happened to sticks and stones...?

I agree using adult language in a mixed crowd (a crowd you're not familiar with) is poor form because you're potentially going to get this reaction, but the one responsible for the reaction is the one reacting, after all. One person is simply using words...the other is deciding to escalate to violence to prevent words from being spoken.

You want to use your OWN words to let them know you don;t like the way they're speaking? Sure! That's how we do things! The minute you decide to hit someone or threaten them to stop talking in a way you don;t like, then you've crossed the line.

We see it all the time in regard to politics, from both sides. Some assclown wants to burn a flag? frick that...go kick his arse and stop him! Some visiting professor or writer wants to talk on campus and we don't like it? frick that...go kick his arse and prevent him from speaking! Ridiculous.

Words...just words, folks.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:06 pm to
Actually, for the uninformed cursing is not a moral violation. A violation of social convention in some setyings? Yes. Not a moral violation howevet. The English language has one of the most colorful venaculars. It is used without regard to social class or educational level. I have heard just as many of my faculty Ph.D. colleagues curse as I have anyone else. Normally it us considered inappropriate ti curse around young children. However, at some point between late adolescence and young adulthood the prohibition goes away. That saud, I think we all know when and when not. However. The language itself does not bother me at all
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81185 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:08 pm to
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It's usually uncouth poor people, or people who were raised poor or by one parent, who speak this way. I'd say 75% of this forum fall into one of those categories. It's these people who already feel that they don't belong so they try to be edgy.



We disagree on something
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:14 pm to
I agree. It's all just language. Profanity has its place as a tool of expression. I remember one of the last conversations that I had with my father before he got sick was the versatility of the word "frick." Sometimes it's just the perfect word and used correctly it is very effective expression. A person just has to know when to use it and be aware of social norms and environment.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259998 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:18 pm to
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Get your fricking puritan bullshite out of here


The above post shows the lack of class in current society.

There are times and places for everything. Knowing when it's socially acceptable to say various things seems to be a lost art.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:20 pm to
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We disagree on something


It had to happen sooner or later. We'll get past this, you and I.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:24 pm to
/hijack

Pecker
my man

You been defiling that gash this past week out in yalls water bungalow for the honeymoon Baw?



Pac eloquently put it once in 'I ain't mad at ya'

'Congratulation On the wedding, I hope your wife knows she got a playa for life, and that ain't no bullshitting.... I know we grew apart, and you may not remember, but I used to fiend for your sister but never went up in her....'
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:25 pm to
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The above post shows the lack of class in current society.

There are times and places for everything. Knowing when it's socially acceptable to say various things seems to be a lost art.



Ah, but which authority defines what is socially acceptable? The problem seems more that the culture has changed and that it's you who struggles to know when it's acceptable to use colorful language.

Reality is that the vast majority of us live that bourgeoisie lifestyle
This post was edited on 6/29/17 at 12:29 pm
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8112 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:31 pm to
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It's a really big turnoff to hear a female use that type of language.

In public, yes. But sitting on my patio during a private conversation or in the bedroom, I like to the point of getting hard.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259998 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:35 pm to
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Ah, but which authority defines what is socially acceptable? The problem seems more that the culture has changed and that it's you who struggles to know when it's acceptable to use colorful language.


It hasn't changed. Most people still realize it's inappropriate to use certain language in certain settings. I have no particular struggle in this area, but you apparently do.

It has nothing to do with Puritanism, that's your bias. It's recognizing your audience
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8112 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:44 pm to
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Lastly, it has been used by many notable people throughout history:

General George Armstrong Custer: Where did all these fricking Indians come from?

Les Miles: I thought we had a fricking timeout left?
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:44 pm to
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It hasn't changed. Most people still realize it's inappropriate to use certain language in certain settings. I have no particular struggle in this area, but you apparently do.


Not at all. It's pretty much acceptable everywhere except maybe in front of religious parents or something.

If a groom laughs and tells his bride that she is fricking beautiful.. 99% of people will think it's sweet and take no issue of it.
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15361 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:45 pm to
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So...one final time...what is it about words themselves illicit this reaction when it seems that words with the same meaning that are NOT considered swears do not illicit?
Not married are you?

If you'd been paying attention I said it offended my wife.

If someone had used better language to say the same thing, doubt it would have bothered her, might not even have noticed in a crowded area.

But since it was bothering her, I took steps.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259998 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:45 pm to
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Not at all. It's pretty much acceptable everywhere except maybe in front of religious parents or something.



The epitome of a lack of class.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38462 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:48 pm to
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Morals, childish behavior by adults and lack of loving ourselves has been going on for some time now. This is just another part of the decay of our society.


Or you could just work in an industry where it's normal to curse like a sailor.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259998 posts
Posted on 6/29/17 at 12:51 pm to
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Or you could just work in an industry where it's normal to curse like a sailor.


My workplace is like in like company, not to the general public
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