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Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
22009 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:14 pm to
Testosterone
Lift
Cardio
Diet
Posted by Porter Osborne Jr
Member since Sep 2012
43093 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:30 pm to
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Cornhole?

That’s your answer to a fulfilling and rewarding life?

This has to be a joke.


It is for him. Find your own. Hopefully, it's as cheap as his.
Posted by NawlinsTiger9
Where the mongooses roam
Member since Jan 2009
38465 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:31 pm to
Right

I found a ton of joy in racquetball for a while

Back to indoor soccer now

You can’t just work and sleep, you’ll die a long time before you’re dead
Posted by STEVED00
Member since May 2007
23048 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:45 pm to
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What's your best Mid-life guy advice?


Write the date your change your home HVAC filter on the filter.
Posted by oldtrucker
Marianna, Fl
Member since Apr 2013
3063 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:51 pm to
I'm 69 so past mid life. But I joined a gym and took up pickleball. I've met so many new friends playing pickleball and keep in shape to play by attending the gym. Also don't let the small stuff bother you; road rage, the incompetent fast food employee, etc. Drop the negative friends and don't try to live to please others. Do road trips and get off the interstate. Be curious.
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
4886 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:53 pm to
My last boss got obsessed with aviation, got his pilots license, built a plane, and got way deep into pilot culture.

Then he crashed his plane and died, and everyone just said “at least he died doing what he loved”
Posted by I Like Cheeze
Member since Dec 2024
44 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 3:00 pm to
Why would i want to meet people?
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
37962 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 3:30 pm to
Nope.

Leaned that lesson the hardest way a happily married man can learn it...


Twice.
Posted by CrystalPreserves
Member since May 2019
4014 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 3:40 pm to
Do the work.
Lift heavy shite.
Posted by b-rab2
N. Louisiana
Member since Dec 2005
12812 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 4:04 pm to
Keep the old man from creeping up on you. For me that means, BJJ, biking, running and lifting. Also find 1 or 2 random or normal races to train for. Like for instance, today I just finished my first ever adventure race. Took 4.5 hours of running, biking and canoeing.
This post was edited on 3/8/25 at 4:17 pm
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
638 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 4:13 pm to
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Why would i want to meet people?


Good question. For me, I''ve had the same many friends for most of my life, and I love them to death. I found that just finding a new hobby or social activity opened the door to many new friendships that have led to other hobbies and learning new skills from my new found friends.
Posted by WheyCheddar
Member since Aug 2024
1124 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 6:30 pm to
Corn holer, guffaw

Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
53124 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 7:54 pm to
Try to savor each day, not worry about the past and not worry about the future.

Unfortunately, I don't do that.
Posted by baobabtiger
Member since May 2009
4933 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 8:17 pm to
I’m 45. Love God and trust in him, enjoy your family and your friends. Start to enjoy the fruits of your work life, kids becoming young adults, and travel. Workout by lifting heavy weight early in the morning, expand your mind by learning new skills, and relax on the weekends by the smoker while a brisket or steak is cooking with some good tunes. Mow your grass and walk barefoot in it after. Hunt during the deer and duck seasons as much as possible on land you own that is close enough that you can come home and not be gone from your family on the weekends.
Don’t stress and don’t let others stress you out.
Posted by HotBoudin
Metry
Member since Sep 2003
1116 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:05 pm to
Buy the Corvette.
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50890 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:26 pm to
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What's your best Mid-life guy advice?
Getting older is mandatory. Maturity is not.
Posted by Jizzy08
Member since Aug 2008
12208 posts
Posted on 3/9/25 at 5:05 am to
Posted by sosaysmorvant
River Parishes, LA
Member since Feb 2008
1466 posts
Posted on 3/9/25 at 6:07 am to
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My youngest just turned 18 and I'm inching closer to 50. It seems like life goes one of two ways. Your marriage gets better and you start adding things that you weren't able to afford in your 20s OR you are divorced/miserable and at a point in your life where you need to figure out how you want to live the back 9 in your life.

I'm in the first category. No mortgage payment, we have excess household income, and we have more date nights/overnight trips than we've ever had. The biggest thing we come close to arguing about is our dogs. Now in my 30s we argued a ton. Hell, we had some nuclear blowups in our first 3 years of marriage.

We've been married for longer than both of our parents combined. So I see both sides. The one thing that is universal is spend as much time as possible with your kids. I look at pictures and wish I could have more time with them at those stages. If you've got the means, travel and spend the money on things you like. If I was single I'd be traveling quite a bit. Luckily my wife enjoys going to new stadiums for football games (1/yr)... I would be going to 6-8/yr if it was up to me alone.


Solid

Turn down the overtime. Go to your kid's ball game instead.
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