re: What's the messiest/scariest breakup you've ever had ?

The day wabbit stew was on the menu.

Was settling in one Saturday to watch a game and the raging alcoholic (vodka) had broken up with earlier in the week starts pounding in my door, phone in hand, raging bc she wants ‘her stuff back.’

Rampages through my house like the Tasmanian devil grabbing high value items that’s not hers, phone in hand threatening to call the cops.

Walked out with about $1500 worth of shite including a couple of kitchen knives.

Anyway, managed to get her gone without the cops showing and arresting my arse which would’ve cost way more than $1500.

Tldr; got robbed on a Saturday morning sitting in my own house minding my own business and was happy about it.

I dumped a guy I dated for a month because it became apparent he was a loser and going no where in life. It meant nothing to me but he took it really hard. The next day he chose to get blackout drunk and drive. He killed an innocent woman in a head on collision and ended up barely hurt in the hospital I worked in at the time. Needless to say I had no sympathy and obviously I made the right decision.

There was a guy I dated/was really good friends with at the start of college. We had this HUGE misunderstanding - we were arguing but it turns out we were arguing with each other about different things - but I had never had an argument like this before - he was in my face, voice raised, pointing at me - he wouldn’t let me get a word in - I was fed up so I told him not to talk to me anymore.

Within a year I had moved back home to NOLA, started drinking a lot and made plenty of questionable choices - all because of this guy. My friends would mention him and I’d totally badmouth him. Not too long after it had been a year since we’d spoken - he called me and said he wanted to see me.

We’ve been married 23 years now

The divorce.

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I dated an Italian girl in my early 20's whose family was "connected" When I broke up with her I found out that Italian women have tempers because she was beyond pissed. Not gonna lie, I was legit looking over my shoulder for awhile. I would jokingly offer my friends $20 to start my car.

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Not buying it, my experience is the exact opposite and I grew up a heavy Mafia area of New York. They would do the exact opposite, not try to rope you in but check if you are trustworthy (not a policeman). Never head of mafia trying to keep someone in regarding a girl.

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i still have as much hair

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that’s great -my husband too

And his is finally becoming sprinkled with gray

We had a good thanksgiving - you?

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while she banged everything in SE Louisiana.

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its posts like this that make me think about how many eskimo brothers have to exist on this board

It wasn’t scary, but the meanest (and last) breakup I went though was when my HS girlfriend who promised to wait on me when I got shipped to Germany sent me a Dear John letter right after I arrived. She’d already “met someone else.”

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