re: What's the messiest/scariest breakup you've ever had ?

Not me, but Lane and Ole Miss is messiest I've witnessed

One ex pulled a gun on me.

Another ex was super ridiculously religious. Relationship wasn’t going anywhere so when I was ending things I went with the “the timing isn’t right, let’s do our own thing and down the road who knows…” approach. She asked me why she should believe me when I said there could be an open door later on. My response: “I’m sitting right here next to you. You believe in Jesus and you’ve never personally met him.” She was not happy with me.

Was settling in one Saturday to watch a game and the raging alcoholic (vodka) had broken up with earlier in the week starts pounding in my door, phone in hand, raging bc she wants ‘her stuff back.’

Rampages through my house like the Tasmanian devil grabbing high value items that’s not hers, phone in hand threatening to call the cops.

Walked out with about $1500 worth of shite including a couple of kitchen knives.

Anyway, managed to get her gone without the cops showing and arresting my arse which would’ve cost way more than $1500.

Tldr; got robbed on a Saturday morning sitting in my own house minding my own business and was happy about it.

I dumped a guy I dated for a month because it became apparent he was a loser and going no where in life. It meant nothing to me but he took it really hard. The next day he chose to get blackout drunk and drive. He killed an innocent woman in a head on collision and ended up barely hurt in the hospital I worked in at the time. Needless to say I had no sympathy and obviously I made the right decision.