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re: What percentage of married women are stepping out on their husbands?

Posted on 5/11/17 at 8:43 am to
Posted by Hammertime
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 8:43 am to
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Attractive men and women are always more likely to cheat because they will have people actively trying to bang them. I'm blessed to have a wife I trust 100%
Better hope your wife doesn't read TD. Since you think she's too unattractive to get boned, she'll go out and get boned by the next guy who spends 5 minutes talking to her
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 8:47 am to
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she's too unattractive to get boned


This statement is patently false. For every OT1, there is at least one fatboy Jody or BBC willing to give it a whirl.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 9:02 am to
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Amazing how something so completely opposite of the truth becomes the perceived reality. Women usually fare worse after a divorce than their husbands do and worse than women who don't get divorced.
in my experience I don't know one cheating spouse, male or female, that is in better shape than the faithful spouse. Maybe good character and sound decision makes g ability mean something after all?

Oh, if you have an insecure wife who seeks attention at times, watch out. As soon as anyone pays her attention, she is on her back.

Just about half of this towns married women are screwing around, crazy enough most of the husbands know it and don't do a thing
Posted by lsubuddy
houma, la
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 9:08 am to
Women are a lot better at hiding it.
Posted by Hammertime
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 9:14 am to
I've said it a hundred times. If you suspect your chick is cheating, grab her phone and start playing with it
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 9:15 am to
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I've said it a hundred times. If you suspect your chick is cheating, grab her phone and start playing with it


If you are at this point, shouldn't you just end it anyway? Clearly trust is an issue..
Posted by Hammertime
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 9:24 am to
No, it's something to be aware of.

When I'm talking to multiple girls, I don't want one going through my phone. When it's just one, IDGAF
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
9401 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 10:19 am to
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If you suspect your chick is cheating, grab her phone and start playing with it


dated one that would literally sleep with her phone halfway tucked under her pillow

fun as hell, but NOT wife material
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 10:23 am to
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Women are a lot better at hiding it.


They go to extraordinary lengths
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 10:24 am to
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If you are at this point, shouldn't you just end it anyway? Clearly trust is an issue..


If your spouse keeps his/her phone locked and not open to you, then there is a trust issue.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43080 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 10:26 am to
Fair enough I get that reasoning.

Dating has been a challenge and now im reconsidering the reasons im dating (marriage) after reading this thread LOL.
Posted by AbuTheMonkey
Chicago, IL
Member since May 2014
8577 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 10:27 am to
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Amazing how something so completely opposite of the truth becomes the perceived reality. Women usually fare worse after a divorce than their husbands do and worse than women who don't get divorced.

LINK



That doesn't say anything about the actual split, just the economic outcomes between the two. Pretty big difference, and I would guess that lack of economically valuable skills from divorcees (and/or being out of the work force) plays into that. I also surmise they're not the best decision-makers in the first place, as they are the ones initiating the divorce in the first place more often than not.

Doesn't mean that the split itself was just.
This post was edited on 5/11/17 at 10:30 am
Posted by wmtiger69
west monroe
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:28 am to
Like someone posted earlier, this thread is extremely disturbing. I got married the first time very young, with a child on the way. Graduated from college, and went to work at one of the big six accounting firms, which kept me out of town a lot. We were actually starting to build our life together with a new job, three year old child.

Wife ends up having an affair with the oil change guy who was servicing her car before she would come on road trips to see me. When all the smoke cleared and after the divorce, I asked her why him. Her reply was very simple. She said the second time she went to get her car serviced, he remembered her name.

The smallest details can lead to the more disastrous results.

Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:35 am to
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It's not like she wouldn't find someone else at some point.


I don't know your story; but I do have a friend that slept with a married woman and he told himself the same line to give himself some inner peace about the whole deal.

I just hope in your situation no kids were involved. Not to be a prick but if someone knowingly sleeps with a married woman that has kids I personally view them in a very harsh light because I come from a childhood with three divorces and cheating had to do with two of them and really messed me up for a while in regards to my own relationships and mental health. Not to get super morbid on a message board but people need to think more across the board about how their few hours of satisfaction can have lasting repercussions down the road.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68639 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:38 am to
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I asked her why him. Her reply was very simple. She said the second time she went to get her car serviced, he remembered her name.


You believed that?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297947 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:40 am to
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If your spouse keeps his/her phone locked and not open to you, then there is a trust issue


If you're interested to see what's in there, its?a trust issue as well
Posted by wmtiger69
west monroe
Member since Nov 2007
973 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:45 am to
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You believed that?


At that point, several years later, and we had moved on with our lives I had no reason not to believe it.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
297947 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:47 am to
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just hope in your situation no kids were involved.


There were several situations but the primary One, there were. The two girls were thrilled when their parents split up, the son not so much. There was some psychological abuse going on. The son was too much like his dad.

I ended up with her for 4 years and she's doing well with her life, married to an upper middle class guy who worships the going s he walks on.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68639 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:47 am to
It was probably more like inappropriate jokes that was took off.
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47827 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 12:48 pm to
You say the son had "too much dad in him" but there is always two sides to every story man.

Watching your parents be unfaithful to one another is not a healthy way to form ideas about relationships and kids get resentful and angry. And I'm not even just taking from my experience, my SO's parents went through the same song and dance and she has absolutely no desire to ever get married as a result.

After reading this thread, I'm reminded about why I never wanted to get married either.
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