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re: What is your opinion on funerals?
Posted on 2/6/18 at 10:27 pm to Ponchy Tiger
Posted on 2/6/18 at 10:27 pm to Ponchy Tiger
I don't go to funerals. I want to remember the happy times. When my dad died we cremated him and about a month later I fried fish for 300 + people at his celebration of life. We made a slide show of pictures and played the music he liked.
Posted on 2/6/18 at 11:50 pm to Ponchy Tiger
Cremate me and everyone have a good meal and drinks and crack a few jokes about me.
Move on with life.
Move on with life.
Posted on 2/6/18 at 11:52 pm to Ponchy Tiger
Just to one a week ago. Very sad. I know a lot of people’s say donate their bodies to science. I have a big frickin problem with some pre med assholes looking at my parents bodies as cadavers. I grew up going to my grandparents graves and putting out flowers. There’s something theraputic about all of it. They did my grandpa off with a 21 gun salute with howitzers. I don’t know. There’s just something in our nature to put people to their resting place.
Posted on 2/6/18 at 11:52 pm to Ponchy Tiger
Cremation and dump my ashes in the marsh south of Cocodrie. Would prefer whoever inherits my Bose Soundlink thing to play Highway to Hell while they’re dumping the ashes.
Also insist that whoever uses my boat to dump the ashes runs it on the hose when they get back so there’s no salt water left in the motor.
Also insist that whoever uses my boat to dump the ashes runs it on the hose when they get back so there’s no salt water left in the motor.
Posted on 2/6/18 at 11:58 pm to Ponchy Tiger
I think the single day service is a lot easier on those left to mourn...however, I see it as their choice and whatever gives them the most comfort and closure is ok with me. I will leave enough money to pay for either and it will be their choice.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 12:33 am to Ponchy Tiger
After my wife's funeral last year I came to realize the funeral is for the living. The deceased individual could care less if there was a funeral or not.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 12:37 am to LC412000
Sorry for your loss, LC...I don't remember you losing her.
I totally agree...the sole purpose of a funeral is to help those left behind cope with the loss and start to get some closure.
I totally agree...the sole purpose of a funeral is to help those left behind cope with the loss and start to get some closure.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 1:00 am to S
Viking funerals >>> black funerals
FIFY
FIFY
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 1:01 am
Posted on 2/7/18 at 7:34 am to bigrob385series
Absolutely he was
I see a little more of him in my baby girl each day
I see a little more of him in my baby girl each day
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:12 am to Ponchy Tiger
I want my parents to know I will follow their wishes explicitly.
As for my own wishes: First, that my body be used in any way to possibly benefit the living. Beyond that, whatever is the least effort, expense, effort, and environmental impact. As for memorials, whatever brings comfort to the living so they can heal and move on. I would be okay with nothing.
As for my own wishes: First, that my body be used in any way to possibly benefit the living. Beyond that, whatever is the least effort, expense, effort, and environmental impact. As for memorials, whatever brings comfort to the living so they can heal and move on. I would be okay with nothing.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:13 am to Ponchy Tiger
I am a fan of wake at 10AM, funeral at 11AM
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:17 am to Ponchy Tiger
they are boring as frick
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:19 am to Ponchy Tiger
My parents were relatively young when my dad passed. He was 56 and she was 52. She was so distraught that we didn't have a visitation the day before. We opened the church an hour before the funeral started and people paid their respects at that time. I actually preferred that over the standard thing. To me, dealing with the death of a loved one is all about getting through each "milestone" of the process. This eliminates one of those emotional milestones and makes it a bit easier.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:22 am to Winston Cup
Funerals in Mississippi ads a little different too. When the funeral procession is going on, all other cars stop. Most of the drivers get out and all police you see salute. It's different but very respectful.
I had an aunt and uncle die close to each other.(uncle died morning of his wife's funeral).
Expenses were high. They had two coffins, yet one owned crypt. So one of the two had to spend a year in a "decomposition" area so that the remains could be boxed together.
I said screw that. That fall
All the funeral money and donate a swing set or a park bench I'm my name. Go there to remember me. Not some $15,000 piece of concrete with a $5,000 box inside.
I had an aunt and uncle die close to each other.(uncle died morning of his wife's funeral).
Expenses were high. They had two coffins, yet one owned crypt. So one of the two had to spend a year in a "decomposition" area so that the remains could be boxed together.
I said screw that. That fall
All the funeral money and donate a swing set or a park bench I'm my name. Go there to remember me. Not some $15,000 piece of concrete with a $5,000 box inside.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:25 am to Ponchy Tiger
3 day wake.
Facilitate transition with readings.
Facilitate transition with readings.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:25 am to Ponchy Tiger
I don't get the funeral procession. Who came up with that idea? Me, for one, don't want it when I croak.
I'm dead and I'm still pissing people off? They're pulling off to the side of the road and cussing me? Ruined their day.
Just toss me in the back of my uncle's pickup, chunk me in his pond and watch his mammoth catfish heard my body from one end to the other. All my friends can drink beer and toss their cans at me.
Good times.
I'm dead and I'm still pissing people off? They're pulling off to the side of the road and cussing me? Ruined their day.
Just toss me in the back of my uncle's pickup, chunk me in his pond and watch his mammoth catfish heard my body from one end to the other. All my friends can drink beer and toss their cans at me.
Good times.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:25 am to Ponchy Tiger
No service or body prep for me. Cremation and that’s all.
Posted on 2/7/18 at 8:28 am to Ponchy Tiger
Any funeral that isn't mine is better than the alternative.
I ripped this off from a joke my grandfather used on me a few times:
"How does it feel to be 85 years old, Paw Paw?"
"Better than the alternative."
I ripped this off from a joke my grandfather used on me a few times:
"How does it feel to be 85 years old, Paw Paw?"
"Better than the alternative."
This post was edited on 2/7/18 at 8:33 am
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