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re: Well my step son decided to come out last night.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:52 pm to RogerTheShrubber
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:52 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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gauntlet straight people deal with.
Pretty sure straight people don’t face the same scrutiny but stay mad bro
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Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:52 pm to RogerTheShrubber
quote:ok. So if you disregard the actual posts and the spirit of them you can define it how you like.
The only serious thing I took from it was the mom was very upset.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:53 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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So is the thought that you have to treat a step kid like a son.
Again, this says far more about you as an adult and quite frankly as a man.
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Many times the kid is the barrier, not the dad.
Why would a kid want a relationship with someone that says “Well, you’re not mine”.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:53 pm to tigerfoot
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So if you disregard the actual posts
Virtually everyone did.
His step son came out gay, the mom is upset, the rest of shite you people got upset over.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:55 pm to Taxman2010
You sound like a moron.
I am not sure if this is always the case, but there seems to always be signs someone will be gay. There might be parents who ignore those signs, but its not like he just woke up and said "you know what? I think I am going to be gay". Stop being an idiot and just let the dude be who he is.
I am not sure if this is always the case, but there seems to always be signs someone will be gay. There might be parents who ignore those signs, but its not like he just woke up and said "you know what? I think I am going to be gay". Stop being an idiot and just let the dude be who he is.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:56 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Again, this says far more about you as an adult and quite frankly as a man.
Absolutely not.
Many times the kids never accept you. You dont bond.
Youre a progressive utopian who really doesn't understand the world outside of vapid platitudes.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:57 pm to RogerTheShrubber
quote:the part where he said “he isn’t my kid anyway, so I don’t care’. That part in the OP. Yeah, we all just made that up
the rest of shite you people got upset over.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:57 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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Many times the kids never accept you. You dont bond.
That sounds like a you problem.
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Youre a progressive utopian who really doesn't understand the world outside of vapid platitudes.
You think progressives are the only people who think it’s the adult thing to do if you marry someone with a kid is to help parent and raise them?
Those are some interesting family values there, bud. I know lots of folks with step kids who have good relationships.
This post was edited on 6/3/23 at 12:58 pm
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:58 pm to tigerfoot
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the part where he said “he isn’t my kid anyway, so I don’t care’.
its not his kid.
Older step kids don't often bond with step dads. Its a staple of child psychology.
You do what you can, but you cannot force them to accept you as an authority.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:59 pm to tigerfoot
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the part where he said “he isn’t my kid anyway, so I don’t care’. That part in the OP. Yeah, we all just made that up
There's a pretty wide variance in what a stepdad can mean. Big difference if he raised the kid since he was 2 or married mom when the kid was 17.
My mom got remarried a year before I got married and he's technically my stepdad.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 12:59 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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Older step kids don't often bond with step dads. Its a staple of child psychology.
No, it’s not.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:00 pm to Taxman2010
Thank goodness for him he gets to move away from his asswipe stepdad. His mom would have to divorce you, but he gets to just walk away.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:01 pm to fallguy_1978
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There's a pretty wide variance in what a stepdad can mean. Big difference if he raised the kid since he was 2 or married mom when the kid was 17.
My mom got remarried a year before I got married and he's technically my stepdad.
Sure. OP’s contextual clues suggest the kid is under 18 and lives with them. He mentioned if it was his grandfather, he’d beat him with a belt. So I’m guessing definitely under 18.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:01 pm to fallguy_1978
I have to assume foot believes the kid's real dad is gay based on his literal reading and total trust in the words in the OP.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:04 pm to BluegrassBelle
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No, it’s not.
From the person who had no clue how to interpret Maslow's hierarchy and pretends to be a counselor.
What does egocentric mean?
What age do kids gravitate toward peers and away from parents?
How old is the OPs kid?
Thanks expert.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:08 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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How old is the OPs kid?
One can only assume since he didn't provide this information, but based on how he phrased his post how old would you assume the kid is?
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:09 pm to OweO
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One can only assume since he didn't provide this information, but based on how he phrased his post how old would you assume the kid is?
Late teens, instant bonding between kid and step dad has little opportunity.
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:14 pm to Taxman2010
If he still lives with y'all and is able to take care of himself then tell him to.. 
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:14 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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From the person who had no clue how to interpret Maslow's hierarchy and pretends to be a counselor.
I don’t pretend anything. I also don’t run off to Alaska to shirk my responsibilities either. No shock that you’re supporting the “well he’s not mine” guy.
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How old is the OPs kid?
I’ve already explained how contextual clues in his posts suggests under 18. Are you dense?
Posted on 6/3/23 at 1:15 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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Older step kids don't often bond with step dads.
Might this offer a clue as to why?
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he isn’t my kid anyway, so I don’t care’.
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