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re: "We don't tell our son 'no,' it upsets him"

Posted on 12/14/17 at 6:31 pm to
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
32130 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 6:31 pm to
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Yep. It's like she's always looking for some kind of award. I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks that every time she posts another woe is me thing.


I had a friend that would always post about wanting to have kids. Then when she finally had them, all she did was bitch on social media about how hard it was.

I don't have kids, so obviously I'm ignorant to what it feels like, but I'm smart enough to know I don't want any anytime soon
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 6:36 pm to
Congrats on being abused
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7662 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 7:00 pm to
We might know the same girl. Same friend straight faced told me pre-kids that she was going to be a good mom because she has dogs, and it's basically the same thing.
Posted by AlonsoWDC
Memphis, where it ain't Ten-a-Key
Member since Aug 2014
9387 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 7:18 pm to
Trump's parents did the same thing long, long ago.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38578 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:16 pm to
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I hope you were eating at Chuck E Cheese because you shouldn’t be bringing a two year old anywhere else. When you have a two year old you either don’t go out to eat or you get a babysitter.

I'm not saying to take a two year old to some Michelin starred place or something but not taking them anywhere at all is not how you teach them to behave in restaurants. I took mine and if they started misbehaving or acting fussy I took them outside. Before long they knew the rules and kept their shite together. Not to compare them to pets but you wouldn't socialize a puppy by keeping him locked in the backyard. Why would that approach work with a child?

And ONLY taking them to Chuck E Cheese is a great way to teach them that eating out is specifically the time to act a fool.
This post was edited on 12/14/17 at 8:39 pm
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:23 pm to
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I'm not saying to take a two year old to some Michelin starred place or something but not taking them anywhere at all is not how you teach them to behave in restaurants

Exactly. My kids learned to behave in public at a very early age and it's because I used the opposite approach as the OP's friends. A child needs to be taught limits and discipline. Those parents are going to have some long years ahead of them.
This post was edited on 12/14/17 at 8:24 pm
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20261 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:26 pm to
Sounds like little Aiden needs an arse whooping
Posted by LakeViewLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2009
17730 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:27 pm to
This post was edited on 12/14/17 at 8:34 pm
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:41 pm to
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don't have kids, so obviously I'm ignorant to what it feels like, but I'm smart enough to know I don't want any anytime soon
ummm from what i’ve seen- it looks exhausting and hard and only fulfilling in sparing moments... an impossible love that never ends and never reciprocates.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122548 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:47 pm to
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Then when she finally had them, all she did was bitch on social media about how hard it was.


I don't understand people like this. It's as if they think they have it worse than anyone else in their situation.

In general, people grow up with the idea they want this or will do that, without thinking about the details and if they are truly ready for the responsibility.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38578 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:49 pm to
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it looks exhausting and hard and only fulfilling in sparing moments... an impossible love that never ends and never reciprocates.

Damn, cynical much?

It's fulfilling far more often than it's not. I didn't really understand it myself until I had children, but a lot of people consider their role as a parent to be the most fulfilling role in their life.

And unless you have some sort of hell spawn, they reciprocate love all the time (at least until they're teenagers).
Posted by Kige Ramsey
1996,1998,2012.
Member since Jul 2007
44439 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:00 pm to
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 "we don't tell him 'no,' it upsets him.


It'll upset them when he is in prison in the future
Posted by waiting4saturday
Covington, LA
Member since Sep 2005
11159 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:08 pm to
Y’all all sound like winners.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20261 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:58 pm to
How to raise yo damn kids with Kige

quote:

It'll upset them when he is in prison in the future


Posted by HueyP
Lubbock
Member since Nov 2008
3155 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 10:00 pm to
Hope they enjoy his teen years.
Posted by SuperM1ke
Member since Sep 2017
76 posts
Posted on 12/15/17 at 5:10 am to
gosh that's why i hate kids
Posted by Brinner
Retirement home
Member since May 2008
2656 posts
Posted on 12/15/17 at 6:42 am to
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my wife doesn't want a child (probably ever)


It's been well established that pecker is beta af.
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