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re: Update pg. 7: How to handle a girl that worships her father
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:39 pm to nelaZZ
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:39 pm to nelaZZ
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Can't believe I didn't think to not try to have a conversation on a car ride.
Explained how I did not appreciate comparisons, how I respected her father and his relationship with his family.
But said that our relationship is not her parents, no matter how perfect it is (her words). How we had different up bringings and would likely have different opinions and that I believe it is crucial to work these out in an appropriate manner.
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I was promptly shut down, and told her parents relationship is how she wants hers. That's her goal. Then questioned why I was trying to put her parents down when "I don't even know them".. 2 year relationship..
Now riding in silence. 3 more hours
i hope this chick is hot as frick and rich as frick smh
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Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:40 pm to 50_Tiger
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She is effectively communicating to you what she is looking for in life.
What about what he is looking for in life? Is that not important?
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:41 pm to Honky Lips
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What about what he is looking for in life? Is that not important?
He seems beta so no lol
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:42 pm to 50_Tiger
Pointing your finger and saying "I want that" is not effectively communicating. Which is what she is essentially doing by saying their relationship is what she wants. I cannot mimick her father, or her parents relationship. Anybody saying "be like her father" isn't grasping this whole situation.
Small town. Small Catholic HS. No relatives in the area (1000+ miles).
They are an extremely close family with little to no friends. He has no hobbies outside of maintains his kids cars and monitoring her personal checking account, not their joint savings. Seriously, she has gotten a phone call within 2 hours of making 2 purchases at the same location, thinking it was a computer malfunction.
I'm just not him. I'm extremely giving and love to provide, which could be her reason for choosing me. But I am not the turn signal fluid checking father he is. I am not going to bite my tongue, like I've seen him do when her parents discovered I smoked cigerattes. If something is bothering me, I'm addressing it. She apparently just can't handle healthy confrontation is what I'm concluding. Or I'm not handling it as healthy as I could.
Edit: anybody saying I'm not driving because I'm posting must have forgot the amount of piss breaks a girl takes.
Small town. Small Catholic HS. No relatives in the area (1000+ miles).
They are an extremely close family with little to no friends. He has no hobbies outside of maintains his kids cars and monitoring her personal checking account, not their joint savings. Seriously, she has gotten a phone call within 2 hours of making 2 purchases at the same location, thinking it was a computer malfunction.
I'm just not him. I'm extremely giving and love to provide, which could be her reason for choosing me. But I am not the turn signal fluid checking father he is. I am not going to bite my tongue, like I've seen him do when her parents discovered I smoked cigerattes. If something is bothering me, I'm addressing it. She apparently just can't handle healthy confrontation is what I'm concluding. Or I'm not handling it as healthy as I could.
Edit: anybody saying I'm not driving because I'm posting must have forgot the amount of piss breaks a girl takes.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 7:43 pm
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:42 pm to Honky Lips
You never really know what they're like til after you marry them anyway. Works both ways, sorta.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:44 pm to nelaZZ
I'm glad my parents and my wife's parents had shitty marriages. They set expectations pretty low 
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:44 pm to kywildcatfanone
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Why don't you try to model his behavior, assuming he isn't an ax murderer.
Now this is some beta shite here.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:45 pm to thelawnwranglers
My wife's dad is deceased - she holds with high regard. It is a delicate balance as long as she is not putting you down in comparsion, and you can discuss different view point you are good.
For example my wife wanted to lease cars bc that is what her dad did and he was financial smart. I explained to her we were poors and would drive car longer than financing terms. Not saying she was happy but understood
For example my wife wanted to lease cars bc that is what her dad did and he was financial smart. I explained to her we were poors and would drive car longer than financing terms. Not saying she was happy but understood
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:46 pm to nelaZZ
Photographs you fricking cock
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:47 pm to thelawnwranglers
quote:Great example of it's not WHAT you say but HOW you say it.
For example my wife wanted to lease cars bc that is what her dad did and he was financial smart. I explained to her we were poors and would drive car longer than financing terms. Not saying she was happy but understood
Different scenarios for newlyweds vs older couples.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:48 pm to nelaZZ
Punt on this convo dude and next time she says my dad would do x. Say I ain't your dad.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:48 pm to Honky Lips
His life sounds like a baw's life.
Lotsa ladies don't want baws.
They want men.
Lotsa ladies don't want baws.
They want men.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:49 pm to nelaZZ
Next time yur dooin it, ask her how her dad would do it better. Then tell her what you think her mom would do better from her end.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:50 pm to nelaZZ
DUDE, just break up with her.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:50 pm to Honky Lips
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What about what he is looking for in life? Is that not important?
But that's just it. He knows what she is looking for and can pair up what he wants as well to make a educated decision on what to do with this relationship. It's not like she is being shady as frick about it.
This is nowhere as complicated as it seems. He just can't meet her standards which is okay. Punt the ball.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:51 pm to Lacour
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His life sounds like a baw's life.
It is. Feeding the system kind of person.
Sheeeple.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:51 pm to Geauxtiga
It's not sick...its sarcastic and eye opening to the fact that you shouldn't care WTF your parents are doing compared to your relationship.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 7:53 pm
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:52 pm to nelaZZ
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Pointing your finger and saying "I want that" is not effectively communicating. Which is what she is essentially doing by saying their relationship is what she wants. I cannot mimick her father, or her parents relationship. Anybody saying "be like her father" isn't grasping this whole situation.
Small town. Small Catholic HS. No relatives in the area (1000+ miles).
They are an extremely close family with little to no friends. He has no hobbies outside of maintains his kids cars and monitoring her personal checking account, not their joint savings. Seriously, she has gotten a phone call within 2 hours of making 2 purchases at the same location, thinking it was a computer malfunction.
I'm just not him. I'm extremely giving and love to provide, which could be her reason for choosing me. But I am not the turn signal fluid checking father he is. I am not going to bite my tongue, like I've seen him do when her parents discovered I smoked cigerattes. If something is bothering me, I'm addressing it. She apparently just can't handle healthy confrontation is what I'm concluding. Or I'm not handling it as healthy as I could.
Edit: anybody saying I'm not driving because I'm posting must have forgot the amount of piss breaks a girl takes.
How old are you and your gf?
Sound extremely young.
Edit: Yall come from two very different social economic brackets. It will never work.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 7:54 pm
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:52 pm to nelaZZ
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She apparently just can't handle healthy confrontation is what I'm concluding.
Get out. If this girl's father has enough respect for you to approve of you dating his daughter and wanting to hang out, it should be enough for his daughter to accept that you are your own man.
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