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re: Update pg. 7: How to handle a girl that worships her father
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:52 pm to Lacour
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:52 pm to Lacour
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They want men.
So what a "man" does is forgets everything he knows and has been taught and just emulates his wife's daddy. You got a fricked up viewpoint baw
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:53 pm to KG6
Well picking a fight when you're getting the pussy is not the best time imo. 
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:53 pm to nelaZZ
Has it been verified that mom and dad's life is a real life fairy tale, or could it be just a bit of cover up that mom and dad do to precious daughter that she is blind to see?
I'm not suggesting that her folks are bad, but most times there is a little sugar coating when parents are around their kids.
I'm not suggesting that her folks are bad, but most times there is a little sugar coating when parents are around their kids.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:54 pm to East Coast Band
I lucked out, my old lady's dad is a deadbeat 
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:54 pm to nelaZZ
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. How we had different up bringings and would likely have different opinions and that I believe it is crucial to work these out in an appropriate manner.
I was promptly shut down, and told her parents relationship is how she wants hers. That's her goal. Then questioned why I was trying to put her parents down when "I don't even know them".. 2 year relationship..
Now riding in silence. 3 more hours.
Is she the type who is way too involved with her family in general? For example, one weekend you suggest doing something and she says she doesn't feel like it, but if her dad called and asked if she wanted to do the same thing, she would agree without even thinking about it?
If so, you might want to question yall relationship. She has to at least attempt to try to understand your side. Like you said, the two of you have two different up bringings and because of that yall will have different views.
And as for as her wanting her relationship to be just like her parents, I would say there is a good chance their relationship isn't as great as she perceives it. A lot of parents deal with problems, but do not expose them to their children. Does she think her parents relationship is perfect? If so, she has realistic expectations. No matter what you do, it will never meet her expectations so tell her good luck finding that guy and put yourself back on the market.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:55 pm to East Coast Band
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Has it been verified that mom and dad's life is a real life fairy tale, or could it be just a bit of cover up that mom and dad do to precious daughter that she is blind to see?
I'm not suggesting that her folks are bad, but most times there is a little sugar coating when parents are around their kids.
This is what I thought at first, but I once took an uptown brawd on a date and she essentially let her parents do the thinking for her. She was a transplant from Jersey and 27 years old. Blew my mind. Didn't take her out again.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 7:56 pm
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:55 pm to Geauxtiga
It's the best time. Shows that the biggest influence she has over you still isn't enough to give her the upper hand.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:56 pm to nelaZZ
I went through the same thing, run. Better fish out there, less smelly too.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:56 pm to East Coast Band
unverified. I've explained that they probably have disagreements behind closed doors. That's absurd.
Edit: extremely family involved
She's liable to show up here, she finds the ot funny sometimes. Mods should do me a favor and delete
Edit: extremely family involved
She's liable to show up here, she finds the ot funny sometimes. Mods should do me a favor and delete
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 7:58 pm
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:57 pm to nelaZZ
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unverified. I've explained that they probably have disagreements behind closed doors. That's absurd.
She's liable to show up here, she finds the ot funny sometimes. Mods should do me a favor and delete
Jesus Christ lol
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:58 pm to nelaZZ
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I've explained that they probably have disagreements behind closed doors. That's absurd.
She's liable to show up here, she finds the ot funny sometimes. Mods should do me a favor and delete
Retard
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:58 pm to nelaZZ
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Mods should do me a favor and delete
Absolutely not. What she needs to do is start a separate thread and present her side of the story. Maybe we can knock some sense into her
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:58 pm to nelaZZ
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unverified. I've explained that they probably have disagreements behind closed doors. That's absurd.
She's liable to show up here, she finds the ot funny sometimes. Mods should do me a favor and delete
Lol you are so marrying this brawd
Hope you like her parents life plan for you two. Good luck
Posted on 7/15/17 at 7:59 pm to 50_Tiger
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Jesus Christ
No shite. I expected a few dumb answers and the thread to die. shite took off
Posted on 7/15/17 at 8:00 pm to nelaZZ
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unverified. I've explained that they probably have disagreements behind closed doors. That's absurd.
Edit: extremely family involved
She's liable to show up here, she finds the ot funny sometimes. Mods should do me a favor and delete
You can go back and edit your post, but if she thinks that they never disagree or argue about anything then she is delusional. They just don't expose their kids to their problems.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 8:00 pm to nelaZZ
Did you not lurk here awhile before posting? OT lives for this.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 8:01 pm
Posted on 7/15/17 at 8:01 pm to nelaZZ
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Anybody saying "be like her father" isn't grasping this whole situation.
Small town. Small Catholic HS. No relatives in the area (1000+ miles).
They are an extremely close family with little to no friends. He ha
I feel you bro, I just went through this. Girl wants to model her relationship after her parents who have no friends and never leave the house. They sit outside and drink and he wanted to do that all the time.
He would say things like " my parents say "when you make your home what you want, why leave?"" So she tied herself to her house with 4 dogs. Couldn't even take a day trip.
I had to cut bait and run. Could not handle it because it was so damn boring.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 8:02 pm to 50_Tiger
Not new to td.. Threads are hit or miss on how long they last, bulls eye
Posted on 7/15/17 at 8:07 pm to Lacour
quote:Reading this thread convinces me most of these guys don't have a clue how to be one
They want men.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 8:07 pm to KG6
quote:No, that would be stupid. Also a good way to ensure she slams them legs shut for a while. He hasn't mentioned sex problems in all this so itf that is to go, too, he's out.
It's the best time. Shows that the biggest influence she has over you still isn't enough to give her the upper hand.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 8:08 pm
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