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re: True Confessions of a suburban cheating Mom.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 1:24 pm to lsuhunt555
Posted on 8/25/14 at 1:24 pm to lsuhunt555
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If they would just approach their SO and ask out before the cheating started everyone could save face and get out.
As one who has been cheated on, I whole heartedly agree with this. It would have hurt for her to ask for a divorce beforehand, sure. It wouldn't have been half as bad as what did happen. Especially the constant lying right to your face.
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Posted on 8/25/14 at 1:32 pm to jvilletiger25
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Especially the constant lying right to your face.
This is the real bitch.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 1:37 pm to Jake88
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It may well be the husband's fault if he was as inattentive as she says. Not asking anything about what's going on in her life? Not caring to go out with her? Not wanting to go to marriage counseling when she asked?
Obviously she contributed to the problems before her infidelity, but you people so eager to jump to his defense and call her a "selfish whore" are showing a great deal of ignorance and naivete. Maybe that's how you treat your girlfriends and don't want to be reminded of the repercussions of your own behavior towards the women in your life.
You do realize this is revisionist history on her part, don't you? She is now pointing out all these areas where he "ignored" her to justify her cheating.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 1:47 pm to SoDakHawk
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You do realize this is revisionist history on her part, don't you? She is now pointing out all these areas where he "ignored" her to justify her cheating.
Yup. She'll blame all the faults of the man and rewrite history, conveniently forgetting all the late nights he worked. All the time he sacrificed to provide. The stress and injury he exposed his body to. The way when he'd come home after a long night and just want a little tenderness, and she'd just turn away and say she was tired.
Men are dogs, sure, but we have nothing on the cruelty of women.
I'd say when men cheat it's usually simply because they aren't getting any at home, or when they are it is half-hearted.
I can't imagine how many marriages could be saved if the husband and wife simply had sex more often.
It's hard to stay mad at someone who just gave you oral sex.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 2:42 pm to jvilletiger25
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Especially the constant lying right to your face.
frick I think this was the worst. I caught her red handed, with texts on her phone that she didn't know I saw and still denied everything.
And then the bitch had the audacity to say it was my fault, and the no bullshite truth.
I worked, would come home, do homework with the kids, clean up around the house, and still cook dinner most nights out the week. Paid all the bills, and bought her more stuff than I bought myself and you know what? She still cheated on me.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 2:43 pm to Mattwells90
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If someone is against cheating and is truly committed to their spouse, they find a way to be faithful even if it means removing temptation all together.
This
Posted on 8/25/14 at 2:51 pm to Mizzoufan26
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Do you know what babies do? Everything, they don't stop, ever. It messes with you when another human takes a shite on you and then laughs about it.
I think you may need professional help.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 2:55 pm to brass2mouth
I know that pain brother. They lie and lie and lie until they are blue in the face and you are shoving the damn evidence down their throat. Some of them really are evil creatures.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 3:04 pm to fr33manator
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I know that pain brother. They lie and lie and lie until they are blue in the face and you are shoving the damn evidence down their throat. Some of them really are evil creatures
Truth. I knew the answers to questions I was asking and she would lie and lie and lie. It was mentally exhausting.
Now I can't bring myself to trust another female. It's hard enough trying to find a female that I can make understand I can't be with her everyday bc of my kids, then I have to trust her too? Yeah frick that.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 3:13 pm to brass2mouth
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Now I can't bring myself to trust another female. It's hard enough trying to find a female that I can make understand I can't be with her everyday bc of my kids, then I have to trust her too? Yeah frick that.
I haven't even tried to start dating again, but I worry about this stuff myself. I may trust someone again, but it won't be 100%. Anyone that trusts someone 100% is a fool.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 3:39 pm to LSU1NSEC
She probably got fat
Posted on 8/25/14 at 3:45 pm to jvilletiger25
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I may trust someone again, but it won't be 100%. Anyone that trusts someone 100% is a fool.
whats the point of marrying someone if you aren't going to trust them?
There are tons of couples that trust each other and don't cheat on each other for their entire lives. It's not like it's impossible.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 3:51 pm to TxTiger82
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If you don't pay attention to women, they will find it elsewhere. Not a huge surprise.
That works both ways actually.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 3:51 pm to brass2mouth
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Now I can't bring myself to trust another female. It's hard enough trying to find a female that I can make understand I can't be with her everyday bc of my kids, then I have to trust her too? Yeah frick that.
Yup. I don't even bring other women around my kids.
And I wouldn't want to be with the same woman every damn day. A little absence makes the heart (and the genitals) grow fonder.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:10 pm to JBeam
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I feel like she could have been one of the girls you over hear say "I'm going to get married right out of college. So, I'll never use my degree." ...."Needless to say, campuses across the country are filled with females just like this one."
I wish I would have had that wisdom almost 40 years ago when I was in college. There were those who tried to tell me that my future spouse was there going through the motions of earning a B.A. degree, but was really working on her "Mrs. degree". I was young and stupid and stayed married to her for 27 years. Been divorced the last seven, and never plan to go to the wedding alter again. There are too many out there who are willing to do the friends with benefits thing as they don't want the "ball and chain" thing any more than we men do.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:12 pm to kingbob
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"I'm as loyal as a dog can be, but if you don't feed me every once in a while, it's going to be hard to keep me on the porch".
Makes sense to me.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:49 pm to SoDakHawk
I realize it's her version of events. But we don't have his version, so for the sake of this argument I was accepting what she said is true. It's not as if that scenario does not occur and lead to problems in many marriages.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:50 pm to Mattwells90
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hope you can learn to trust and love again
At least for me, that will be easier said than done. I was with mine for 29 years, married 27. Last four were sexless. Tried, kept getting turned down, got tired of asking and sure as hell wasn't going to resort to begging. Wasn't going to cheat. Didn't want my kids to remember me as an adulterer. Wife was screwing various ministers, and age 49 acting like she was 70. She finally demanded the divorce. For whatever reasons, I still thought we could repair things and was willing to give her a chance for old time's sake (after all we were together for 29 yrs). I was very wrong. The person who I one time thought was my best friend really wasn't. It's been seven years since the divorce. Only in the past couple have I been able to start dating again, but I simply cannot bring myself to make the connection with another woman like I did her. I felt like I got burned so bad, that it's like I am scared of getting burned again.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:54 pm to fr33manator
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The thing is, it wasn't like I was coming home to a home cooked meal and a clean house and eager nookie either. The new wore off and we both changed and children and work got in the way.
Only thing is, I was committed to the misery.
She was looking to jump ship, and I never saw it coming, even though the writing on the wall was clear.
Same here. Lesson painfully learned. They are looking for the best deal they can get.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 4:58 pm to LSU1NSEC
Some of the sentiments and comments in here are fricking sad and immature.
This woman was no whore, slut, etc. It is a woman who's husband dropped the fricking ball. Does she carry some accountability? Sure. But, so does the husband.
Work in a marriage takes both sides pulling their heads from their asses and acknowledging their partner.
Whore! Slut! Oh, fricking please,......grow the frick up.
This woman was no whore, slut, etc. It is a woman who's husband dropped the fricking ball. Does she carry some accountability? Sure. But, so does the husband.
Work in a marriage takes both sides pulling their heads from their asses and acknowledging their partner.
Whore! Slut! Oh, fricking please,......grow the frick up.
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