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re: Toughest decision you've ever made

Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:31 am to
Posted by ATL-TIGER-732
ATL
Member since Jun 2013
2291 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:31 am to
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To not go to the hospital when they pulled the plug on my father. Didn't want my last memory of him sucking his last breath in.

I understand.
Posted by ATL-TIGER-732
ATL
Member since Jun 2013
2291 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:58 am to
quote:

Not the toughest but I injured my knee last week and will require surgery. I'm on medical leave from work probably for at least a month. For some reason I decided it was time for a new car Saturday.

Church Lady #1: Every time I'm in the dumps, I buy a new hat.
Church Lady #2: Oh! So that is where you get them.
Posted by CajunSoldier225
Member since Aug 2011
8990 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 5:03 am to
Choosing to leave a job I truly hated for a new career path that was yet to be known with a very young family. Me and my SO were beyond scared but came through just fine.

Now, we're loving life and thankful for going that period.
Posted by 75503Tiger
Member since Sep 2015
4821 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 5:38 am to
I've read some sad posts on this thread and realize that the folks I enjoy funning with on this site have been through the fire. I started reading because I wanted to post a joke or sarcastic comment but when you shared your experience my feelings changed. I can relate, because I don't know how I will live without my kids, to the pain you and your family must have endured when you let your daughter go. I'm sorry you had to make such a difficult and terrible decision.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138830 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 5:41 am to
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For me it was putting my dog down. I had him all through my coming of age years and he was a good, loyal pup.
let me just say that your life has been exceptionally blessed if this is your toughest decision
Posted by PairofDucks
Member since Jul 2016
4992 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 5:42 am to
Divorce. Even when it is clearly the right decision, it's difficult with kids.
Posted by Navtiger1
Washington
Member since Aug 2007
3368 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 5:42 am to
paper or plastic...man why do they do that to me at the check out line!
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21754 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 6:23 am to
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Taking our daughter off life support.


Damn. Sorry for your loss. That has to be the toughest decision any parent can make.
Posted by PairofDucks
Member since Jul 2016
4992 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 6:23 am to
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paper or plastic...man why do they do that to me at the check out line!


To be fair, that's your customers' tough decision.
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
10383 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 6:25 am to
Putting my son in a drug rehab facility was the hardest decision for me. I know it sounds like a no brainer but I struggled with everything about it. He hated us for it, but I hated more the fact he would be dead.
Posted by Navtiger1
Washington
Member since Aug 2007
3368 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 6:28 am to
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To be fair, that's your customers' tough decision.


HAHA! NO! I haven't retired yet and I have no intention of working as hard as a grocery bagger when I do.
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
98619 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:21 am to
A lot of touching stories in this thread. Hopefully you're all hanging your heads high even though the decision was tough.
Posted by SpeckledTiger
Denham Springs
Member since Jul 2010
1482 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:41 am to
During my grandfather's memorial service, and after decades of second chances, I decided to cut off all contact with my father. He was not someone I wanted in my family any longer. He died 3 years later, homeless, with a growing list of medical issues as a result of so many bad life choices, never having met his granddaughter (who came along 2 years after my decision to remove him from my life), and likely never fully understanding where his life went wrong. Anyone ever felt guilty about the relief you feel even though you know someone on the other end of your decision hurts so much?
This post was edited on 11/2/16 at 7:42 am
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70117 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:50 am to
I'd say trying to convince both my parents to let me come back home to help take care of my dad. I should say my so and I made this decision shortly after experiencing a miscarriage during the week of Christmas.


I had just finished my four years of active duty in the army and I didn't realize how fast my dad's colon cancer came back and was more aggressive. I was able to take some leave about three months before since my grandpa passed away and he was really healthy. That changed in 3 months.

Although my memories of him were mainly his last days and me putting him on the gourney and into the van. We were able to give him what he wanted which was to be in his home during his final days and peacefully.

I considered doing this an honor and privilege and really wish he was still present, but I can see part of my dad in my daughter now so he's not really gone
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70117 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:56 am to
Damn what did your dad do?
Posted by DuckManiak
Member since Nov 2011
3856 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 8:12 am to
This may sound silly given all of the other decisions other posters have made, but mine was deciding not to stay with my wife when we were trying to work on things. We married young, and as a result had money issues right off the bat. I took a job as a traveling contractor to better our financial situation. We split a year later.

I wanted very badly for us to work out, so I took a job at home. We reconnected before divorce was finalized, and I realized I just wasn't happy and I shouldn't have to suffer financially and mentally to make her happy.

The divorce went through, and we're both better for it. I continued traveling for work for another 2 years, and have been to some amazing places. I now have a local job making great money and doing something I love, which would have never happened if I stayed.

She's engaged now, and opened her own business. I wish her the best. Oh and no kids, so it was a clean break.
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
68318 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 8:15 am to
I was going to respond to Paul Allen' post, then decided to leave it alone.

Tough decision.
This post was edited on 11/2/16 at 8:17 am
Posted by ADAMATDAPARTY
The Woods
Member since Jun 2005
2911 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 8:17 am to
God bless you sir
Posted by rondo
Worst. Poster. Evar.
Member since Jan 2004
77520 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 8:24 am to
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putting my dog down



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Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18329 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 8:25 am to
Leave or stay.

I chose to stay and things are better than ever now. She changed and I changed.
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