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Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18299 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:26 pm to
20 pages incoming!!!
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:30 pm to
OP is a selfish prick that needs to grow a set
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77539 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:34 pm to
If you are truly unhappy, breakup. Too many pussies let their heart rule their head and they get married, then finally divorced and lose half their assets.

Too many people are afraid to be alone and stay in mediocre relationships as a result.

Once you start you're going to be tempted to acquiesce and take it back, but don't, keep running to the light. I've broken up a 4 and 5 year relationship. Eight hours and ten hours of her boo-hooing, bargaining, trying to frick, and finally cursing the hell out of me respectively. Two months after the last one I met my wife of 14 plus years.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 4:36 pm
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
16660 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:35 pm to
OP I just want you to know that tonight I'll be locked in on this thread while I ignore my wife. Deliver, baw. Deliver.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:35 pm to
Has he done the deed yet? We need a new thread explaining how it all ended!
Posted by Lambchops11
Member since Jul 2013
615 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:36 pm to
Don't do it. Suck it up and get through a tough time. You will regret it in the future when she's off and married and you're ready for that sort of thing.
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44659 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:41 pm to
I'm going to give you the real life experience from the other side:

If she's a wonderful girl in all ways but you dread going home to her every day then breaking up with her is the right thing to do.

I've been that girl - 5 years of a loving, peaceful relationship - who was blind-sighted & heartbroken when my boyfriend ended it. Now, I'm so thankful he had the maturity to go through with it when he did. Had we married, we would have eventually divorced out of sheer boredom. Complacency isn't a reason to stay together.

Now that I e been happily married for 14 years to the right person, I can see the difference. While I still like some alone time and he drives me crazy sometimes, I never wish he wasn't my husband. im just as comfortable in this relationship and it's just as easy but it's different in so many ways. I can't wait to share new ideas or experiences with him and he makes me laugh every single day. 14 years later and I'm still excited to do things with him. Even when I'm pissed, I'm glad he's there.

If you truly feel you don't want to spend the rest of your life with her - or especially if you don't want to spend any time with her - the right thing to do is walk away. Something is missing from this relationship and you owe it to her and yourself to end this now.

Good luck.
Posted by lsubuddy
houma, la
Member since Jul 2014
4929 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:42 pm to
Send her my way
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77539 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:48 pm to
You came up with all of that from his op? GTFO. He was being polite when he painted her as a catch. If he's unhappy, she'll be unhappy. He's doing the right thing by letting her move on. Seems too many in this thread are afraid of not having a guaranteed relationship in their lives even if it's withering and mediocre.
Posted by TejasPete
Member since Dec 2013
1425 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:51 pm to
In this bitch!

Props to the OP - frick the world and frick everyone else you only live one life.
Posted by mikrit54
Robeline
Member since Oct 2013
8664 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:52 pm to
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72563 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:58 pm to
Based on the OP's (spelled "one sided") summation of the situation, he probably needs to move on.

Sucks for her and her family but she probably already knew.

Pics of gf would help, just saying...
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77539 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 4:59 pm to
quote:

Don't do it. Suck it up and get through a tough time. You will regret it in the future when she's off and married and you're ready for that sort of thing


Why are so many people acting like this is the only girl the OP will ever meet? Damn, there have to be a load of posters who are simply too young and inexperienced to be giving advice.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
67766 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:06 pm to
quote:

Congrats OP.

Coming home to the same aging creature day after day is a scenario most with any sense would want to avoid.

Well done


i was hoping youd be in here
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
67766 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:11 pm to
quote:

The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues.

She was abused by her father and has severe insecurity due to it.

It affects our relationship immensely. She's the kind of person that needs constant reassurance, constant coddling. I'm the complete opposite.

She's always questioning our relationship due to this and it drives me crazy. It turns into a crying session almost weekly. Just a hamster wheel of the same shite.

It also affects her relationship with others. She can be very spiteful to other people, which is why she has few friends. The close friends she has will even keep their distance due to this.

She doesn't do much on her own, so it's either with me or nothing, which means she gets spiteful at me when I do stuff with my friends and she can't due to work or whatever else.

I honestly don't like her around with my friends because of her preponderance of getting pissed off for miniscule things.

That's a few. Also financial issues and irresponsibility elsewhere in her life.

And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.


sooo......shes pretty much the exact opposite of what you described in OP

dump her arse
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44659 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:22 pm to
No kidding. Who the hell stays with someone like this for 4 years!
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42743 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:24 pm to
Maybe someone who is lying their arse off after being called out on it
Posted by Samso
nyc
Member since Jun 2013
5025 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:25 pm to
This has to be a troll.
Posted by Weaver
Madisonville, LA
Member since Nov 2005
28006 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:33 pm to
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rintintin


Man up you vagina
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:41 pm to
quote:

blind-sighted


I broke up with several chicks for not knowing what blind-sided means...


OF course I was a grown man before I knew what a vegemite sandwich was...nobody's perfect
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