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Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:01 pm to
Ok so she didn’t get away, so not really relevant lol
Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
1051 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:16 pm to
People change though. I understand the chemistry aspect you mention, but it doesn’t mean it would be better than what you have today (and if she boned some moron who is as trashy as the post entails and let him blow a load in her, she is damaged goods and is for the streets imo). You are clearly a thoughtful person, you dodged a bullet.

I bet you if things went perfect the first time with you all, she may just do something really stupid (bone some other guy) and blow up the marriage and that would be some bullshite you never needed to experience.

Call me an a-hole, but I have no respect for a woman that bones loser dudes and absolutely none for her if she is KID+ from some POS.

God winked at you baw. Thanks for your story, could tell it was from the heart.
Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
1051 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:23 pm to
Appreciate you chiming in here with some real perspective but imo Women don’t make the best decisions with the data in front of them, at least not initially or the second round or the third. Once they’ve exhausted their options then they get real (or desperate).
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
71011 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:25 pm to
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PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
25 posts


This thread seems to have really captured your interest.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20097 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

lol her shite has nothing to do with me. Trust me, we’ve gone through plenty of counseling. I say that I’m a bitch because I have allowed it to progress. I keep making excuses for her. Even alienating friends and family because of it. Despite her poor behavior, I have continued to try my hardest to make her happy and give her everything. She’s the mother of my child and I love her more than anything. I’d do anything to change things. We were going to therapy and making big strides. Things were going better than they have in many years. Then she had our son and has since refused to return to therapy.


How old is she? How long you been married?

Does she work? Stay at home mom? What kind of mom is she?

Does she make most of the money?

Are you the man of the house or are you “coleaders” of the home?

What does she say the root of the problem is? Does she recognize there is a problem? Is she too scared to tell you what she really thinks because she thinks it’s “not nice?”
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21205 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:30 pm to
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dated a redhead once whose family owned a large farm equipment store. Should have kept her.


I married and divorced a redhead glad she’s gone
Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
1051 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:31 pm to
Well this thread is a hell of a lot better than this shitty Ohio State game.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1519 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:45 pm to
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Alright guys, any stories about the lady that got away or (like this one) one that you had a shot with but never took it. I expect some troll posts.


Nope. Man, frick them hoes.

But “the one” is the woman I married. And there are reasons all the others didn’t work.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1519 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 9:51 pm to
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You can’t dwell on your choices - you make the best decision with the information available to you at the time and whatever happens, happens.


Spot on. I always say that with hindsight, there are things I may have done differently, but I have few regrets because I feel I always made the best decision I could have at the time with the information I had available. And honestly, things have turned out pretty well that way.
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10729 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 10:17 pm to
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This post was edited on 2/15/24 at 5:08 pm
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
19398 posts
Posted on 12/29/23 at 10:37 pm to
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The one that got away stories


I ended up marrying the best of the lot about 23 years ago. But if you’re talking about ones you didn’t have sex with but could have? Yeah there are a few I would do things differently with.

Oddly I had a weird dream about this the other night. It was just flashes and moments of some of the girls from the past and the last one was my wife…but when she was in her twenties when we met. I woke with the thought it was clear she was the best of the bunch. We’ve been having some trouble lately and I thought it was interesting that I had that dream.
This post was edited on 12/29/23 at 10:39 pm
Posted by alexahet
Everywhere
Member since Apr 2010
3204 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 12:24 am to
I mean I was married by 29 so I can’t really speak “desperation”. Prior to my marriage I had a couple of long term boyfriends, some were nice, some were not. That’s life.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148692 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 12:42 am to
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Prior to my marriage I had a couple of long term boyfriends, some were nice, some were not. That’s life.

Posted by alexahet
Everywhere
Member since Apr 2010
3204 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 5:10 am to
You would say the same about some of your girlfriends. Maybe more like some were crazy, some were crazier
Posted by I20goon
about 7mi down a dirt road
Member since Aug 2013
19657 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 8:46 am to
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The one that got away stories
zip ties are not as secure as I thought.

That's how she got away.
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
13662 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 9:50 am to
5 great kids
—Wow, that is the most amazing part. Count your blessings.
Posted by FahQGump
Auburn, Al
Member since Dec 2021
1716 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 9:57 am to
Same story here, different author
Posted by chadr07
Pineville, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
13122 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 11:21 am to
Same here bud
Posted by Godfather1
What WAS St George, Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
87966 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 11:52 am to
I once wanted to marry a girl in New Orleans. Beautiful woman, great body, always had a good time with her. It just didn’t pan out, though. We were too different, wanted different things. Sad, but those things happen. It was good we found out before we made a mistake.

Fast forward 25 years…this lady is now a Wiccan.

Turns out, the one that got away was the bullet that was ducked.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148692 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 12:01 pm to
quote:

some were crazy, some were crazier

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