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Posted on 8/14/17 at 9:54 am to DBama1
Stick it out, you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 9:57 am to DBama1
Sorry you lost your wife. Hang in there and things will get better. 
This post was edited on 8/14/17 at 9:58 am
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:01 am to DBama1
You're posting about it here, which tells me that you really don't want to go through with it, and that you just want some relief from your pain, whatever small or large degree of relief it may be.
Talking about it is a start. Call one of the numbers that I am sure have been posted by now; see a clergyman; they're free. Talk to your family; physically be around them.
Having had a couple of experiences with people close to me taking the easy out, let me tell you that what you are feeling now is only a small part of what those you leave behind will feel. Don't do that to anyone else.
Talking about it is a start. Call one of the numbers that I am sure have been posted by now; see a clergyman; they're free. Talk to your family; physically be around them.
Having had a couple of experiences with people close to me taking the easy out, let me tell you that what you are feeling now is only a small part of what those you leave behind will feel. Don't do that to anyone else.
This post was edited on 8/14/17 at 10:03 am
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:01 am to Sparkplug#1
Dear God in Heaven.
No advice, I'm sorry, beside the same old..."it's not worth it..." "You'll get through this..."
Talk to someone, NOW, your doctor, your pastor, you may not be Catholic, but a priest, a counselor, call the number given...something, NOW.
No advice, I'm sorry, beside the same old..."it's not worth it..." "You'll get through this..."
Talk to someone, NOW, your doctor, your pastor, you may not be Catholic, but a priest, a counselor, call the number given...something, NOW.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:02 am to Sparkplug#1
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Sorry you lost your wife.
I can't imagine the pain you (OP) must be going through. Your family will be devastated to lose you as well. Don't put them through more pain.
Call for help.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:05 am to RedPop4
Thanks everybody! I'm gonna chill out and drink a beer. Y'all saved my life for real. Love yall
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:07 am to DBama1
I'm sorry for you loss. I know it's hard right now but, I can tell you from experience that things will get better. Please get some help, whether it's calling the suicide hotline at 1-800-273-8255, talking to your pastor if you attend church or a close friend/family member. Heck, I'll give you my number if you need someone to talk to.
This post was edited on 8/14/17 at 10:11 am
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:08 am to DBama1
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drink a beer.
This is probably the last thing you need to be doing right now. Lay off the alcohol for a bit while you are clearing your head.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:08 am to DBama1
Ummm no
don't even think about killing yourself
don't even think about killing yourself
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:09 am to DBama1
To to a nice quiet area outside. Sit down. Read a book.
Life is never that bad buddy.
I've had some lows. I've had some highs. This moment right now will make you appreciate the good times to come in your life just a little bit more.
Life is never that bad buddy.
I've had some lows. I've had some highs. This moment right now will make you appreciate the good times to come in your life just a little bit more.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:10 am to DBama1
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Y'all saved my life
Unfortunately the battle is not over. It is VERY likely that these feelings will return again. Have a beer, take a day off, do something you enjoy, but GO get help. There is no shame in seeking advice. I can almost promise you that 1 beer isn't going to fix your emotions. Know that you have support, even from strangers. Reach out to family or friends before it's too late.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:11 am to DBama1
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I've been real far down the rabbit hole of alcoholism. Lost everything that ever meant anything to me more than once. It nearly killed me. Today I trade an hour out of my day for my LIFE. I go to sleep sober at night and I wouldn't have it any other wa
This is an old post of yours. I don't think drink a beer and chilling out is going to help. Go see someone, a friend or relative. Alcohol is the friend that got you to where you are, and I can tell you don't want to be there.
This post was edited on 8/14/17 at 10:16 am
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:11 am to Scooba
Can someone please explain wtf is going so the rest of us can know how to reply properly?
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:11 am to DBama1
Call the number, talk to someone. Get some help, nothing to be ashamed of.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:15 am to HoustonChick86
You are right. Ok
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:17 am to Scooba
I have no family or friends
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:17 am to DBama1
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Thanks everybody! I'm gonna chill out and drink a beer.
Alcohol is self-medication. Go talk to a professional and get some advice on some more constructive coping methods.
There's no shame in asking for help, don't let anyone tell you any different.
Depression is a disease like any other. Don't take advice on dealing with depression from people who have never experienced it first-hand.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:17 am to DBama1
Are you overweight?
I can help you work through this but I'm going to need a few weeks with you.
I can help you work through this but I'm going to need a few weeks with you.
Posted on 8/14/17 at 10:20 am to DBama1
Almost football season.
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