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Posted on 10/29/15 at 4:54 pm to LuckyTiger
Why even bother with a marriage?
Posted on 10/29/15 at 4:55 pm to LCA131
DAMN GOVERNMENT INTERVENTION
Posted on 10/29/15 at 4:55 pm to LuckyTiger
I cannot imagine my wife having sex with other men in such an arrangement. IMO it violates the sanctity of marriage and every virtue that I value.
Sex with other women? Maybe.
Sex with other women? Maybe.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 4:55 pm to Breesus
For real, I feel sorry for this poor chick. She is planning her wedding right now thinking about how she has finally found the man she wants to commit the rest of her life to, the man she wants to father her children, etc.
Meanwhile this guy is planning how he can basically keep fricking other women without getting in trouble for it.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 4:58 pm to John Keating
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I cannot imagine my wife having sex with other men in such an arrangement. IMO it violates the sanctity of marriage and every virtue that I value.
Sex with other women? Maybe.
I can't imagine it either way honestly. I'd murder someone if I found out they slept with my fiancé. I'd probably murder her too. And I don't think I'd be able to cheat if the opportunity presented itself.
fricking some skank once or twice isn't worth risking what I have.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 4:59 pm to WavinWilly
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do you just want a license to cheat?
I wouldn't cheat on my wife. You don't understand the concept of an open marriage; you have to think outside the narrow box. Marriage today doesn't have to be like it was in the olden days, and that's a good thing.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:00 pm to lsunurse
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Meanwhile this guy is planning how he can basically keep fricking other women without getting in trouble for it.
Good money says he already has.
My brain can't fathom what I'd do if my lady cheated. And I can't imagine cheating.
Now a couples swingers type orgy situation.....
Where's Wiki's hottub parties when you need them?
This post was edited on 10/29/15 at 5:03 pm
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:01 pm to LuckyTiger
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you have to think outside the narrow box
there is gonna be a line of guys outside your wife's narrow box, Fool.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:04 pm to LuckyTiger
Just swing together. Problem solved. Or find a girl like mine who enjoys other girls.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:04 pm to LuckyTiger
There is no such thing as an open marriage.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:05 pm to agdoctor
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There is no such thing as an open marriage.
agreed and the thought of it is pretty sad
to me it screams unhappiness more than anything
if people make it work, more power to you...but it goes against the entire philosophy of marriage
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:06 pm to LuckyTiger
Two of mine were open, they worked OK.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:07 pm to Hawkeye95
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all the people I know who had an open relationship closed it, or relationship ended.
most relationships fail regardless if they are open or closed, genuis
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:08 pm to Brageous
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to me it screams unhappiness more than anything
if people make it work, more power to you...but it goes against the entire philosophy of marriage
Exactly. Thing is, I wonder how many of these "open marriages" arise because one really wants it and the other is desperate to keep that person so they go along with it thinking they can convince themselves it's what they want as well?
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:08 pm to Breesus
I agree.
I wasn't serious. I would not want my wife to have sex with anyone but me.
However, I do know of more than one marriage that is like the OP has suggested. They appear to be doing well and it seems to work for them. I think the people in question have to be, shall we say, naturally adventurous...a different breed. If both man and woman are cut from the same cloth, it may work. If one is not, it could be disastrous in its consequences.
I wasn't serious. I would not want my wife to have sex with anyone but me.
However, I do know of more than one marriage that is like the OP has suggested. They appear to be doing well and it seems to work for them. I think the people in question have to be, shall we say, naturally adventurous...a different breed. If both man and woman are cut from the same cloth, it may work. If one is not, it could be disastrous in its consequences.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:09 pm to Brageous
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...but it goes against the entire philosophy of marriage
I see Maine Trucker plates...they say "semi-Permanent"...
What does that even mean?
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:10 pm to lsunurse
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I wonder how many of these "open marriages" arise because one really wants it and the other is desperate to keep that person so they go along with it thinking they can convince themselves it's what they want as well?
Well yeah, that part is pretty obvious and I'd say healthy. Desperation and self delusion are the cornerstones of a good relationship.
Posted on 10/29/15 at 5:10 pm to rocket31
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most relationships fail regardless if they are open or closed, genuis
damn write.
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