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re: Think Twice Before You Have an Affair
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:47 am to terd ferguson
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:47 am to terd ferguson
Yeah and we’re only getting the extremely biased account from the brother. Chances are a lot of this is exaggerated. Good family man my arse. 
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:47 am to AUstar
Your brother was right to face it and take his lumps... and you're getting all mad that he is in fact taking them.
You need to concede that this is a pretty horrible wrench to be thrown in their daughters lives. I'm not saying they're right to say everything they say, but she's much more important to them than she apparently ever will be to your brother, and certainly you, so you really shouldn't attempt to understand their anger.
Yes, she needs some of the blame but as her superior at work we as a culture hold him to a higher standard and he likely needs to lose his job over it. And I imagine she's receiving her fair share of shame.
You need to concede that this is a pretty horrible wrench to be thrown in their daughters lives. I'm not saying they're right to say everything they say, but she's much more important to them than she apparently ever will be to your brother, and certainly you, so you really shouldn't attempt to understand their anger.
Yes, she needs some of the blame but as her superior at work we as a culture hold him to a higher standard and he likely needs to lose his job over it. And I imagine she's receiving her fair share of shame.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:47 am to jbgleason
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He needs to marry this chick ASAP to save his own arse.
Better get divorced first of he's gonna be in even more shite.
Also think OP is trolling. 8/10
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:47 am to AUstar
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It's really none of their business in the first place,
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AUstar
fricking hypocrite much?
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:48 am to AUstar
He is probably lucky the Christians are constrained in their behavior by a moral code of sorts. They haven't killed him.
Woman is a slut. Brother is a slug.
Families have to move on and live with it. Toss the brother out of your house too. No need to bring this drama into your life and your family's life.
Woman is a slut. Brother is a slug.
Families have to move on and live with it. Toss the brother out of your house too. No need to bring this drama into your life and your family's life.
This post was edited on 7/2/18 at 10:54 am
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:48 am to AUstar
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but these people are fricking Branch Davidian weirdos.
your Christian brother reacts emotionally and go against his beliefs and knocks up younger chick and you excuse his behavior as a mistake
the Christian parents react emotionally to their daughter getting knocked up by her boss and you blame all Christians
makes sense
This post was edited on 7/2/18 at 10:49 am
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:48 am to AUstar
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His wife is understandably upset, but not acting crazy or anything. She did kick him out of the house, though. He is fine with that
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:49 am to TH03
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Oh and he’ll get fired for knocking up a subordinate.
Trueeeee, lack of managerial skills.
Hopefully you've worked out some sort of payment schedule for your couch since old boy is going to be there for the near future.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:49 am to jbgleason
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better get this chick on his side and prepared to move and leave her parents
assuming OP is describing this accurately, those are the kind of parents you just don't leave, and bimbo sounds like the type that would never get out from under their control, bro is fricked
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:49 am to AUstar
You sound more irrational in your hate for Christians that the mother is in her hate for your brother, the adulterer.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:49 am to AUstar
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My brother has been having an affair with a co-worker who is under him at work.
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frick you hypocrite Christians. You can suck my schlong. All of you. frick the Bible, frick the Church. Religion is something that needs to DIE. The country would be much better off. These people have ruined their daughter with their cultish evangelical bullshite more than my brother ever could (He is a great father and would be a great dad to this kid, but they'll have none of it).
You've got this exactly right. Your brother is not at fault here at all. It's ALL on these crazy Christians. Your brother should just leave this alone and move on to his next affair.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:50 am to AUstar
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This is why I am an atheist, right here.
You're an atheist because your brother cheated on his wife and knocked up a girl with crazy parents? That's that sound reasoning that those damn Christians lack!
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:50 am to Cousin Key
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Wait, what? Why do they know their daughter's boss in the first place? Not only that, but they give him gifts for his birthday? I know you mentioned the parents were very involved in their daughter's life, but this just seems bizarre.
Because she is THAT close to her parents. Like, she has her own house, but they are always in her bidness. So she talks about work to them all the time and one of her brothers also used to work for my bro, so they know him from two kids of theirs working for him.
My brother thinks it's sort of odd too. In fact, when his mistress went to tell her parents, her mom said:
"Let me guess, your pregnant and Austar's brother is the father."
No shite. She guessed it straight out. So apparently, they picked something up in their daughter's conversations. Maybe she talked about him a lot, I dunno.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:51 am to AUstar
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Unlike me, he is one of the nicest, mild mannered, humble people I know and it really sucks that he is in this position. He is well liked by everyone that knows him. He has always been a family man, active in church, has two wonderful kids, etc. I've NEVER heard him say a single curse word and he has not taken a drink ever in his life outside of maybe a beer in college. He has never done drugs, ever. This is literally the ONLY mistake I've ever seen him make in his life. He fell for a younger woman at work.
I don't see what any of this has to do with anything. He could be a good guy and cuss, drink, and have done drugs.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:51 am to AUstar
If she chooses to stay loyal to her parents over husband, she deserves to stay single.
And IMO its not unreasonable to expect them to get married given the situation. But don’t bark up that tree if she’s not going to commit. She can’t keep one foot in her parent’s house and one in her husband’s.
She’s in the shitty situation here and her parents are making it worse. But she can ultimately tell them to learn boundaries.
And IMO its not unreasonable to expect them to get married given the situation. But don’t bark up that tree if she’s not going to commit. She can’t keep one foot in her parent’s house and one in her husband’s.
She’s in the shitty situation here and her parents are making it worse. But she can ultimately tell them to learn boundaries.
This post was edited on 7/2/18 at 10:54 am
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:53 am to AUstar
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he is one of the nicest, mild mannered, humble people I know and it really sucks that he is in this position. He is well liked by everyone that knows him.
Especially his subordinate ... but not her parents.
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He has always been a family man
Except for the whole affair thing with his subordinate.
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active in church
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Christians
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You can suck my schlong. All of you.
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:53 am to AUstar
How do the dumbass parents expect your brother to support the kid if he is out of a job?
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:54 am to TH03
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Oh and he’ll get fired for knocking up a subordinate.
He's the CFO. That makes him a registered officer of the company with the state. He's not just a rank and file employee of the company and has now opened that company up to a pretty stout amount of legal exposure. Corporate council is doing everything they can right now to distance the company from the situation and insulating themselves as much as possible. They'll hang this guy out to dry if they have to in order to protect the company. He'll be lucky if he doesn't end up getting sued when this goes real bad (and it will) before it's all over.
Don't fish off the company pier.
Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
Don't put your penis in your coworkers.
This post was edited on 7/2/18 at 10:57 am
Posted on 7/2/18 at 10:55 am to AUstar
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He is well liked by everyone that knows him. He has always been a family man, active in church, has two wonderful kids, etc.
I really feel for the kids in this situation and the wife he cheated on. Him not being able to keep his dick in his pants ruined a family and you come to TD complaining about how the mistress's parents are treating him.
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