re: The married and not having sex check in thread

If I offended you, I apologize...honestly...that was certainly not my intent...

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What did I say that was wrong? That you owned a cat? OhmyGod!

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I don’t even care about the cat thing - it was more concerning a previous post about how women blame their decisions on men - and I just don’t agree with that

You can go right over to Tam Bao and hear it for yourself. Or you can read evolutionary biology. For instance, did you know that the way all you ladies closed ranks and attacked me for nothing in particular, is a female trait? And that men have no similar corresponding trait, because we have to compete AGAINST each other in a way you don’t? And it’s more common for weak men “ in the tribe” to join in if a stronger man is being attacked by the women as it increases the weaker man’s standing in the sexual hierarchy? That’s the stuff that interests me.

And it amuses me when people think my perspective is a simpleton “ Woman Bad Man Good” perspective, because it’s not. I just tend to value an unpopular truth more than a false consensus.

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been a month and my eyes are starting to wander

Age, length of marriage, job stability, kids, age of kids, income, etc. all factor in to a woman's desire to have sex. The right combo and it's fire, the wrong combo and Rosie Palms is your best friend. The devil's combo and she's off servicing someone else.

Every woman's combo is different than each other. Good luck unlocking the right code.

Oh, the combo changes on a whim.

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6 years in the Buddhist temple

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Batman?

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don’t even care about the cat thing - it was more concerning a previous post about how women blame their decisions on men - and I just don’t agree with that

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Well you’d be wrong. There is no cultural requirement that women hold themselves personally accountable like there is for men. Men have an entirely different level of personal accountability. The tribe ( evolutionary biology) demands that we test men and protect women.

That’s why people are, on the extremely serious topic of sexless marriages, so eager to attribute it to the man who desperately wants sex. Look at the comments here- little dick, can’t frick ( aimed at me personally), aren’t emotionally available, expect too much etc. You will notice men are expected to acknowledge these things but women aren’t expected to acknowledge their responsibility to provide sex within the marriage. Because all responsibility falls on men in these conversations.

I made it clear-If a man doesn’t want sex you are hideous or he is gay. If a woman doesn’t want sex- list 45 things the man did wrong. That’s the game we all play in the feminized West without even realizing it.

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t's just untrue rhetoric that gets thrown around because men, particularly men in this #50 ranked state, can't come to terms with the fact that in this world you need to dig a little bit, reflect, have empathy for others. It's tough to do, I get it. If you can't do it, that's fine. Keep telling yourself you're better, and that it's a woman job to please a man, and that having emotions is a "feminine" trait. I'll keep on understanding that your stunted, and we'll see how that works out. I'm pretty secure in my position

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Thanks for bringing my point to a beautiful clarifying light:

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For instance, did you know that the way all you ladies closed ranks and attacked me for nothing in particular, is a female trait? And that men have no similar corresponding trait, because we have to compete AGAINST each other in a way you don’t? And it’s more common for weak men “ in the tribe” to join in if a stronger man is being attacked by the women as it increases the weaker man’s standing in the sexual hierarchy? That’s the stuff that interests me.

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Plays out exactly as I explained it does. lol.