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re: The married and not having sex check in thread

Posted on 7/17/24 at 5:56 pm to
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 5:56 pm to
And I thought you knew about sex…….
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 5:57 pm to
That is interesting.. did you attend a temple in the US? I may research if they have written books on this subject.
Posted by pussywillows
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 5:58 pm to
If I offended you, I apologize...honestly...that was certainly not my intent...
Posted by ronricks
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:08 pm to
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I'm quite happy.


Sure as hell doesn’t seem like it
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:11 pm to
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What did I say that was wrong? That you owned a cat? OhmyGod!
I don’t even care about the cat thing - it was more concerning a previous post about how women blame their decisions on men - and I just don’t agree with that
Posted by Kneereaux
Member since Jan 2019
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:14 pm to
Nope I’ve been married for 24 years and my wife is ready to go at the drop of a hat.
Posted by Lsupimp
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:16 pm to
You can go right over to Tam Bao and hear it for yourself. Or you can read evolutionary biology. For instance, did you know that the way all you ladies closed ranks and attacked me for nothing in particular, is a female trait? And that men have no similar corresponding trait, because we have to compete AGAINST each other in a way you don’t? And it’s more common for weak men “ in the tribe” to join in if a stronger man is being attacked by the women as it increases the weaker man’s standing in the sexual hierarchy? That’s the stuff that interests me.

And it amuses me when people think my perspective is a simpleton “ Woman Bad Man Good” perspective, because it’s not. I just tend to value an unpopular truth more than a false consensus.
Posted by LatinTiger30
New Orleans
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:17 pm to
Marriage sucks!
Posted by tiggah1981
Winterfell
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:20 pm to
in

been a month and my eyes are starting to wander
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:21 pm to
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nothing in particular,
really? A delusion Buddhist monk
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:21 pm to
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Not since april

Yeah, 3 months would not be cool with me.
Posted by Trauma14
Member since Aug 2010
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:23 pm to
Age, length of marriage, job stability, kids, age of kids, income, etc. all factor in to a woman's desire to have sex. The right combo and it's fire, the wrong combo and Rosie Palms is your best friend. The devil's combo and she's off servicing someone else.

Every woman's combo is different than each other. Good luck unlocking the right code.

Oh, the combo changes on a whim.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:23 pm to
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And it amuses me when people think my perspective is a simpleton “ Woman Bad Man Good” perspective, because it’s not. I just tend to value an unpopular truth more than a false consensus.


It's funny you think your perspective is the unpopular truth. You actually have the opinion the prevails most among men in this country. I know it sucks being standard and unoriginal, but that's what your opinion reflects.

As far as your hierarchical bit, I've been in the divorce threads where it seems like there's nothing but men getting downvoted. I have a real life with people I love. I say the things I say on this board, because I hope that one person can wake the frick up because I'm sick of having conversations with a guy I seem to like and then they start shite talking women and expect me to join in. My wife is a woman. Why would I disrespect her by generalizing? If I have a daughter I'd like to know that I never disrespected her by calling women less than men.

It's just untrue rhetoric that gets thrown around because men, particularly men in this #50 ranked state, can't come to terms with the fact that in this world you need to dig a little bit, reflect, have empathy for others. It's tough to do, I get it. If you can't do it, that's fine. Keep telling yourself you're better, and that it's a woman job to please a man, and that having emotions is a "feminine" trait. I'll keep on understanding that your stunted, and we'll see how that works out. I'm pretty secure in my position.
This post was edited on 7/17/24 at 6:25 pm
Posted by Slagathor
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:26 pm to
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6 years in the Buddhist temple


Batman?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:27 pm to
Never married seems like it was a good decision for me.
Posted by Lsupimp
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Member since Nov 2003
84097 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:28 pm to
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don’t even care about the cat thing - it was more concerning a previous post about how women blame their decisions on men - and I just don’t agree with that


Well you’d be wrong. There is no cultural requirement that women hold themselves personally accountable like there is for men. Men have an entirely different level of personal accountability. The tribe ( evolutionary biology) demands that we test men and protect women.

That’s why people are, on the extremely serious topic of sexless marriages, so eager to attribute it to the man who desperately wants sex. Look at the comments here- little dick, can’t frick ( aimed at me personally), aren’t emotionally available, expect too much etc. You will notice men are expected to acknowledge these things but women aren’t expected to acknowledge their responsibility to provide sex within the marriage. Because all responsibility falls on men in these conversations.

I made it clear-If a man doesn’t want sex you are hideous or he is gay. If a woman doesn’t want sex- list 45 things the man did wrong. That’s the game we all play in the feminized West without even realizing it.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:28 pm to
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been a month and my eyes are starting to wander
screenshotted to give to your wife
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
8678 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:30 pm to
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There is no cultural requirement that women hold themselves personally accountable like there is for men. Men have an entirely different level of personal accountability.


Brother if you truly believe this, you're currently not being accountable by shifting blame for what goes on in failed marriages.

You can understand this, right?
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:32 pm to


And your posts were coherently put together. Thank you for that
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84097 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 6:34 pm to
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t's just untrue rhetoric that gets thrown around because men, particularly men in this #50 ranked state, can't come to terms with the fact that in this world you need to dig a little bit, reflect, have empathy for others. It's tough to do, I get it. If you can't do it, that's fine. Keep telling yourself you're better, and that it's a woman job to please a man, and that having emotions is a "feminine" trait. I'll keep on understanding that your stunted, and we'll see how that works out. I'm pretty secure in my position


Thanks for bringing my point to a beautiful clarifying light:

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For instance, did you know that the way all you ladies closed ranks and attacked me for nothing in particular, is a female trait? And that men have no similar corresponding trait, because we have to compete AGAINST each other in a way you don’t? And it’s more common for weak men “ in the tribe” to join in if a stronger man is being attacked by the women as it increases the weaker man’s standing in the sexual hierarchy? That’s the stuff that interests me.


Plays out exactly as I explained it does. lol.
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