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re: Teen Daughter with a Broken Heart

Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:33 pm to
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10632 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:33 pm to
Getting involved in your teenage daughter’s love life isn’t advisable.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14954 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:35 pm to
quote:

Tell her to get some rebound dick and she will feel bette


Uuuuuh, no. And she’s a virgin. I’d like her to stay that way at least until college, preferably marriage.

Did I mention, she’s 15?
Posted by RIPMachoMan
Member since Jun 2011
8604 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:35 pm to
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How do I make her realize that she'll look back at this someday and wonder why she ever cared.


Correct answer is give her space then after a hot minute… take her to brunch, lunch, or dinner where she’d like to go and see if she wants to even talk about it. It’s okay if not but just do something fun she’d enjoy. More likely than not she’ll be willing to express what she’s ready for


<—simple man’s take
Posted by RIPMachoMan
Member since Jun 2011
8604 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:37 pm to
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Uuuuuh, no. And she’s a virgin. I’d like her to stay that way at least until college, preferably marriage. Did I mention, she’s 15?


I mean… perhaps don’t jump off the deep end when you realize some folks have sex in high school. In the most respectful way possible I mean that
Posted by Jaydeaux
Covington
Member since May 2005
19559 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:38 pm to
Nothing but time my friend
Posted by wrlakers
Member since Sep 2007
5901 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:46 pm to
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my daughter had a few boyfriends in HS, and I never got in her business. Just like my parents never got in mine. She will be ok.


This is the right answer. There is no need to go to great measures to fix anything. Breakups are part of life. Figuring out how to deal with them is part of learning resilience.

Do not take her to a lavish dinner or buy her ice cream. 15 years old is not the age to be taught that food is a coping mechanism.

Face that you cannot fix this and that she has to learn a life lesson.
Posted by LCLa
Member since Apr 2017
4408 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:47 pm to
It sucks

That is all

Wish I could help

You just gotta be there to help get her through it
Posted by POTUS2024
Member since Nov 2022
20943 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:52 pm to
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Unpopular opinion here…but my daughter had a few boyfriends in HS, and I never got in her business. Just like my parents never got in mine. She will be ok.


Tell us, Jenny, why are you on skid row?
My dad never showed any concern for me as a child. I made a few bad decisions but he didn't care and never said anything about it. I tried to figure things out on my own, but that led to some more bad decisions, and here I am, shooting heroin on skid row. I better get going, though, my pimp just drove up.
Posted by Lake08
Member since Jun 2023
2778 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:57 pm to
Stop posting on TD and talk to her
Posted by scottydoesntknow
Member since Nov 2023
10468 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:58 pm to
take her to get ice cream?
Posted by beaverfever
Arkansas
Member since Jan 2008
35468 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 7:59 pm to
quote:

Unpopular opinion here…but my daughter had a few boyfriends in HS, and I never got in her business. Just like my parents never got in mine. She will be ok.
One of my stronger memories from my teens is when I had my heart ripped out and my mom was clearly hurting for me. Parents showing love for their kids in pain won’t fix their pain but it’s still valuable.
Posted by Auburn80
Backwater, TN
Member since Nov 2017
9626 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:01 pm to
Sounds like it’s time for a father daughter date. Make it a good one at a classy restaurant.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
53750 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:02 pm to
She should view the situation as just a temporary hiatus in this acquaintanceship. There's no way to know whether in 1,2 or 3 years that they may find themselves once again in the same social circle, and Who knows what will happen then?

No need to see this as The End.
Posted by beaverfever
Arkansas
Member since Jan 2008
35468 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:08 pm to
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This is the right answer. There is no need to go to great measures to fix anything. Breakups are part of life. Figuring out how to deal with them is part of learning resilience.
Death of a loved one is a part of life that you have to deal with as well. They’re a lot easier to deal with when the people you love are available to you.
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34713 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:09 pm to
Give her a long hug and tell you will always love her and be there for her. Time will heal the hurt, even if it doesn't feel that way.
Posted by thumperpait
Member since Nov 2005
3608 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:11 pm to
Take her to the beauty salon and then get her nails done. Will cost but worth it.
Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18732 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:12 pm to
Where is mmmmmmcreampie when he is needed....
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
101520 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:14 pm to
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Advise


do a lot of listening. Not much advice you can give on.
Posted by Smeg
Member since Aug 2018
14550 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:17 pm to
Posted by TheosDeddy
Member since May 2024
1148 posts
Posted on 3/1/25 at 8:22 pm to
quote:

Dick down the boys mother


Bruh u frickin kill me so hard with this one i had to tell my wife why I was laughing so hard
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