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Spinoff: Divorce and physical attraction
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:02 pm
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:02 pm
Judging by the makeup thread, it seems like aging and looks is a big thing for OT baws. Anybody here have a marriage fall apart because physical attraction died?
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Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:06 pm to Jorts R Us
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physical attraction
I think its the cause of a lot of cheating
This post was edited on 3/30/16 at 2:12 pm
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:06 pm to Jorts R Us
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Anybody here have a marriage fall apart because physical attraction died?
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Jorts
This post was edited on 3/30/16 at 2:07 pm
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:08 pm to Jorts R Us
no one on this board. life is perfect for your average OTer....
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:16 pm to Jorts R Us
Not divorce but that was the main reason I broke it off with a 4 year relationship instead of proposing. We met our sophomore year in college, dated all the way thru, and a while after. She went from a petite hotty to literally fat. I'm not talking chubby...nearing obese. Weighed more than I did and it was getting worse. Horrible eating habits, no exercise, etc. We would get weird looks when out as I was in decent shape. I just couldn't commit myself to that.
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Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:18 pm to BabyTac
one of my ex girlfriends, dated her for 4 years. When we met she was fine! Bitch got fat and mean. Told her " You can be fat and nice or skinny and mean. You gotta have something going for ya" 
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:19 pm to Jorts R Us
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because physical attraction died?
pretty sure it would be one of the biggest reasons people divorce
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:20 pm to BabyTac
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BabyTac
did yall ever have talks about it? Like ask her to the gym with you or tell her you're concerned about her health?
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:23 pm to Topwater Trout
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pretty sure it would be one of the biggest reasons people divorce
Decreasing attraction, decreasing sex drives, less time, all result in less intimacy
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:25 pm to WG_Dawg
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did yall ever have talks about it? Like ask her to the gym with you or tell her you're concerned about her health?
Not only that...but did he try to be supportive of her losing weight? Did he try to encourage them to do active stuff together? Start eating healthy at home so she would be encouraged to eat better? Was she dealing with depression or some serious stuff(loss of family member, etc) that would have contributed to the massive weight gain?
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:29 pm to lsunurse
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Not only that...but did he try to be supportive of her losing weight? Did he try to encourage them to do active stuff together? Start eating healthy at home so she would be encouraged to eat better? Was she dealing with depression or some serious stuff(loss of family member, etc) that would have contributed to the massive weight gain?
no offense, but if you start gaining massive weight in your early 20s chances are high that will be a battle for the next 20 as well.
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:30 pm to lsunurse
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Not only that...but did he try to be supportive of her losing weight? Did he try to encourage them to do active stuff together? Start eating healthy at home so she would be encouraged to eat better? Was she dealing with depression or some serious stuff(loss of family member, etc) that would have contributed to the massive weight gain?
That sounds like a lot of work for him. If they weren't married it's probably not worth the effort. Plus once they have the propensity to put on weight that will be a constant battle. He said obese not just a few pounds.
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:31 pm to BigPerm30
i think we just said the same thingPosted on 3/30/16 at 2:32 pm to BigPerm30
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If they weren't married it's probably not worth the effort.
Yeah but they were together for 4 years.
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Plus once they have the propensity to put on weight that will be a constant battle. He said obese not just a few pounds.
Very true....but we still don't know if there were other issues at hand. If you are dating a chick for 4 years that blows up cause she is dealing with the death of her mom or something....you look like an a-hole dumping her unless you talked with her, offered support...and she still continued her unhealthy habits.
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:32 pm to CAD703X
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i think we just said the same thing
It's because it is the truth. I think you stated it a little more modestly.
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:39 pm to BabyTac
quote:Did she start farting a lot too? I bet she started farting a lot
Not divorce but that was the main reason I broke it off with a 4 year relationship instead of proposing. We met our sophomore year in college, dated all the way thru, and a while after. She went from a petite hotty to literally fat. I'm not talking chubby...nearing obese. Weighed more than I did and it was getting worse. Horrible eating habits, no exercise, etc. We would get weird looks when out as I was in decent shape. I just couldn't commit myself to that.
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:42 pm to WG_Dawg
She would act like I was obsessed with myself because I exercised. Very defensive and insecure. It would always start a fight if I suggested a program or any sort of encouragement towards being healthy.
I honestly don't think she realized how heavy she got. I got the impression that in her head she still thought she was the attractive girl she used to be.
I honestly don't think she realized how heavy she got. I got the impression that in her head she still thought she was the attractive girl she used to be.
This post was edited on 3/30/16 at 2:44 pm
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:43 pm to BabyTac
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She would act like I was obsessed with myself because I exercised
you should have just said "lol later. i'm off to shoot some hoops"
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:44 pm to BabyTac
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She would act like I was obsessed with myself because I exercised. Very defensive and insecure. It would always start a fight if I suggested a program or any sort of encouragement towards being healthy.
Oh well then you did good running away from that situation. A woman that doesn't work out at all should be a red flag for any man when dating.
Posted on 3/30/16 at 2:44 pm to Jorts R Us
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Anybody here have a marriage fall apart because physical attraction died?
yes & no....the diet pills worked but they also made her batshit crazy.
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