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re: Six months sober today

Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:18 pm to
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
37144 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:18 pm to
Congrats man, 6 months is a hell of an accomplishment.

As someone who relapsed a few times and now has years, I can say never get complacent.

It can take between 2-6 years for your brain to start fully working correctly again and at least 2 for you to start really getting into a good grove and not have to worry about cravings. Never put your guard down, especially not now.

It'll only get easier and better.

I really don't like 12 steps type programs, but it works for some. Anyways, my point is, find something that works for you.

Good luck. If you ever need someone to contact, for anything, just make a thread or respond to a post of mine and I'll give you my email. Not trying to sound cocky, but most things you'll go through the next year or so (cravings, making amends/patching up relationships, etc) I've been through and would love to be able to help anyone.

Good luck and prayers sent.
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68926 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:19 pm to
quote:

Funny how it always ends up being severe isolation at the end. I used to leave bars with friends just to go home and drink by myself


I didn't realize the shite I did until I got sober. I'd go to the casino to drink after the bars were closed. Wouldn't even gamble, didn't think much of it then.

Talking with a friend I tried to convince myself and him that I can go out and have 1 or 2 beers. I do it all the time. Then he said, well how much do you drink when you get home?
Posted by breauxmosexual
New Orleans, LA
Member since Aug 2016
2526 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:20 pm to
Good luck on your 13th step brotha, lots of thirsty young ladies in those rooms. Was easily the most fun step for me!
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
22064 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:22 pm to
I'd spend roughly $50 at the bar and then buy a bottle of Turkey and a six pack on the way home.

One of the benefits of being sober is I don't give a frick about getting pulled over. I know that's bad, but I would laugh at JUST getting a speeding ticket. You mean it's only $180. That's it. No probation. No classes. No drug testing. Cool. Here, take $360. I'll pay for the guy behind me in line.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36201 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:24 pm to
Posted by Blob Fish
Member since Mar 2016
3091 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:35 pm to
Congrats, man. Fear not about the troubles with social life. The same resolve it takes to quit booze will take you even farther socially. It really is an attitude that will benefit you in all things. It's a completely new beginning. Best of luck.
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68926 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:41 pm to
Oh trust me, how much money and time was wasted. The first time around I didn't want to listen. I said to myself I wasn't like them, I was in control. How wrong I was.
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
22064 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:47 pm to
Hey, I had plenty of fun. I don't want to moderate or be in control.

I was a professional partier.

frick playing intramurals.

Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68926 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 11:51 pm to
Oh I had fun, but I wanted my life back and certainly don't want to spend the next 10 years or so in jail.

At the end I was just filled with so much hate and anger.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 12:01 am to
Glad I could help. I'm proud of you
Posted by idlewatcher
County Jail
Member since Jan 2012
79357 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 12:13 am to
Keep up steam brother. You should be proud! (no pun intended )
Posted by PaperPaintball92
Fly Navy
Member since Aug 2010
5297 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 12:27 am to
Congrats
Posted by BoomBoomBoom
Member since Oct 2013
939 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 1:36 am to
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54231 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 1:54 am to
You definitely have my respect. I went through the pangs of alcoholism with my dad. We had a very close relationship but he couldn't let go of the booze. Hell, I've seen him drink a half pint of whiskey before going to teach his Sunday school class at church to either settle his nerves or get up his nerve. I never really knew which.

Anyway, he had a real embarrassing moment that put me over the top with him one day. As he was checking out what he had cooking on the pit, I made up my mind to finally face him about his problem. After a heated exchange, I told him that if he didn't do something about his problem I would never be back.

Three days later he called me from the hospital to say he was drying out. I can honestly say he never took another drop of whiskey or beer.
Posted by fatboydave
Fat boy land
Member since Aug 2004
17979 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 7:09 am to
Congrats. Keep it up.
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
36238 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 7:09 am to
Congrats man. It'll be nine months for me next week.
Posted by ole man
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
11761 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 7:17 am to
My worst day sober is better than my best day drinking be 37 years Aug 12 2017
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21491 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 7:42 am to
Posted by CaptainJ47
Gonzales
Member since Nov 2007
7366 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 7:47 am to
Jealous man. Any tips?
Posted by weptiger
Georgia
Member since Feb 2007
10364 posts
Posted on 5/17/17 at 8:23 am to
Congrats...seriously. As for the gif, too soon?
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