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re: Since the average age for first marriage is now 29 for men & 28 for women

Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:20 pm to
Posted by Air Force One
Member since Dec 2023
47 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:20 pm to
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Sorry, no. Make men grow up.


Just tell your daughter to not be a slut & to not wait until later than 25 to lock down a husband and she will be ok.
If she waits until she's almost 30, and piled up more than a few bodies, then no guy will want to marry her and she will die alone with her cats & boxed wine.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:20 pm to
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People don't like facts, especially that GreenRock chick.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:25 pm to
Can we just redirect for a second? Like serious conversation? If not, I can bow out but I want a serious answer.

She is saving herself. What makes you think she wants a guys who has a bunch of bodies? That’s fricking nasty. Lock down just any man before 25? Hell no. She can wait for a quality man. So why don’t men tighten up as well? Call on young men to be quality husbands. Wouldn’t that be better? Or do we just pile blame on women?

Oh, she is more of a rabbit lady than cat. But loves wine so she may be fine either way,
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:27 pm
Posted by Air Force One
Member since Dec 2023
47 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:28 pm to
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She is saving herself.


Perfect !
She is going to be prime real estate & in demand as long as she doesn't wait too long to get married, well if she's also hot.
I mean if she is a fat ugly virgin it won't matter.
But if she is a hot virgin, she is a man's #1 choice.
Good for her.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:29 pm
Posted by Deplorableinohio
Member since Dec 2018
7927 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:28 pm to
I have a solution.

Open borders.
Posted by madamtiger
Colorado
Member since Jan 2004
1628 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:33 pm to
I think she’s beautiful but obviously I’m biased. But not fat and ugly. Lol.

Honestly, it’s very frustrating for her in this dating age, so she doesn’t. If she doesn’t find a quality mate by 25, she needs to continue to wait. I’ve seen my share of bad marriages in my family. We don’t want another one.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 9:36 pm
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:37 pm to
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If nothing else, you’re entertaining


I get that a lot
Posted by scottydoesntknow
Member since Nov 2023
10870 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:43 pm to
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it’s not bullshite - two of the women I know had their first children at 42. One of the women I know had her first child at 44. The other ones I know had other children already. The women I know who are religious and have plenty of children are having children that late. My grandmother had her 9th child when she was 42. Not sure why you think that is bullshite.


Well you only specifically mentioned 4...I know of only two women that have had kids 40+(they were both 40). Im also inclined to believe if a woman has had several kids, she is fertile and more than likely would be able to conceive easier at an older age.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
6315 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:46 pm to
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Women's fertility and value as a woman ends at 30, 35 at the latest.


Well wife and I our in our early 50s and we have a 25, 16, and 12 year old. She still hasnt hit menopause either. No idea why I’m adding this info to the discussion but I also know several women who’ve had kids in late 30s and early 40s.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
6315 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:50 pm to
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and girls like her get shite on because they are holding out for a quality man



No offense but there are plenty of girls and guys like this and they aren’t getting shite on or made fun of. TD also acts like 99% of college kids are whores and drug addicts and if anything todays college kids are more well behaved then my age group was 30 years ago
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:54 pm to
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Well you only specifically mentioned 4.
ok, I’ll name the rest - I know a woman who had her 11th at 47, another woman who had her second at 46, another woman who had her sixth at 47, a woman who had her 7th at 44, a woman that had her eighth at 43, and a woman that had her fourth at 44. None of these children have special needs.

However the woman who had her sixth at 47, her eldest daughter she had when she was 21 was born with special needs.

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she is fertile and more than likely would be able to conceive easier at an older age.
yes I think this, too.
Posted by Norbert
Member since Oct 2018
3696 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:58 pm to
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But man, these threads are so anti-woman.


Well, yeah.

As on online sports message board, it is overrepresented by socially awkward men who are embittered by their lack of success with women, such as the OP.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 10:03 pm
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
6315 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 9:58 pm to
My grandmother was 46 when my dad was born. My wife had youngest at 39, SIL had only child at 40. Also have plenty of coworkers and friends who had kids late 30s and 40s. No doubt it is probably more difficult, but some in here acting like it’s damn near impossible is just dumb
Posted by PGAOLDBawNeVaBroke
Member since Dec 2023
1051 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:09 pm to
More incel math
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
2970 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:10 pm to
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age rage


Is that another one of those menopause problems?
Posted by SmelvinRat
Slumwoody
Member since Oct 2015
2076 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:31 pm to


South Korea is worse off than Japan:

"According to StatisticsTimes.com, South Korea's population is projected to decrease from 51.35 million in 2024 to 29.54 million by 2100. The UN projects that South Korea's population will be similar to what it was in 1960 by 2100"
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21660 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:47 pm to
I was 38 and my wife was 33 when we got married. We have three healthy beautiful children

ETA: our youngest is turning 4 this year.
This post was edited on 2/18/24 at 10:49 pm
Posted by ReauxlTide222
St. Petersburg
Member since Nov 2010
91527 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:58 pm to
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Why do you think they’re letting immigrants in? Only way to avoid the economic collapse that is unavoidable at this point in Europe and China
Letting immigrants in is the only way to avoid economic collapse?

And I’ve seen it posted 1000 times, but y’all wake me up when China collapses. If their demise is inevitable and sooner rather than later, I don’t think they’d still be feared as much as they are.

They just killed how many millions of people and no country’s government is even mad at them We’ve bent over backwards to avoid blaming them
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
22594 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 11:39 pm to
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And they are taking on baggage in that time period in terms of relationships.


100%

I had a girl make this point to me indirectly, years ago now. She was very self aware. I assume she was working through why her relationship was struggling.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
22594 posts
Posted on 2/18/24 at 11:56 pm to
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Men are just as bad or it worse in their 20s.


Yes

And it goes back to the damage our culture has sustained.

It started becoming a major issue after WW2.

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the puer typically leads a "provisional life" due to the fear of being caught in a situation from which it might not be possible to escape. The puer covets independence and freedom, opposes boundaries and limits and tends to find any restriction intolerable.[1]


LINK

The problem is that boys are no longer growing up to become men the way we did 100 years ago. It does happen, but it’s no longer universal, you have a substantial number of man children, and when adulthood occurs, it occurs later than is healthy and normal.
This post was edited on 2/19/24 at 12:04 am
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