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re: Should I say something to the father?
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:33 am to Sevendust912
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:33 am to Sevendust912
This post was edited on 9/29/20 at 6:53 pm
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Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:36 am to SPEEDY
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Unless they are of the mud variety
touche
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:40 am to Sevendust912
just a strange thread.... without knowing your relationship with the parents/kids and witnessing the situation, it's hard to say... on the surface, the OP seems kinda creepy... but as others have mentioned, this girl having some sort of mental handicap or being LD seems like a strong possibility.
sounds like there's more background to this story
sounds like there's more background to this story
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:44 am to lsuallsportsfan
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Yes, you should speak up, then her family can decide if there is an issue and deal with it.
THIS is the answer.........
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:49 am to Spirit of Dunson
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So boys and girls were talking to each other, and you want to tell her dad?
Yeah seriously. Calm down psycho.
Also, you come off as seriously creepy for so astutely observing this, and also taking time to note that she's "physically developed".
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:51 am to Grateful Reb
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:54 am to Sevendust912
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Sharks? Come on man, teenagers will be teenagers.
I was a shark once too bro. I speak from experience.
shite changes the older you get. You realize your parents weren't as dumb as you though pt they were.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:57 am to Grateful Reb
And how do you know he was sizing you up as opposed to just having normal, casual conversation? You seem insecure and a bit odd.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 10:59 am to cas4t
Well, I talked to the father and let him know what I observed. He took in what I said and thanked me.
I just wanted to share the info with him, and let him decide of it worth doing anything with.
Like I said, I view this girl as a daughter. Her father and mother have been very good friends to me and my wife.
I know some people like acting like assholes, but I do not apologize for acting in the interest of a friend. If the shoe was on the other foot I would any friend to do the same for me.
I have a 3 year old daughter and I cringe thinking about what boys will be like when she becomes a teenager.
I am an adult, it's not my job to help young boys get laid, especially when it comes to somebody I know.
I just wanted to share the info with him, and let him decide of it worth doing anything with.
Like I said, I view this girl as a daughter. Her father and mother have been very good friends to me and my wife.
I know some people like acting like assholes, but I do not apologize for acting in the interest of a friend. If the shoe was on the other foot I would any friend to do the same for me.
I have a 3 year old daughter and I cringe thinking about what boys will be like when she becomes a teenager.
I am an adult, it's not my job to help young boys get laid, especially when it comes to somebody I know.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:00 am to Grateful Reb
Well I was there and you were not. So you can take my word for it or not.
I could not care less which one you choose.
I could not care less which one you choose.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:04 am to bigpetedatiga
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I could not care less which one you choose.
Yet, you still chose to address it. You're making a strong case for beta poster of the year. Staring a middle schooler dead in the eye and refusing to let him "size you up" takes gaul. I applaud you.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:05 am to bigpetedatiga
If this girl is over 12. Leave it alone. She gonna learn one day.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:07 am to bigpetedatiga
You and the girl's family cannot insulate and coddle this girl forever. The more you guys act on this type of stuff the more she's going to seek out that attention from guys. If she's determined to have sex she will.
But go ahead and keep thinking you can keep her pure and pristine against her will.
But go ahead and keep thinking you can keep her pure and pristine against her will.
This post was edited on 3/30/14 at 11:09 am
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:08 am to bigpetedatiga
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I am an adult, it's not my job to help young boys get laid
No but it's not your job to be a cock block either.
As I said, teenagers are going to have sex so you should just accept it.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:17 am to SabiDojo
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.1) Girls aren't as naive and innocent as you like to think.
2. How close are you to the family that you feel it was your place to tell the girl to go to the team's camp?
3. If you feel the need to say something to the parents, go ahead, but it might not go over as you planned.
1) Agreed. She may want the attention & told the guys the do not do act that when my Brother is around . He will, tell my overbearing Parents.
3)Agreed. The Father or Mother may think he is implying something is 'fast' or 'sneaky' about their daughter.
These are young adults & as long as no one is doing anything dangerous/illegal the OP should mind his business.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:22 am to Sevendust912
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As I said, teenagers are going to have sex so you should just accept it.
Sure but the answer isn't to send our children off into the world without any guidance at all. If she's starting to get this kind of attention of boys in that way then it's past time to talk to her. And the parents should be made aware of the situation if they aren't already.
The parents should also keep their eyes out for her being taken advantage of because that does happen to teenagers.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:24 am to sugar71
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These are young adults & as long as no one is doing anything dangerous/illegal the OP should mind his business.
They aren't young adults. Young adults in our society are aged about 18-22. High school kids barely aren't children.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:24 am to bigpetedatiga
The different schools thing is weird. I'm guessing there is a real problem, and not just an amateur assessment she's immature (impairment or something?).
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:32 am to bigpetedatiga
Did you ever mention how old the girl in question is? Sounds like you're making a big deal out of teenagers flirting. If she's like 12 and they're 16 it's a different story, but if everyone in question is 15-16 years old, you sound ridiculous.
Posted on 3/30/14 at 11:37 am to bigpetedatiga
Is she mentally handicapped? If not, it seems hard to believe that she's so naive that she doesn't understand what guys her age are up to.
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