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re: Should I say something to my beta friend?

Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:17 pm to
Posted by Boudreaux35
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:17 pm to
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Matthew is beta as hell with his GF and dotes on her constantly. She doesn't come close to returning his levels of affection.



Still doesn't make the fact that you're fricking her right!
Posted by NashBamaFan
Nashville
Member since Mar 2011
3136 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:19 pm to
This same part of this cringe worthy op is what gives it away that he's talking about himself. He's bothered that he has a pic of the two of them and she's keeping her options open because SirWinston acts like a 13 yr old.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46212 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:21 pm to
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thoughts?

I think it's a little creepy that you are stalking your friend's facebook profile. And mind your own business.
Posted by tigerstripedjacket
This side of the wall
Member since Sep 2011
3147 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

(not quite the 9 year gap that I've achieved


PICS or GTFO
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:33 pm to
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59350 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:34 pm to
Forcing yourself into another couples problems is always a good idea, especially if you come at them with problems you've made up in your head. Why are you spending so much time monitorIng her Facebook?
Posted by SirWinston
Say NO to War
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:49 pm to
I'm not stalking - I messaged him to thank him for writing a letter of recommendation and I noticed that his profile pic is of couple and then later she posted a pic of herself and her pic is solo.

Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:52 pm to
quote:

she posted a pic of herself


Well?
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:54 pm to
quote:

Kid is 32 or 33 and like most solid bros he's dating down 6 or 7 years (not quite the 9 year gap that I've achieved, but still impressive).



Uhh you think dating 9 years younger when you're in your early thirties is cool?
Posted by SirWinston
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Member since Jul 2014
104464 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:56 pm to
I'm in my mid 30's and yah it's cool. I'm going to be in my prime for at least another 10 years so it is good to have her in her prime during the same time.

Also apologies to those who griped about my vernacular - as many of you know I hail from the UK so I revert back to the King's on occasion, mates.
Posted by PacLSU
I have been a
Member since Sep 2003
3661 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:58 pm to
You sound very worried about your "friend's" relationship. I mean very worried. Worried he's not being treated right. Maybe not being treated as well as you could treat him? I wish you the best, buddy. Hope you and your "friend" can work everything out.
Posted by wheelr
New Iberia
Member since Jul 2012
6232 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 1:58 pm to
quote:

Typical situation where me mate Matthew is beta as hell with his GF and dotes on her constantly. She doesn't come close to returning his levels of affection.


Perhaps she likes to keep things private. You should try peeking in their windows to find out.

quote:

Lots of qualitative real life examples, but best concrete example is that his Facebook profile pic is of him and her together while HER profile pic is just of herself. WTF?


Not a great example.
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12489 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 2:03 pm to
If you're messaging him on Facebook to communicate then you're obviously not very close "mates". Maybe you should mind your own business and leave him alone. Also, stop trying to sound cool to impress the OT. Your OP was cringe worthy
Posted by illuminatic
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Member since Sep 2012
7049 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 2:06 pm to
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Also apologies to those who griped about my vernacular - as many of you know I hail from the UK


I didn't know this. I'd like to apologize for labeling you as some weird kid from like Terrebonne Parish who used British slang. So I'm sorry. You're still a frick boy though.
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13494 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 2:26 pm to
quote:

(not quite the 9 year gap that I've achieved, but still impressive)
come back when you can beat my 12 year gap (don't worry i'm over 30)
Posted by Hog on the Hill
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Member since Jun 2009
13494 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 2:28 pm to
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Uhh you think dating 9 years younger when you're in your early thirties is cool?
Why not? If the woman has the qualities you're looking for, there's nothing wrong with dating someone much younger than you.
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 2:33 pm to
quote:

Why not? If the woman has the qualities you're looking for, there's nothing wrong with dating someone much younger than you.



Usually shows a level of emotional immaturity in my experience
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13494 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 2:45 pm to
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Usually shows a level of emotional immaturity in my experience
I understand why your personal experience might bias your judgment in such a case, but do you think there's something inherently wrong with a man dating a significantly younger woman?

I think it's so incredibly contextual that it's impossible to judge without knowing the details.
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3414 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 3:17 pm to
Clearly he should smash another younger girl in front of her to show his dominance.

Or you and him both could quit acting like high school kids.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
30970 posts
Posted on 12/9/15 at 3:23 pm to
Your friend sounds like a poor ditch digger. You sound like you live with your grandma.
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