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re: Should I be ashamed?

Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:14 pm to
Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
40959 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:14 pm to
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Although, we were never officially exclusive


You fricked up here if you have any emotions for her at all.

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I was loyal and made her a top priority but was never overbearing or pushed the issue on if we were exclusive.


If you're not exclusive, who do you need to be loyal to? Yourself? Sloots gonna sloot. Chalk this one up as a learning lesson.

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I just walked out and drove home. She's been blowing up my phones with texts. But to those of you who think I am passive aggressive, you are right. I haven't read a single one.

Although not officially exclusive, from an ego standpoint I wasn't cool with someone else tagging in at any time. So, I knew I was over her when I saw the smoking gun on Friday.

Perhaps, I should have taken the higher road and just faded away.


Happens bro
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 10:15 pm
Posted by tigerjjs
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2006
1361 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:15 pm to
Don't be ashamed. Your instincts were right and a drive by is fine to do. She has poor morals and there are too many good women out there for you to waste your time on a whore like that.
Posted by Old Money
LSU
Member since Sep 2012
40959 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:19 pm to
As creep as it sounds, the only reason I knew my ex (gf at the time) was lying to me was when I checked her phone/stalked her arse one day. Saved me heartache in the long run.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 10:19 pm
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15899 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:19 pm to
what if the guy was her brother, cousin, gay, second cousin, friend who drunk and needed a place to stay, ect?


Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
69416 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:19 pm to
How does this guy show up to friends BBQ?

You must have asked who he was or known him already?

If you aren't pursuing other women why not make it exclusive?
Posted by wallowinit
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
17024 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:20 pm to
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tell her u fk'd around on her the 2nd week into the relationship and just hung around 'cuz u felt sorry for her


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oh, and tell her she fat
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:20 pm to
Because she probably would have said so
Posted by LaBornNRaised
Loomis blows
Member since Feb 2011
11010 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:21 pm to
She would have told him she was hanging with a relative if that was the case. Why would she keep that a secret considering she broke off plans?

She didnt tell him who it was because she was hiding it. You dont hide your brother/cousin coming over.
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15899 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:26 pm to
so you never heard of a person being embarrassed of their sibling/relative. happens all the time
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:28 pm to
Would you rather be labeled a cheater or admit to an embarrassing sibling? C'Mon dude, she cheated and got caught. End of story.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:28 pm to
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Why would she keep that a secret considering she broke off plans




She broke off plans to frick another dude. If that doesn't tell you where you stand I don't know what to tell you.



That't the reason I told him he didn't owe the hoe an explanation.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:30 pm to
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That't the reason I told him he didn't owe the hoe an explanation.



It's not about owing her anything. It's about making sure both parties no it's over. And it sounds like he needed the closure more than she did.
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8892 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:31 pm to
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You must have asked who he was or known him already?


I'm assuming he's a co-worker of hers. It was a beach/lake set-up where you drive right up. There was about 20 cars there. One of those unofficial one lanes in. Recognized the car instantly coming down the road and then he sought her out and greeted her right after parking. When leaving, I confirmed the same Stanford license plate accessory that I saw in the driveway.

The mutual friends, a couple, are how I originally met her - she's a co-worker of one of them. I had never seen the guy before but in fairness he was pleasant the moment that we were chatting in a group together.

Although, he was talking about soccer which doesn't completely discredit the gay theory...
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:36 pm to
I am sorry Lester, for some reason I got a little aggravated over her treatment of you. I still stand behind the frick all of her friends and relatives statement.
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:37 pm to
I might have handled it differently. By either way, call it. Time of death, 4 am. It's over.

Keep in mind that Mister C Class Stanford Plates Finger Blaster might have no idea she was seeing you before he slipped in. Don't blame him.

Posted by Puck82
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23947 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:37 pm to
So this chick invited the dude knowing you would be there? Or did the couple invite him? Either way it's shitty because if Stanford is a coworker of your ex and the couple you better believe the couple knew she was playing you or both of you.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 10:38 pm
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:38 pm to
Was he really bragging about his night with her?

Was it common knowledge amongst the group that yall were an item?

We're the three of you ever in the group together?
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15899 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:38 pm to
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End of story.
maybe. Won't know until you are less cryptic with what you're saying.

If something is wrong, be straight forward.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 10:40 pm
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:39 pm to
How am I being cryptic?
Posted by Walking the Earth
Member since Feb 2013
17390 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 10:40 pm to
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When leaving, I confirmed the same Stanford license plate accessory that I saw in the driveway.


On a bright side, losing out to a Stanford grad isn't a crime. It's not like he's the stockboy at Ralph's.

But, in all seriousness, it looks like this relationship is done. Anything from this is just to fill your need for closure before moving on to better pastures. Best of luck.
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