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re: Ross Harris found guilty on all 8 counts in the death of his kid.

Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:08 pm to
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76769 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:08 pm to
i'm a very forgetful person. I thank God I raised my kids to adulthood without something like this happening. I'm pretty sure i would not be able to live with that guilt.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:11 pm to
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i'm a very forgetful person. I thank God I raised my kids to adulthood without something like this happening. I'm pretty sure i would not be able to live with that guilt.


I legitimately get queasy even reading an article about it happening to someone else. I hope to never find out if I could deal with it.

From here on out my wife and I will have multiple kids going to daycare and what not. I'd imagine that provides an added layer of prevention having two or more kids in the back seat.
This post was edited on 11/14/16 at 3:12 pm
Posted by mikrit54
Robeline
Member since Oct 2013
8664 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:12 pm to
frick him. Hope he rides the needle.
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:15 pm to
When they read the verdict to him, he had zero reaction. Cold, just cold.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32880 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:16 pm to
Posted by JETigER
LSU 2011 National Champions
Member since Dec 2003
7081 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:16 pm to
I think they should have forced him to legally marry Casey Anthony and if he doesn't provide for her every need he gets burned alive.
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
67239 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:18 pm to
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i mean.. no one can be that cruel.......can they?



Pretty sure the jury just punished him for being a sicko that cheated on hi wife.
Posted by sandwolf
Member since Jun 2015
61 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:19 pm to
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How in the hell does that happen?



I can definitely see how it could happen.

For instance, my wife takes our 17 month old to daycare every morning, but every once in a while she will need to go in to work early and I will take him in.....and after spending half an hour fighting traffic, listening to talk radio, etc., it is easy to fall back into your normal morning routine. There have been a couple of times that I have exited off of the interstate and turned right to go to work instead of turning left to go to daycare...fortunately I have always realized it, but it scared the shite out of me thinking about what might have happened if I had been running late to an early meeting or something like that.

I have started putting my briefcase in my back seat next to the car seat every day, so that I have to see an empty car seat before I walk into the office.

Posted by biggsc
Member since Mar 2009
34777 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:20 pm to
Rot in hell. POS
Posted by sandwolf
Member since Jun 2015
61 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:23 pm to
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Baby sleeping quietly in the back. Stressed out parent that doesn't normally take child to daycare goes on Auto pilot headed to work. It happens frequently. Most of the time the parent catches themselves at some point, but there are far too many times they don't.


Yep. It's not that hard to see how it could happen.
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
67239 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:23 pm to
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I think that was proven to not be true in the trial.



Pretty sure it was based on listening to the podcast about it. The police released a number of statements that were untrue to poison the well.

The need an escape thing could be translated a number of ways with many not meaning he'd kill his kid.
This post was edited on 11/14/16 at 3:27 pm
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:25 pm to
Holy crap! There are many ways to escape responsibilities. Not saying any are completely acceptable but killing a kid is a little extreme.

Yeh, if true, he needs to be introduced to the biggest meanest psycho in the joint, tonite, dressed in a tight leather skirt and a blonde wig.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:26 pm to
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It can and could happen to anyone. I'd beg any parent to not get too high and mighty thinking they could never make a mistake.


I can't, and I'm tired of fricking saying it. All it takes is paying attention to the very real fact that you have your own child in the backseat with you. If that's too much for someone, then kids are probably not their thing.

Not once...ever...and it wasn't even close...did I forget my children were with me. For frick's sake...the lengths people will go through to excuse the inexcusable shite we do...
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
67239 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:26 pm to
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For instance, my wife takes our 17 month old to daycare every morning, but every once in a while she will need to go in to work early and I will take him in.....and after spending half an hour fighting traffic, listening to talk radio, etc., it is easy to fall back into your normal morning routine. There have been a couple of times that I have exited off of the interstate and turned right to go to work instead of turning left to go to daycare...fortunately I have always realized it, but it scared the shite out of me thinking about what might have happened if I had been running late to an early meeting or something like that.

I have started putting my briefcase in my back seat next to the car seat every day, so that I have to see an empty car seat before I walk into the office.


Years ago I drive all the way to the office with my 8 year old in the back. I drive him to day care every day and it still happened. He was playing on his ipad the whole time with headphones and didn't realize he was back there until I grabbed my backpack out of the back seat. Something I started intentionally leaving there after all these cases in the media.

I got thrown off because my route had to change due to an accident that shut down the road I usually take.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:28 pm to
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Always that one a-hole in these threads.


coming from you...wow.

quote:

Congrats on your mistake-free life.


Not mistake free...just not nearly cooking my kids type of mistakes. That's the type of mistake that's EASY not to commit.
Posted by TennesseeFan25
Honolulu
Member since May 2016
8391 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:29 pm to
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No...it can't, assuming you're not so self absorbed that you remember you're responsible for a living thing in the back seat. I say this as a father of two boys, who works from home and had both of them for long stretches when they were not in daycare before they started kindergarten. If you forget your kid is in the backseat, it's because he's not a priority to you... To this day, even though they are 14 and 9 respectively, I still occasionally glance in the backseat when running errands during the day out of habit from doing it countless times when they were young. This bullshite excuse needs to die.


I agree with you to an extent, there is never any excuse, whether it's an accident or not.

I have had something similar though. Holiday leave, wife was off work for a month or so and there was no dropping off my 1 year old at daycare during that time.

Get back to our normal routine, one morning I'm thinking about the job just driving in, reach the work parking lot and realize he's still in the back seat.

Very unnerving feeling.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
79733 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:30 pm to
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the lengths people will go through to excuse the inexcusable shite we do...


I never said it was an excuse. I'm just saying no one is above it happening. Because it only takes one time. I always talk to my toddler in the car so it's very unlikely I would ever forget he's there. Plus, he's super chatty. But I hope I never EVER become complacent, and then I'm the one saying I thought it would never happen to me.
This post was edited on 11/14/16 at 3:35 pm
Posted by biggsc
Member since Mar 2009
34777 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:30 pm to
My sister was in the same class as that POS
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:31 pm to
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I can't, and I'm tired of fricking saying it. All it takes is paying attention to the very real fact that you have your own child in the backseat with you. If that's too much for someone, then kids are probably not their thing. Not once...ever...and it wasn't even close...did I forget my children were with me


You've already explained your situation, and your situation isn't close to the dynamics usually at play when this happens.

Every parent in the world has a momentary lapse. It doesn't take rocket science to realize that tragedy can strike if things line up a certain way.
Posted by Mad_Mardigan
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2012
1967 posts
Posted on 11/14/16 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

I can't, and I'm tired of fricking saying it. All it takes is paying attention to the very real fact that you have your own child in the backseat with you. If that's too much for someone, then kids are probably not their thing.

Not once...ever...and it wasn't even close...did I forget my children were with me. For frick's sake...the lengths people will go through to excuse the inexcusable shite we do...


I'm with you man. Making excuses for this shite blows me away.
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